My ex never did care for the Lust After Me, and the ylang ylang made him sneeze. I know you can get different scent packages…maybe something about your scent was (like Lor said), messing with his sinuses. Try the Essence of Woman (up your dosage a little…put it on your pressure points…neck and wrists, and then put a couple drops in your cleavage), and try it with a few blasts of Instant Sexiness A…I never did get good results with Mix B…doesn’t blend well with me personality-wise.