# Please help me with my choice. **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 6, 2010, 3:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-help-me-with-my-choice/39137 "2010-06-06T03:46:24Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Nicoli](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/919ad9/32.png) [@Nicoli](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nicoli)\ **Post date:** [June 6, 2010, 3:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-help-me-with-my-choice/39137/1 "2010-06-06T03:46:24Z")
Hi, Can you please recommend me which one is the best for 34 yo beginner. 😃 No heavy scents please.😮 Thanks to all in advance.🙂 ---
**Author:** ![mr\_clavet](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/d2c977/32.png) [@mr\_clavet](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mr_clavet)\ **Post date:** [June 6, 2010, 4:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-help-me-with-my-choice/39137/2 "2010-06-06T04:23:15Z")
Hi Nicoli, It’s hard to answer to that question when we don’t know what kind of person you are and what do you want to achieve with [pheromones](https://a314.com/). Also, if you want to receive your GC, you should tell us more about you. What kind of personnalty do you have? Are you shy? Sociable? What are your goals with pheromones? ---
**Author:** ![Nicoli](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/919ad9/32.png) [@Nicoli](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nicoli)\ **Post date:** [June 6, 2010, 4:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-help-me-with-my-choice/39137/3 "2010-06-06T04:39:34Z")
> [@mr\_clavet](#): > > Hi Nicoli, > It’s hard to answer to that question when we don’t know what kind of person you are and what do you want to achieve with pheromones. > Also, if you want to receive your GC, you should tell us more about you. What kind of personnalty do you have? Are you shy? Sociable? What are your goals with pheromones? I am a very shy person. 🙄 I am surrounded by good friends but I don’t feel that they like me enough and willing to spend more time with me. Not to mention my co-workers who don’t really know me because I seem to be a closed book even for myself. I don’t think I am a bad person, just too average and apparently not attractive for communication. Along with that I do not want to get too exited under pheromones to not hanging on every single person walking by my cube. 😕 And, of course, a man involved who does not give me the desired attention. 😠 ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [June 6, 2010, 5:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-help-me-with-my-choice/39137/4 "2010-06-06T05:07:47Z")
Hi Nicole, welcome to the forum! To help with shyness, use [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). Instant Openness will relax you and those around you, everyone will be friendlier and conversation will flow more easily and freely. To help create and strengthen emotional bonds, go with Instant Honesty. Instant Honesty will add depth and intimacy to conversation, others will feel more comfortable with you and be more likely to trust you and open up to you. ---
**Author:** ![Nicoli](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/919ad9/32.png) [@Nicoli](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nicoli)\ **Post date:** [June 6, 2010, 5:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-help-me-with-my-choice/39137/5 "2010-06-06T17:04:56Z")
> [@Sillykitty](#): > > Hi Nicole, welcome to the forum! > > To help with shyness, use Instant Openness. Instant Openness will relax you and those around you, everyone will be friendlier and conversation will flow more easily and freely. > > To help create and strengthen emotional bonds, go with Instant Honesty. Instant Honesty will add depth and intimacy to conversation, others will feel more comfortable with you and be more likely to trust you and open up to you. Thank you very much. Can I mix it up with my regular perfume or it should be a stand alone scent for better effect? ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2010, 7:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-help-me-with-my-choice/39137/6 "2010-06-07T19:23:08Z")
> [@Nicoli](#): > > Thank you very much. Can I mix it up with my regular perfume or it should be a stand alone scent for better effect? These products can be used alone or layered with your own fragrances. The standard scent is “neroli”, which is a light orange citrus scent that goes well with just about any other fragrance. They can also be customized with a few other choices of fragrances such as grapefruit, chocolatini, etc. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2010, 8:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-help-me-with-my-choice/39137/7 "2010-06-07T20:54:08Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course Steve is available to answer any question you might have regarding mones and you can speak to him personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and he will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.