# Please Post Some Things You Wish You Knew eariler **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [September 24, 2010, 2:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-post-some-things-you-wish-you-knew-eariler/42011 "2010-09-24T02:55:58Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Aggie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f07891/32.png) [@Aggie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Aggie)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2010, 2:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-post-some-things-you-wish-you-knew-eariler/42011/1 "2010-09-24T02:55:58Z")
We all have things that we wish we would have known sooner, maybe something about how to get girls to like you, how to be a better salesman, how to be more confient in yourself. Anything! Tell us here, and we will learn from your mistakes or knowledge! ---
**Author:** ![PheroJack](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherojack/32/527_2.png) [@PheroJack](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroJack)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2010, 3:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-post-some-things-you-wish-you-knew-eariler/42011/2 "2010-09-24T03:19:40Z")
how can I get girls to like me? ---
**Author:** ![bestintel](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bestintel/32/1883_2.png) [@bestintel](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bestintel)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2010, 3:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-post-some-things-you-wish-you-knew-eariler/42011/3 "2010-09-24T03:50:43Z")
I wish that I would have found Pherotalk sooner I think I could have caused alot more damage in college than what I did. I also wish i would have learned that it is our own insecurities that make men not attractive to women, as my dad said it confidence is the key. ---
**Author:** ![Misein](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7bcc69/32.png) [@Misein](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Misein)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2010, 6:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-post-some-things-you-wish-you-knew-eariler/42011/4 "2010-09-24T18:36:03Z")
I just wish I could send my brain back in time into my kindergarten skull. It would be a tight fit, it could get messy but I’d jam the damn thing in there. And I would rule the world. Since about the age of nine. ---
**Author:** ![Bolkie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bolkie/32/1056_2.png) [@Bolkie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bolkie)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2010, 6:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-post-some-things-you-wish-you-knew-eariler/42011/5 "2010-09-24T18:57:24Z")
I wish, that when I was younger, someone had told me that being a ‘nice guy’ gets you nowhere with women. If only someone had educated me… ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2010, 7:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-post-some-things-you-wish-you-knew-eariler/42011/6 "2010-09-24T19:06:33Z")
One thing I can talk about from experience is that waiting till the time is right will always have you waiting and you’ll never get it done. The time is now 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Pagodeiro](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pagodeiro/32/1226_2.png) [@Pagodeiro](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Pagodeiro)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2010, 7:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-post-some-things-you-wish-you-knew-eariler/42011/7 "2010-09-24T19:09:37Z")
I wish i´d continued with [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) and PU after i discovered them 10 years past ! had some good results that time and did quit because of LTR. Came back to them 4 years past … dang 6 years lost Pago ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2010, 7:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-post-some-things-you-wish-you-knew-eariler/42011/8 "2010-09-24T19:19:37Z")
> [@Pagodeiro](#): > > I wish i´d continued with pheromones and PU after i discovered them 10 years past ! > > had some good results that time and did quit because of LTR. > > Came back to them 4 years past … dang 6 years lost > > Pago Of course you could look at it as 6 years of valuable insight that you would have never gained unless you first lived it then. Look at the past with admiration for the learning experience it was.😉 ---
**Author:** ![Pagodeiro](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pagodeiro/32/1226_2.png) [@Pagodeiro](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Pagodeiro)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2010, 7:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-post-some-things-you-wish-you-knew-eariler/42011/9 "2010-09-24T19:22:03Z")
I know Steve i know… ---
**Author:** ![missshtein](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e56c9b/32.png) [@missshtein](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/missshtein)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2010, 7:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-post-some-things-you-wish-you-knew-eariler/42011/10 "2010-09-24T19:56:18Z")
I bet you boys wish you knew too much [P93](https://a314.com/product/p93/) or P86 and you come off as more into MEN! Yep… ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2010, 8:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-post-some-things-you-wish-you-knew-eariler/42011/11 "2010-09-24T20:18:54Z")
> [@missshtein](#): > > I bet you boys wish you knew too much P93 or P86 and you come off as more into MEN! Yep… Well it’s about time you started posting around here missshtein. Guys you all wanted to know if we had any celebrities posting well I can assure you, missshtein is not one of them. She is absolutely not a super-model and has guys dropping at her feet worshiping the ground she walks on, well the losers who will never get her do anyway. Seriously though guys, pay no attention to what she says. Just a crazed lunatic hell bent on breaking the spirits of every man she meets. Just a smile 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Olfact\_Amorous](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/olfact_amorous/32/434_2.png) [@Olfact\_Amorous](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Olfact_Amorous)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2010, 8:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-post-some-things-you-wish-you-knew-eariler/42011/12 "2010-09-24T20:34:40Z")
When I was younger I wish I knew that it was okay to be different. I wish I knew to play on my strengths rather than try to accommodate my weaknesses. And I wish that I knew that seeking acceptance and trying to be the nice guy to everyone out of low self esteem only truly breeded contempt towards myself and nothing more. Awful stuff but we all face our own trials and I’d like to think our persistence to move forward and improve ourselves has a much more profound impact on our lives than simply our experiences no matter how bad they are. It isnt the experience itself that is telling of who we are its how we react, how we rebound, how we rise above it all that defines us. ---
**Author:** ![tacitus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/6a8cbe/32.png) [@tacitus](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tacitus)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2010, 9:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-post-some-things-you-wish-you-knew-eariler/42011/13 "2010-09-24T21:26:57Z")
I wish I’d understood the power of consistent, engaged focus for mastering a skill…also wish I’d know the power of eliminating distractions and narrowing down to essentials… we live in a culture of temptations and distractions… very, very, easy to get off track… ---
**Author:** ![Aggie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f07891/32.png) [@Aggie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Aggie)\ **Post date:** [September 26, 2010, 7:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-post-some-things-you-wish-you-knew-eariler/42011/14 "2010-09-26T19:55:53Z")
Lets keep them coming, guys! ---
**Author:** ![ioncell](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ioncell/32/1844_2.png) [@ioncell](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ioncell)\ **Post date:** [September 26, 2010, 8:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-post-some-things-you-wish-you-knew-eariler/42011/15 "2010-09-26T20:26:38Z")
That following others will get you nowhere, I wish that I recognize my faults earlier and dealt with them promptly. Also wished that I was more Alpha before getting into LTR. cheers ---
**Author:** ![snicksnick](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/278dde/32.png) [@snicksnick](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/snicksnick)\ **Post date:** [September 26, 2010, 10:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-post-some-things-you-wish-you-knew-eariler/42011/16 "2010-09-26T22:13:22Z")
I wish I had known how important good eye contact is. In dating sales and all aspects of communication. Also when a girls dad pulls a .22 it isn’t just to intimidate. Also don’t tell a girl mid coitus that you only slept with her just to prove to your bro that you could get to that level in 3 days. ---
**Author:** ![tacitus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/6a8cbe/32.png) [@tacitus](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tacitus)\ **Post date:** [September 26, 2010, 10:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-post-some-things-you-wish-you-knew-eariler/42011/17 "2010-09-26T22:39:31Z")
One I never forgot once I learned it: the people you hang around subtly pull you up to, or down to, their level in ways you barely notice until it is too late. Two: never try and change anyone with one ounce more energy than they want to change themselves. There are a LOT of lazy fuckers who spend most of their mental energy inventing yet more believable excuses for their behavior. The sure fire tell that you’re dealing with an irresponsible bullshitter ? They explain things in terms of what they MEANT (like I meant to tell you, I meant to pay you money I borrowed last week, I meant not to sleep with your girlfriend… ad infinitum) instead of what they DID, or DIDN’T… ever hear a guy, ever in the whole course of time, be totally upfront about behavior like that ?.. “hey dude, I didn’t feel like telling you so I didn’t, I spent that money on myself because I wanted to, and I fucked your girlfriend because she let me”… Three: get very comfortable calling people on their games. If they can’t deal with it, throw them out of your life, move on, and don’t look back. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [September 27, 2010, 12:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-post-some-things-you-wish-you-knew-eariler/42011/18 "2010-09-27T00:14:28Z")
Good stuff right there. Things to live by 😃 ---
**Author:** ![GorMas2020](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gormas2020/32/197_2.png) [@GorMas2020](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/GorMas2020)\ **Post date:** [September 27, 2010, 2:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-post-some-things-you-wish-you-knew-eariler/42011/19 "2010-09-27T14:51:08Z")
> [@Bolkie](#): > > I wish, that when I was younger, someone had told me that being a ‘nice guy’ gets you nowhere with women. If only someone had educated me… Thats really my goal with raising my son. Teaching him to make his own footprints in life and lead by his own morals and convictions. March to his own beat and to have respect for ALL people. I’m trying to groom an ALPHA male here 🆒1st leading by example 🆒 What I wish I had known NOW that I didn’t before is last weeks lotto numbers last week…LMAO… In all seriousness everything in society is so skewed and fast paced. Wish I would have slowed down and enjoyed my past and probably treated some people in my past differently. NOW knowing that sometimes past acquaintances can be a hindrance or a godsend to my HERE and NOW self. ---
**Author:** ![CoolKat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/coolkat/32/501_2.png) [@CoolKat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CoolKat)\ **Post date:** [September 27, 2010, 4:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-post-some-things-you-wish-you-knew-eariler/42011/20 "2010-09-27T16:02:02Z")
> [@Bolkie](#): > > I wish, that when I was younger, someone had told me that being a ‘nice guy’ gets you nowhere with women. If only someone had educated me… That applies in Netherlands too, huh 😉 [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-post-some-things-you-wish-you-knew-eariler/42011.md?page=2)