# please reach out: let's compare notes, lessons learned, strategies

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-reach-out-lets-compare-notes-lessons-learned-strategies/67720>\
**Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\
**Created:** [June 22, 2018, 5:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-reach-out-lets-compare-notes-lessons-learned-strategies/67720 "2018-06-22T17:57:36Z")\
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**Author:** ![andyb319](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b782af/32.png) [@andyb319](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/andyb319)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2018, 5:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-reach-out-lets-compare-notes-lessons-learned-strategies/67720/1 "2018-06-22T17:57:36Z")

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I heard about [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) years ago, but really started seriously researching recently. I’ve got my first order in for Chikaras and Alpha 7.

I’m feeling a little old, seeing as I’m 48 and it seems many people here are in their 20’s and 30’s. I’d love to be in touch and compare notes on how things might be a bit different for us middle aged guys. I’m social and like to help, so I’m happy to chat with anyone. Feel free to reach out.

I’d like to date more actively. I’m looking for things that’ll help me in the opening stages: initial intro, first date.

I also want to explore the uses in professional settings (relationship building, influence, sales).

And, if there are uses to help me get more action-focused and motivated, that would be great as well.

This is a bit overwhelming right now, and it seems there’s a lot to read!