# proper introduction

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/proper-introduction/40551>\
**Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\
**Created:** [August 4, 2010, 11:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/proper-introduction/40551 "2010-08-04T11:52:13Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 8\
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**Author:** ![wongonat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/ba9def/32.png) [@wongonat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/wongonat)\
**Post date:** [August 4, 2010, 11:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/proper-introduction/40551/1 "2010-08-04T11:52:13Z")

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Hey, so I made a thread that was moved to the introductions forum, but I realized after reading some other threads, that I need to do a proper introduction, so here goes 😉

Right, so I’m a sixteen year old, yep I’m starting young!  
I’m just about to enter into college, where new guys come to our school, and girls are allowed to come too, for the first time!  
As you can probably tell from that previous sentence I’m a guy, and since I’m more introvert, I’ve never really had much experience of interactions with girls, the only ones I’ve really ever met were either much older, or much younger, so I didn’t have many opportunities.

I live in England, where no-one really knows about [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/). Some forums say you can get over the counter pheromones in department stores, but you cant in England, believe me I’ve tried.☹ And when I finally plucked up the courage to ask, I found out that they don’t even sell them in “love stores.”

So about my personality and physicality, I’m average sized, but shorter then most people in my year, and relatively muscled but without definition.  
I get on well with most adults due to them seeing me as polite, helpful, and a deep thinker, and I get on well with people younger because I don’t mind mucking around with them. My problem is that I have trouble connecting with people my own age, because they don’t think about deep things, and when they do it switches to a strange posh conversation. And there aren’t too many opportunities to muck around, even when there are, I’m not confident enough to join in, or I feel as if its not my place to.

Hmmm other things about me, I’m into physical sports like rugby (it’s similar to American football), and in the next few terms ill be doing rowing with my mates. I’m not a jock, I don’t like to beat people up, or feel a constant need to prove my manliness, but to the expense of seeming a little wet ☹. I think a lot in my head, and don’t talk much, BUT as soon as I get excited, I can talk for hours on end 😃. I get easily irritated, which is one of my flaws, but i quickly control it, and let it out when appropriate, like when playing rugby. Often people say that I’m either hyperactive, or depressed, but when I’m “depressed” I’m actually thinking about something internally. I’m also quite a shy person, and when I have confidence, can be very funny.

I’m actually really interested about pheromones, I stumbled across them because of a sci fi/comedy show called Eureka, which is amazing! I did some research and stumbled across this forum, which is AWESOME.

Personally I want pheromones, to help me open up to other people, while helping them, open up to me (so that it would be easier to create, and sustain relationships), boost my confidence, and make me seem like an alpha male… I’ve already got some helpful feedback from my first thread called “new kid on the block” the reason I’m posting this is to introduce myself properly to the lovely people on this forum!!!

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**Author:** ![wongonat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/ba9def/32.png) [@wongonat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/wongonat)\
**Post date:** [August 4, 2010, 11:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/proper-introduction/40551/2 "2010-08-04T11:53:45Z")

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Wow I didn’t realize how much I’d written.  
Um if you have any questions about me, to help answer what pheromones, would be best, then ask away, I’ll be happy to reply.

Also I put out a lot more heat then most people, cold water evaporates of my skin in seconds after a cold shower, and I have a nickname of the “human hot water bottle” in my family

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**Author:** ![Katalyst](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/katalyst/32/1415_2.png) [@Katalyst](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Katalyst)\
**Post date:** [August 4, 2010, 12:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/proper-introduction/40551/3 "2010-08-04T12:30:40Z")

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Hey wongonat welcome to pherotalk ! 🙂

Nice introduction post and glad you decided to join up here where you can actually purchase some legit products as most over the counter stuff most likely wont be as good in quality and dosed n there sprays like the ones here.

Since you are 16 and based on your introduction and information i would suggest you to look at Instant shine, instant honesty, instant openness and instant gentleman.

At your age and your aggression and physical levels you are producing a lot of natural attraction mones naturally so i think you should focus on the others for now that i mentioned.

Instant shine is going to make things brighter, and more upbeat. WIll have you smiling and you and the people around you will be happier and more social.

Instant openness is known as the ice breaker of mones, which helps to relax you and those around you in social situations. Will help give you confidence to approach and alleviates some social anxiety.

Instant honesty is great for the connection, rapport, and bond feeling. It makes people feel closer and connected to you, even strangers.

Instant gentleman i think would be excellent for you since it project the alpha ness and says that i am a protector and would make a great bf. IT can also make you seem older which may be very attractive to the ladies that you will be mingling with. It also has some confidence built into it, as does instant shine which will help get you on track my friend.

Hope this helps and ask if you have any more questions !

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**Author:** ![wongonat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/ba9def/32.png) [@wongonat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/wongonat)\
**Post date:** [August 4, 2010, 12:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/proper-introduction/40551/4 "2010-08-04T12:51:53Z")

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> [@Katalyst](#):
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> Hey wongonat welcome to pherotalk ! 🙂
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> At your age and your aggression and physical levels you are producing a lot of natural attraction mones naturally so i think you should focus on the others for now that i mentioned.
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> Instant shine is going to make things brighter, and more upbeat. WIll have you smiling and you and the people around you will be happier and more social.
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> Instant openness is known as the ice breaker of mones, which helps to relax you and those around you in social situations. Will help give you confidence to approach and alleviates some social anxiety.
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> Instant gentleman i think would be excellent for you since it project the alpha ness and says that i am a protector and would make a great bf. IT can also make you seem older which may be very attractive to the ladies that you will be mingling with. It also has some confidence built into it, as does instant shine which will help get you on track my friend.
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> Hope this helps and ask if you have any more questions !

It does thanks.  
The thing is, I’m not aggressive, I’m only aggressive if someone continually attempts to annoy me, or attempts to hurt me.

Also would you then recommend Instant gentlemen and [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) then. I’ve also heard alot about A314. Would A314 and Instant Openness work better then the mix I previously stated, bearing in mind that I’m not an aggressive type, and tend to be given more of a back seat.  
I’m looking to demand attention more, but still be approachable, and have conversations initiated easily, as well as sustained.

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**Author:** ![Katalyst](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/katalyst/32/1415_2.png) [@Katalyst](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Katalyst)\
**Post date:** [August 4, 2010, 6:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/proper-introduction/40551/5 "2010-08-04T18:10:26Z")

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Well considering your age i would say IG, IO, IH, IS, you can pick and do some reading from there depending on what you want to spend. I think you should start with IG because its less serious. A314 is very alpha and although its a slower burn with oil form and results are more subtle id suggest you give the instants and sprays a try first. I think for the crowd you will be using them on, and girls in your age, i think IG would be better in my opinion but your welcome to do some reading on the forums. With a little experience id say sure why not pick it up as a next purchase. But im not here to hold you back as its all in the fun of experimenting, if you want to try it out and like what youve read on the forum then grab both or whatever you feel in the end will be best.

And you may if you want an all around attractant find that you will try out ammo in the future but like i said it has -none in it which you are probably already producing enough of and too much can cause OD and ghosting to appear and get unfavorable results, but this could also not be true and is all about experimenting with what works best for you and you body. You will find out which ones you like the best so grab the to gos for now an do some experimenting and then the ones you really like you can then grab the 30mL’s

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**Author:** ![wongonat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/ba9def/32.png) [@wongonat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/wongonat)\
**Post date:** [August 4, 2010, 6:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/proper-introduction/40551/6 "2010-08-04T18:20:20Z")

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Cool, thanks, I’ve more or less settled with Instant openness, and since A314 is a little aggressive, which would you suggest, IG or IShine.

I was leaning towards IG and IO, as I want to melt the barriers easily, and seem like a cool guy to hang out with/be with, whether it be as friends, or something more. What do you think?  
And is double strength worth it?

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**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\
**Post date:** [August 4, 2010, 9:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/proper-introduction/40551/7 "2010-08-04T21:20:25Z")

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Great top notch advice by Katalyst.

However if you’re willing to really see long lasting continious change, I would go with A314.

It’s hard to gauge the results the first few weeks but after you get the ball rolling, you definitely see the effect it gives you. Most of the time it is the center of my attraction mixes and just works. For business I can’t even tell you how much it’s helped me out and when I hear it I really just equate it to success.

Just my two cents.

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**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\
**Post date:** [August 9, 2010, 10:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/proper-introduction/40551/8 "2010-08-09T22:01:20Z")

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Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂.

I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool!

Of course Steve is available to answer any question you might have regarding mones and you can speak to him personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and he will be able to consult you one on one.

Welcome to the forum.
