# Question about sustainability **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [February 10, 2010, 2:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/question-about-sustainability/36132 "2010-02-10T14:08:11Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![antisoshal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/3d9bf3/32.png) [@antisoshal](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/antisoshal)\ **Post date:** [February 10, 2010, 2:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/question-about-sustainability/36132/1 "2010-02-10T14:08:11Z")
Firstly, I will say up front I will not be able to do any sort of empirical work on this for you folks. Ive got WAY too much going on and too much on my mind to donate any of it to science at the moment. The primary reason I looked into this stuff was to help mitigate some issues, and it seems to have genuinely helped to a HUGE extent. Due to stress and other factors, my wife has been in a permanent bad mood, and sprung on me the other day she has been considering asking for trial separation. She has psychological issues she is working on, and is also battling a 13 year old daughter constantly, and the sum total has been a miserable person. I’m doing my best to modify things that she has expressed are troubling her, and looked into [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) as a way to help out with the general process and remove some of the latent stress that was impeding any progress. I also noticed the 13 year old girl seemed to be WAY more respectful and willing to shut up and listen, so thats a BIG plus if I can reign her in without massive estrogen fueled dogfights in the skies above my house. It worked. I bought a few bottles of basic stuff, put one of each spray on, hoped for the best and got better than I expected. Her mood did a 180 within a minute of coming home from work and she was her old happy and playful self even while fighting a severe cough. It was magic in my book and Ill be buying more material and experimenting to the best of my ability, but I cant promise to document or present any of the data coherently. I’m busy trying to keep the whole process on the down low for a while until its clearly worked for a while. She noticed the smell immediately, and wanted to know why I started smelling like incense all of a sudden. Once its clear they are helping her cope with things and remain happy, I will explain to her whats been going on. My father is short term terminal and about to leave me a huge sum of money, her sister is trying to divorce a violent sociopath and shes one of the last few employees left in her department because she does everyone else’s work, so my short term goal is to make home life happy and functional again, and I don’t want her to be influence by any preconceptions or think I’m trying to brain wash her or something. My primary question is about sustainability. Do these effects wear off eventually? Is there an optimum pattern I can work with that will avert a tolerance? My current plan is to put them on just before she gets home from work, so she will spend all day at work NOT being exposed and nights she will be. Common sense says that after a month of being exposed to something like this, her body will accept that as the norm and the effects might lessen. Im sure a day off here and there will be good as well. I wanna stabilize her mood for a week or two before I try that. Going from what she was originally to what she was yesterday and then back again will be too much of a rollercoaster perhaps. I hadnt really contemplated the problems of something like this working TOO well until now. ---
**Author:** ![Olfact\_Amorous](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/olfact_amorous/32/434_2.png) [@Olfact\_Amorous](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Olfact_Amorous)\ **Post date:** [February 10, 2010, 2:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/question-about-sustainability/36132/2 "2010-02-10T14:31:03Z")
People build a tolerance to your mix if you wear the same exact one all the time. That used to be an issue for me as the first product I had was C7. Nowadays I try to keep mixes different never wearing the same thing for more 2 days a week. I vary between IG, ammo, and C7 tweaking them with other products like IS or [P74](https://a314.com/product/p74/) as such to keep things different but relatively in the same range (as all 3 of these contain rone/none with the exception of IG). I’d say for optimum effectness create for yourself based on your wife 4-6 staple mixes that create some variance from one another but at least maintaining some nol/rone and to a lesser extent none so that you can keep things going well with her. At this point in my life I use mones to get along better with my mother. We always used to fight all the time but now with the use of A-1 or P74 or even TAC along with a rone product like IG everything is fine and dandy with her and less conflict because I don’t have to grind my teeth to get along with her. I hope everything goes okay with your wife. It’s hard having strife with the one you love and I get that very well. Take at least ONE day off a week if not 2 with the mones. If you can’t I suggest wearing 1/3-1/4 of what you normally would and just try to exercise some pleasantries with her and perhaps surprise her with something small yet romantic. You gotta show her you still care about her and the little things DO count =) ---
**Author:** ![antisoshal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/3d9bf3/32.png) [@antisoshal](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/antisoshal)\ **Post date:** [February 10, 2010, 2:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/question-about-sustainability/36132/3 "2010-02-10T14:51:17Z")
"If you can’t I suggest wearing 1/3-1/4 of what you normally would " Based on what I’ve seen of others dosages, I used less than most do already. One of the things I used is a product from another vendor and I have heard tell that mentioning them here is not looked upon well, so I will not name it. I’m assuming is -nol based as it pertains to honesty. “and just try to exercise some pleasantries with her and perhaps surprise her with something small yet romantic. You gotta show her you still care about her and the little things DO count =)” I have been exercising every possible pleasantry as of recently. Bringing home flowers on occasion. Making favorite meals. This had almost no effect and even a negative effect in some instances, and reading up on various levels of psychology and behavioral chemistry was what lead me to look into pheromones. Particularly interesting to me was a thesis I read on how modern hygiene may be killing interpersonal relationships because we evolved a complex set of olfactory cues and transactions that we now wash off, hide and otherwise impede. It led me to ponder trying replacing what we hose off like circus elephants every morning and night. I’m willing to try almost anything that can be plausibly shown to have potential. I draw the line at divining rods and astral therapy, for now anyways. Oh yeah, and on Sunday she gets the largest pair of diamonds shes ever held in her hands. I might not like the premise of shiny rocks, but when the chips are down, you have to go with what works and ask questions later. Wish I had bought the 314 early enough to have it by then. Gonna hit order in a few minutes. Maybe it will get here Friday. Im thinking 1.5 Carats of compressed carbon combined with blinding male supremacy has to be a positive experience. Either way, I have to say what by most standards here seems to have been a low dose literally worked magic. I COULD assume its coincidence still, but the change was so dramatic and in contrast to the day before that I have to assume it was genuine. We shall see if its maintained tonight. I’m gonna back off a bit and try maybe one spray of two basic products and see if there is a change. ---
**Author:** ![Olfact\_Amorous](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/olfact_amorous/32/434_2.png) [@Olfact\_Amorous](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Olfact_Amorous)\ **Post date:** [February 10, 2010, 3:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/question-about-sustainability/36132/4 "2010-02-10T15:51:44Z")
IF you do buy A314 keep the signature comfortable by adding something nol based. A strong willed women can sometimes fight against my heightened perceived image so its of utmost important to “disarm” her as much as possible while using a product with things such as IO and IH. Good luck with diamonds. I wonder if in this day and time if they still are a women’s best friend.