# Question for the men: what does the DIH, deer-in-the-headlights look feel like? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [June 12, 2015, 1:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/question-for-the-men-what-does-the-dih-deer-in-the-headlights-look-feel-like/64488 "2015-06-12T01:51:39Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Mmj2013](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b3f665/32.png) [@Mmj2013](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mmj2013)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2015, 1:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/question-for-the-men-what-does-the-dih-deer-in-the-headlights-look-feel-like/64488/1 "2015-06-12T01:51:39Z")
So I’ve been using pheramones for a few years now, love them! Seriously, they do what they say! My question for anyone who cares to comment, ( greatly appreciated btw) is this,..I’ve had quite a few DIH looks over the years, I’ve been getting closer to a friend of mine, things have been getting ramped up in the flirtation department, I ve been trying out some different combos on him lately, I always see a reaction. Tonight was the first time I got the deer in the headlight look from him, a few times, then he forgot what he was saying or couldn’t seem to focus…haha…but if any of you men have had this happen, can you explain what exactly it feels like? Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![TheAttractor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/theattractor/32/575_2.png) [@TheAttractor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TheAttractor)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2015, 4:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/question-for-the-men-what-does-the-dih-deer-in-the-headlights-look-feel-like/64488/2 "2015-06-12T04:23:51Z")
Sure, I’ll chime in. I’ve gotten a DIHL from the ladies on a few occasions. Mostly when wearing Ammunition, but sometimes other mones as well. It kind of feel like they’re freezing up, in a good way, and you’re catching them doing so. It’s almost like they’re staring at you right in the eyes, and they’re not sure what to do next. Feels pretty good, actually. You can either enjoy the feeling and leave it at that, or escalate things and see where it takes you. ---
**Author:** ![Mmj2013](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b3f665/32.png) [@Mmj2013](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mmj2013)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2015, 4:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/question-for-the-men-what-does-the-dih-deer-in-the-headlights-look-feel-like/64488/3 "2015-06-12T04:32:08Z")
Thanks! But I don’t think I made my question clear, when you, the man has tHE DIH feeling, what does it feel like…? ---
**Author:** ![TheAttractor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/theattractor/32/575_2.png) [@TheAttractor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TheAttractor)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2015, 4:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/question-for-the-men-what-does-the-dih-deer-in-the-headlights-look-feel-like/64488/4 "2015-06-12T04:43:04Z")
Oh, lol, got it. In that case, probably like I’m freezing up a little bit, and stumbling for words if I’m talking to the lady. The “freezing up” part of it can look like staring, which is basically what the DIHL is. ---
**Author:** ![mrseeker](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mrseeker/32/5177_2.png) [@mrseeker](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mrseeker)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2015, 10:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/question-for-the-men-what-does-the-dih-deer-in-the-headlights-look-feel-like/64488/5 "2015-06-12T10:07:13Z")
If I have to think about my DIHL symptoms, it would be those moments where my girlfriend goes totally nude in front of me without warning. I think it would best be compared with a coin that you push into a slot machine and pull the lever. That moment where you see the wheels rolling, that is the blank stare. Then comes the triple-7 on the screen (I realize what she is doing) and then comes the jackpot (i go overdrive). ---
**Author:** ![Mmj2013](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b3f665/32.png) [@Mmj2013](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mmj2013)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2015, 11:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/question-for-the-men-what-does-the-dih-deer-in-the-headlights-look-feel-like/64488/6 "2015-06-12T11:28:36Z")
Me seeker…hahaha…ok, I get it…men process things very differently than women! Thank you for that insight! ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [June 13, 2015, 5:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/question-for-the-men-what-does-the-dih-deer-in-the-headlights-look-feel-like/64488/7 "2015-06-13T17:26:26Z")
I’d say its maybe something like: **WOW..! When did she get so hot. How the hell did I miss this before?** ---
**Author:** ![andromun](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/andromun/32/365_2.png) [@andromun](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/andromun)\ **Post date:** [June 13, 2015, 9:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/question-for-the-men-what-does-the-dih-deer-in-the-headlights-look-feel-like/64488/8 "2015-06-13T21:45:58Z")
> [@Mmj2013](#): > > but if any of you men have had this happen, can you explain what exactly it feels like? Thanks! It feels great! That’s how guys feel when we get DIHL. Unlike women, men have to make the 1st move and when we get a desirable hit…well we get an ego boost. I’m sure you felt the same. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Mmj2013](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b3f665/32.png) [@Mmj2013](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mmj2013)\ **Post date:** [June 13, 2015, 10:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/question-for-the-men-what-does-the-dih-deer-in-the-headlights-look-feel-like/64488/9 "2015-06-13T22:36:09Z")
Thanks guys! ---
**Author:** ![Jdub](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jdub/32/1399_2.png) [@Jdub](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jdub)\ **Post date:** [June 14, 2015, 3:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/question-for-the-men-what-does-the-dih-deer-in-the-headlights-look-feel-like/64488/10 "2015-06-14T03:00:13Z")
> [@Mmj2013](#): > > So I’ve been using pheramones for a few years now, love them! Seriously, they do what they say! My question for anyone who cares to comment, ( greatly appreciated btw) is this,..I’ve had quite a few DIH looks over the years, I’ve been getting closer to a friend of mine, things have been getting ramped up in the flirtation department, I ve been trying out some different combos on him lately, I always see a reaction. Tonight was the first time I got the deer in the headlight look from him, a few times, then he forgot what he was saying or couldn’t seem to focus…haha…but if any of you men have had this happen, can you explain what exactly it feels like? Thanks! Wow.. So men can have DIHL too? That’s crazy, I don’t think this has ever happened to me.. But when I’m horny I usually stare at nearly all women - so technically I DIHL without mones as it is. What do you use to cause him to DIHL? ---
**Author:** ![ScentHound](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/scenthound/32/1840_2.png) [@ScentHound](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ScentHound)\ **Post date:** [June 14, 2015, 7:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/question-for-the-men-what-does-the-dih-deer-in-the-headlights-look-feel-like/64488/11 "2015-06-14T07:57:08Z")
Whenever I wear A314 there’s always at least one guy who just freeze up and blank stare at me.. Like 3-4 seconds of zombie time. I think it’s a highly peculiar behavioral response some people have to [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) exposure. Anyway, don’t know what it feels like because I’ve never had the DIHL myself. ---
**Author:** ![mrseeker](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mrseeker/32/5177_2.png) [@mrseeker](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mrseeker)\ **Post date:** [June 14, 2015, 8:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/question-for-the-men-what-does-the-dih-deer-in-the-headlights-look-feel-like/64488/12 "2015-06-14T08:03:10Z")
> [@ScentHound](#): > > Anyway, don’t know what it feels like because I’ve never had the DIHL myself. Ever had someone boobyflash you, and how did you react? Usually I say thats the best sign of a DIHL moment, where the person tries to understand what just happened… ---
**Author:** ![ScentHound](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/scenthound/32/1840_2.png) [@ScentHound](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ScentHound)\ **Post date:** [June 14, 2015, 8:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/question-for-the-men-what-does-the-dih-deer-in-the-headlights-look-feel-like/64488/13 "2015-06-14T08:37:36Z")
> [@mrseeker](#): > > Ever had someone boobyflash you, and how did you react? Usually I say thats the best sign of a DIHL moment, where the person tries to understand what just happened… Oh for sure, I’ve had that happen but I never froze like I see people do when I wear certain [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) around them.. It must be some kind of neurological response in humans.. maybe it’s related to the phenomenon where some people just respond very quickly and readily to hypnotic commands.. (In fact, I bet I could speak directly to their subconscious when they’re DIHL like that.. hmm..) ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [June 14, 2015, 5:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/question-for-the-men-what-does-the-dih-deer-in-the-headlights-look-feel-like/64488/14 "2015-06-14T17:11:13Z")
> [@Jdub](#): > > Wow.. So men can have DIHL too? That’s crazy, I don’t think this has ever happened to me.. But when I’m horny I usually stare at nearly all women Its a bit more than just a stare - but if you’ve not experienced it, **learn it!** Because its a great way of breaking the ice with a woman - particularly if she’s giving you DIHL too. Very often knocks the barriers right down and helps with her confidence to get close to you much faster. See also the googly-eye thing to each other that couples who are well-into each other do. Again, great for getting really close to someone really quickly - or getting her screened-out very quickly. If she recoils from that, you know there is no chance! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Mmj2013](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b3f665/32.png) [@Mmj2013](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mmj2013)\ **Post date:** [June 14, 2015, 8:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/question-for-the-men-what-does-the-dih-deer-in-the-headlights-look-feel-like/64488/15 "2015-06-14T20:19:13Z")
Jdub, oh, haha, yes…YES! I get DIHL from men, they stop, stare, as if they don’t know why…a few times from my friends husbands when we were out in a social situation and I put on specific ’ mones. Like they were seeing me for the first time, but it really confused them. And out and about with strangers. ---
**Author:** ![Jdub](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jdub/32/1399_2.png) [@Jdub](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jdub)\ **Post date:** [June 14, 2015, 10:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/question-for-the-men-what-does-the-dih-deer-in-the-headlights-look-feel-like/64488/16 "2015-06-14T22:20:29Z")
> [@Mmj2013](#): > > Jdub, oh, haha, yes…YES! I get DIHL from men, they stop, stare, as if they don’t know why…a few times from my friends husbands when we were out in a social situation and I put on specific ’ mones. Like they were seeing me for the first time, but it really confused them. And out and about with strangers. Do they stare into your eyes?. I find that whenever I get DIHL from women, they are ALWAYS looking with a dead stare into my eyes.. ---
**Author:** ![Mmj2013](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b3f665/32.png) [@Mmj2013](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mmj2013)\ **Post date:** [June 15, 2015, 12:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/question-for-the-men-what-does-the-dih-deer-in-the-headlights-look-feel-like/64488/17 "2015-06-15T00:37:06Z")
> [@Jdub](#): > > Do they stare into your eyes?. I find that whenever I get DIHL from women, they are ALWAYS looking with a dead stare into my eyes.. Yes! That’s the doe eyed deer look I thnk! And then either I keep on walking, or they shake out of it, or they mumble something and try to shift their attention. Like the other day with my friend, he is letting me use a spare room for an art studio. He was doing yard work while I was painting, he came in and just kind of stood there staring, so I stopped what I was doing , turned down my music, kind of cocked my head to the side as if to say ’ can I help you?’ He stood there for a while, then kind of shook himself and mumbled something about looking for the broom. I pointed t the me right next to him..’ Is that what you are looking for?’ Ha…made me chuckle a little, I thought it was kind of sweet. ---
**Author:** ![Jdub](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jdub/32/1399_2.png) [@Jdub](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jdub)\ **Post date:** [June 15, 2015, 2:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/question-for-the-men-what-does-the-dih-deer-in-the-headlights-look-feel-like/64488/18 "2015-06-15T02:02:40Z")
Man I love doing that to women. I’ve literally seen that happen to every woman I walked passed before - just like axe commercials, no joke. It’s almost better than sex…almost. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Mmj2013](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b3f665/32.png) [@Mmj2013](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mmj2013)\ **Post date:** [June 15, 2015, 11:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/question-for-the-men-what-does-the-dih-deer-in-the-headlights-look-feel-like/64488/19 "2015-06-15T23:55:42Z")
Oh, then you aren’t having the right Linfda if ex! Haha! ---
**Author:** ![Jdub](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jdub/32/1399_2.png) [@Jdub](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jdub)\ **Post date:** [June 16, 2015, 4:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/question-for-the-men-what-does-the-dih-deer-in-the-headlights-look-feel-like/64488/20 "2015-06-16T04:03:01Z")
> [@Mmj2013](#): > > Oh, then you aren’t having the right Linfda if ex! Haha! Haha what? [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/question-for-the-men-what-does-the-dih-deer-in-the-headlights-look-feel-like/64488.md?page=2)