# Quick question about groups **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [February 11, 2009, 5:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/quick-question-about-groups/25971 "2009-02-11T05:51:03Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Rogerbarron](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/0ea827/32.png) [@Rogerbarron](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rogerbarron)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2009, 5:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/quick-question-about-groups/25971/1 "2009-02-11T05:51:03Z")
I’m having a hard time understanding how people realize whom the [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) are originating from if it’s in a group setting like a grocery store line, coffee shoppe, or class. I don’t mean to use the term realize but you know what I mean. How does that work? Post Script: Sorry if this has already been asked. I searched for it a bit earlier but found nothing. Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![Mr.Feel\_Good](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mr.feel_good/32/1148_2.png) [@Mr.Feel\_Good](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mr.Feel_Good)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2009, 5:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/quick-question-about-groups/25971/2 "2009-02-11T05:57:13Z")
> [@Rogerbarron](#): > > I’m having a hard time understanding how people realize whom the pheromones are originating from if it’s in a group setting like a grocery store line, coffee shoppe, or class. I don’t mean to use the term realize but you know what I mean. How does that work? > Post Script: Sorry if this has already been asked. I searched for it a bit earlier but found nothing. Thanks! Well, to be honest, they won’t always realize that you’re the source of the pheromones. People have mentioned more than once finding that people around them are more chatty with IO, but that doesn’t always mean they’ll be more chatty with _you_. However, it kinda works like a trail… when you walk, you’ll leave some behind you… and if they follow it, it gets stronger the closer they get to you. You know, since you’re the source. 😉 That and they may just love the smell coming off of you! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Bonecrkr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/9d8465/32.png) [@Bonecrkr](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bonecrkr)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2009, 8:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/quick-question-about-groups/25971/3 "2009-02-11T08:03:45Z")
Through behavior and intent, mostly. Women have absolutely no problem picking me out of a crowd as the source of the pheromones, even from far away. In psychology, there is a term for this…back channel communication. Part of this is body language. But, that’s just a small part (the part you are conciously aware of). By wearing pheromones, you are attempting to communicate something about yourself to other people…your subconcious causes you to give off all sorts of behaviors not even close to your own awareness. Other people recognize these but are not concious of it. The result is most people easily attribute the pheromones effect as originating from you. But if you were to ask them how they knew, they probably couldn’t tell you. ---
**Author:** ![WildFlower](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wildflower/32/1260_2.png) [@WildFlower](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/WildFlower)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2009, 2:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/quick-question-about-groups/25971/4 "2009-02-11T14:50:49Z")
> [@Bonecrkr](#): > > Through behavior and intent, mostly. Women have absolutely no problem picking me out of a crowd as the source of the pheromones, even from far away. > > In psychology, there is a term for this…back channel communication. Part of this is body language. But, that’s just a small part (the part you are conciously aware of). By wearing pheromones, you are attempting to communicate something about yourself to other people…your subconcious causes you to give off all sorts of behaviors not even close to your own awareness. Other people recognize these but are not concious of it. The result is most people easily attribute the pheromones effect as originating from you. But if you were to ask them how they knew, they probably couldn’t tell you. I believe that someone can easily detect who has pheromones on and who doesn’t. I don’t believe it is instant though. If your in a crouded place I think it takes maybe a couple of minutes (make it easier for yourself by moving around a bit). People detect pheromones instantly and sometimes I’ve had crazy instant hits but that has been when it’s easy enough for someone to identify me as the source of the pheromones. ---
**Author:** ![Wrlprchnx](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wrlprchnx/32/1360_2.png) [@Wrlprchnx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wrlprchnx)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2009, 8:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/quick-question-about-groups/25971/5 "2009-02-11T20:28:28Z")
I’ve seen reports of guys noticing other guys around them getting over-the-top hits when they are wearing 'mones and they are getting nothing. I can’t remember who, but awghile back a some guy was posting that his buddy kept getting hit on by women whenever he was wearing a certain mix - and his buddy who didn’t know about mones was even shocked by what was going on. I think it boils down to congruence - if you are wearing a mix, but the rest of your vibe doesn’t match what the mix is saying then the ladies can get easily confused by someone standing nearby whose vibe DOES match the mix that you are wearing. Also everyone’s [pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/) “sweet spots” are different… you could be wearing a mix where there is too much 'none for your signature… but the guy standing beside you is getting his “sweet spot” in second hand 'mones (normally due to your OD)… yeh, once the guy moves away from you it’s gone, but we all know how important first impressions are. If you are congruent with your mix… and applying the right amount of the right mones for YOU… you shouldnt have many problems