# Quick question before I place my first order **URL:** \ **Category:** Store Announcements & Feedback\ **Created:** [March 6, 2009, 3:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/quick-question-before-i-place-my-first-order/26795 "2009-03-06T15:07:31Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![pstro](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/f08c70/32.png) [@pstro](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pstro)\ **Post date:** [March 6, 2009, 3:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/quick-question-before-i-place-my-first-order/26795/1 "2009-03-06T15:07:31Z")
Hey all, total noob here hoping to get an answer to what is probably a silly question: First off, I’m looking to get Instant Shine to help boost my confidence and make a feelgood aura [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) to help give my wife and I a communication boost (although I wonder if Openness would be a better starter) Ammunition to help heighten the mood, something that’s been lost the last few years Turn Up The Heat when indications are that things are going to get close Question: when I browse the To-Gos vs the regular size bottles (I’d like to try things out before I buy the big bottles), I see Instant Shine and Instant Honesty **for Men** in the big bottles, but in the ToGos, neither of them say for Men. Are they the same product? And is the $14.95 shipping option really the only choice for Canada? ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [March 6, 2009, 4:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/quick-question-before-i-place-my-first-order/26795/2 "2009-03-06T16:18:41Z")
> [@pstro](#): > > Question: when I browse the To-Gos vs the regular size bottles (I’d like to try things out before I buy the big bottles), I see Instant Shine and Instant Honesty **for Men** in the big bottles, but in the ToGos, neither of them say for Men. Are they the same product? IS and IH are unisex phero’s 🙂 I think IS originally was for men but women tried it and loved it so now it’s unisex but the to-go’s have the new lables, whereas _I think_ the full bottles may still have the old labels? ---
**Author:** ![pstro](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/f08c70/32.png) [@pstro](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pstro)\ **Post date:** [March 6, 2009, 5:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/quick-question-before-i-place-my-first-order/26795/3 "2009-03-06T17:16:36Z")
Thanks! order is in! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [March 6, 2009, 5:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/quick-question-before-i-place-my-first-order/26795/4 "2009-03-06T17:16:59Z")
> [@Xiphoid](#): > > IS and IH are unisex phero’s 🙂 > I think IS originally was for men but women tried it and loved it so now it’s unisex but the to-go’s have the new lables, whereas _I think_ the full bottles may still have the old labels? Actually its not that they’re old labels 🙂, but the labels accurately portray whats inside. The labels say for men because a man will not wear a product that says for women. However a woman will wear a product regardless of who its for as long as it works. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [March 7, 2009, 9:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/quick-question-before-i-place-my-first-order/26795/5 "2009-03-07T09:35:54Z")
> [@](#): > > Actually its not that they’re old labels 🙂, but the labels accurately portray whats inside. The labels say for men because a man will not wear a product that says for women. However a woman will wear a product regardless of who its for as long as it works. That makes no sense what so ever LOL You mean to tell me men wont wear it because it says shine on it ? Jassy told me it was a label problem way back before I was moderator. How come IH and IO dont say for men on them then ? Tisha ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [March 10, 2009, 5:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/quick-question-before-i-place-my-first-order/26795/6 "2009-03-10T05:35:08Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > That makes no sense what so ever LOL You mean to tell me men wont wear it because it says shine on it ? Jassy told me it was a label problem way back before I was moderator. How come IH and IO dont say for men on them then ? > > Tisha You can believe whatever you want to. I wont tell anybody ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [March 10, 2009, 5:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/quick-question-before-i-place-my-first-order/26795/7 "2009-03-10T05:57:17Z")
> [@](#): > > you can believe whatever you want to. I wont tell anybody muwaaaa 😉