# Re-inotrducing myself of sorts **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 8, 2010, 11:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/re-inotrducing-myself-of-sorts/36089 "2010-02-08T23:56:31Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Fu\_Man\_Chu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/96bed5/32.png) [@Fu\_Man\_Chu](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Fu_Man_Chu)\ **Post date:** [February 8, 2010, 11:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/re-inotrducing-myself-of-sorts/36089/1 "2010-02-08T23:56:31Z")
**Hi, 29 year old fart of a dude over here in Hawaii. Just getting back on the market as my latest long term relationship has ended. Gotta say I owed a big part of my success in that relationship to the products here. She would literally treat me differently depending on whether I was wearing A314 or not.** **That said, I’ve been dabbling with [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) but have found instant honesty to probably be the best product for me right now. I want to buy another bottle of instant openness to use with it though; which I will do if I qualify for the 25 dollar gift cert (hint, hint).** **Opening has always been me weak point. I’m generally good once I have the girls attention but getting those first crucial 4 or 5 minutes can be tricky for me. Hopefully instant openness can help me with that.** ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2010, 11:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/re-inotrducing-myself-of-sorts/36089/2 "2010-02-09T23:47:57Z")
Thanks so much for joining PheroTalk, I’m super excited to have you here. It’s always great when a new member discovers a world so full of endless possibilities. The only limits to mones is our own imagination 🙂 While I would love to issue you the $25 Gift Certificate for saying hello I do kindly request you post some more about yourself here. If you are unsure about what qualifies as sufficient to obtain the gift certificate I am just itching to email you, please have a look at this thread: [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) I wrote it to help everyone in writing the perfect introduction. Of course the choice is yours and your privacy is very important. If you just don’t feel comfortable providing additional info we will all still do our best to assist you anyway. Welcome to PheroTalk ---
**Author:** ![Fu\_Man\_Chu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/96bed5/32.png) [@Fu\_Man\_Chu](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Fu_Man_Chu)\ **Post date:** [February 10, 2010, 1:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/re-inotrducing-myself-of-sorts/36089/3 "2010-02-10T01:36:04Z")
Hi Mickaelia, thanks for clarifying. I really have no qualms about sharing more. For starters I should say I’ve experimented with a wide variety of pheromones for years and have found Smartmones to be the absolute best in terms of ease of usability, value and effect. I used to use them primarily in the workplace as I’ve often had sales jobs and found that they are not quite as effective in nightclub scenarios as elsewhere. That said, I have had some off the wall hits with different blends of pheromones in the past. It’s almost as if a certain segment of our population is simply far more sensitive to certain pheromones than others but when you bump into one of these people it is often quite apparent. They often seem to be fond of you not only for no reason but often with plenty of reason to NOT be fond of you. In my personal life I would experiment endlessly (with much success and equal failure) in that I would carefully measure the reaction of a lover to how she was when I was wearing certain pheromones and when I wasn’t. My last long term relationship for example would often tell me “it’s funny that you don’t realize how hard it is to resist you” (her words exactly) when I was wearing A314 and/or [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/). When I wasn’t she would still obviously be my girlfriend but there was a certain lack of compliance, she would more or less get into a power struggle with me far more often. We actually broke up during a period in which I stopped using A314 altogether until 4 months later when I bought a new batch and twisted her arm into meeting with me. Suffice to say that she was very resistant and reluctant until we were around one another, then her tone changed completely. Part of me would love to think it’s because we shared some deep connection or because I’m just that good but I’d be lying if I didn’t give a portion of the credit to A314. It won’t do the work for you but it certainly gives you an edge. Flash forward to now, I’m newly single and heading out meeting new people for the first time in a while. My social group is HIGHLY challenging right now in that most of the women are independent or absolute mind blowingly hot while most of the guys in that same group are either highly successful (I am a full time student again) or far more handsome than I (usually at least taller since I’m only 5’8). I’m trying to think of the proper mix to overcome these obstacles and would be open to suggestions. Will that suffice Mickaelia? > [@kelsey](#): > > Thanks so much for joining PheroTalk, I’m super excited to have you here. It’s always great when a new member discovers a world so full of endless possibilities. The only limits to mones is our own imagination 🙂 > > While I would love to issue you the $25 Gift Certificate for saying hello I do kindly request you post some more about yourself here. If you are unsure about what qualifies as sufficient to obtain the gift certificate I am just itching to email you, please have a look at this thread: [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) I wrote it to help everyone in writing the perfect introduction. Of course the choice is yours and your privacy is very important. If you just don’t feel comfortable providing additional info we will all still do our best to assist you anyway. > > Welcome to PheroTalk ---
**Author:** ![MVKBUGATTI](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/50afbb/32.png) [@MVKBUGATTI](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MVKBUGATTI)\ **Post date:** [February 10, 2010, 1:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/re-inotrducing-myself-of-sorts/36089/4 "2010-02-10T01:55:10Z")
Hi Fu Man Chu, I went back to 2007, your first introduction, It was interesting. Are you still in NYC? Will you be doing more postings this time, it seems you have a interesting story to share. 🙂 cheers, MVKBugatti ---
**Author:** ![Fu\_Man\_Chu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/96bed5/32.png) [@Fu\_Man\_Chu](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Fu_Man_Chu)\ **Post date:** [February 10, 2010, 1:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/re-inotrducing-myself-of-sorts/36089/5 "2010-02-10T01:59:58Z")
I’ll try. My posting is in direct opposite proportion to my success with women I suppose, lol. I’m not generally single for long (not sure if that’s a blessing or a curse mind you) but I’ll try to share when I can. I’m no longer in NYC though and instead am in lovely Honolulu, HI. I went on a really nice run between the time I first introduced myself here and now (far more than I could possibly share) but suffice to say it’s been exciting. The dating scene in Honolulu represents a whole host of different challenges than the dating scene in NYC (Hawaii has more xenophobia, anti-intellectualism and general close mindedness to contend with for starters) but the rewards are still worth the effort. > [@MVKBUGATTI](#): > > Hi Fu Man Chu, > I went back to 2007, your first introduction, It was interesting. Are you still in NYC? Will you be doing much posting this time, it seems you have a interesting story to share. 🙂 > > cheers, > > MVKBugattio ---
**Author:** ![Jasmin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasmin/32/287_2.png) [@Jasmin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasmin)\ **Post date:** [February 10, 2010, 4:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/re-inotrducing-myself-of-sorts/36089/6 "2010-02-10T04:17:59Z")
Hi again, Fu Man Chu! Great to have you back 🙂. I know what you mean with A314. I act totally differently around it, too, and love it for that reason. Weirdly, if ever I have anxiety or something, a quick swipe under my nose will generally calm me down so much, I’ll forget about the anxiety. Hehe – have you ever noticed that?? Wow – couldn’t be more different. NYC to Honolulu. That’s like, polar opposites! (I think literally, too, since the weather in December can be, well, polar opposite). Do you like it better in the Far West, opposed to the Far East? I mean, do you feel like an alien in a strange land? I’m looking forward to seeing your reports, especially from an expanded, NYC-meets-The-Islands perspective. Cheers! ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [February 10, 2010, 4:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/re-inotrducing-myself-of-sorts/36089/7 "2010-02-10T04:20:13Z")
> [@Jasmin](#): > > Hi again, Fu Man Chu! > > Great to have you back 🙂. > > I know what you mean with A314. I act totally differently around it, too, and love it for that reason. Weirdly, if ever I have anxiety or something, a quick swipe under my nose will generally calm me down so much, I’ll forget about the anxiety. Hehe – have you ever noticed that?? > > Wow – couldn’t be more different. NYC to Honolulu. That’s like, polar opposites! (I think literally, too, since the weather in December can be, well, polar opposite). > > Do you like it better in the Far West, opposed to the Far East? I mean, do you feel like an alien in a strange land? > > I’m looking forward to seeing your reports, especially from an expanded, NYC-meets-The-Islands perspective. > > Cheers! Wow, a Jasmin post! Sweet! ---
**Author:** ![Fu\_Man\_Chu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/96bed5/32.png) [@Fu\_Man\_Chu](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Fu_Man_Chu)\ **Post date:** [February 10, 2010, 4:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/re-inotrducing-myself-of-sorts/36089/8 "2010-02-10T04:31:38Z")
As with anything there are pros on cons either way. Culturally, economically, party wise and women wise I gotta say I prefer NYC. That said Hawaii can be a very friendly place and while there are less available 9s and 10s on the market, there are certainly more healthy 8s just floating around at random. There is a running joke about girls who look WAY better in clothes than they do out of them back in NYC that doesn’t really apply here in Hawaii (we’re all semi-naked, all the time!). The real hurdle for me over here is the intellectual barrier. People who are born and raised here tend to have a very deep rooted inferiority complex that makes them shy away from people they deem more intelligent than them. I’ve instead focused more on building a social network around dancing, which while fun and exciting, leaves a bit to be desired in terms of mentally stimulating company. I can’t tell you how often I have to dumb myself down just to keep from making my friends (who are generally good people) from feeling stupid. All that aside, it’s hard to argue with 85 and sunny 365 days of the year. I wish the beach was a better place to meet people (everyone has their guard up unfortunately) but c’est la vie. Complaining about living here is like complaining about dating a runway model (which is oddly something I’ve found myself complaining about before but that’s an entirely different story). So here I am, newly single and alone in paradise. My standards are REALLY high right now (higher than I probably have any real right too) but that’s the challenge I’ve set for myself. Here’s to hoping Smartmones gives me the edge I need to pull another rabbit out of the proverbial hat. Oh and have I qualified for the 25 dollar gift cert yet? I may not have needed it back when I was wheeling and dealing in 2007 but I definitely could use it now! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Jasmin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasmin/32/287_2.png) [@Jasmin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasmin)\ **Post date:** [February 10, 2010, 4:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/re-inotrducing-myself-of-sorts/36089/9 "2010-02-10T04:58:11Z")
Oh heck yeah, you’ve qualified for a $25 gift cert… I’m super glad you asked, because I have the POWERRR\* to fix that for ya. \*- complete with a power chord on the organ. [Check your email in a second, I’ll have it served right up] Interesting take on Hawaii. I was curious how YOU would assimilate, being a NY’er. I was JUST in NYC in December, and those people are a complete different breed of animal from your happy-go-lucky islander (lol, the disposition I was born into). You New Yorkers are so smart and into so many awesome things, and it seems you know EVERYTHING… even a Random Joe on the subway is a complete expert on SOMETHING.. Ahh!! So awesome! … Yeah, I really can see how it would make an islanders’ head spin. Haha, and the way you write it, I want to feel BAD for the guy who is dating the runway model. On a different note, HELL YES to raising your standards. If there are a scurrying mass of healthy 8s roaming the sands of Honolulu, there will be that handful of dizzyingly perfect 9s and 10s there, too, who HAVE travelled the world, and decided they like Hawaii the best. So HELL YES to you putting yourself in THAT category. Only guys with megamansions on Kihei and six luxury cars are gonna try and claim that category, but ah, you have a _different_ sort of advantage now, don’t ya? Winkwinkwink. Take care, Fu! I’ll be here to hear your escapades!