# reaching out form ND **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 28, 2008, 10:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/reaching-out-form-nd/11931 "2008-04-28T22:21:36Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![hueyfe10](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/58956e/32.png) [@hueyfe10](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hueyfe10)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2008, 10:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/reaching-out-form-nd/11931/1 "2008-04-28T22:21:36Z")
hey guys, Im new to the gig as you couldnt tell. my name is kyle and i live in ND. And yes its still frickin cold up here. hahah. any ways just saying hi. i just bought a bunch of products at one time to include, alpha 314,inst. oppen, turn up the heat, inst. shine, ammo,inst. honesty, female magic. and to be completly honest with all you i have no idea what to do or how to use or mix and match them. i just recived my shipment in on saturday and have been trying the products out and i cant tell if there makeing a diffrents or not. any pointers guys? v/r hueyfe ---
**Author:** ![mockingbird](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mockingbird/32/1790_2.png) [@mockingbird](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mockingbird)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2008, 10:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/reaching-out-form-nd/11931/2 "2008-04-28T22:39:22Z")
Hello Kyle and welcome! LOl it is still cold in april 😃 Wow, you got everything for your first order. All great products are included by this purchase! Did you ordered full size bottle or just to go 5 ml bottles? Mixing is a little bit hard when you are new to nail the good number of spray. Start testing every product by itself. SOme examples are 2-3 sprays of instant openness or 3-4 sprays of instant shine to start 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2008, 11:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/reaching-out-form-nd/11931/3 "2008-04-28T23:30:19Z")
hi kyle, welcome to the forum. it is a good selection of pheros. try out one product at a time to judge the effect before go for mix. you need to find the right amount of spray or drop of each product. have fun ---
**Author:** ![Curiouschic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f19dbf/32.png) [@Curiouschic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Curiouschic)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2008, 11:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/reaching-out-form-nd/11931/4 "2008-04-28T23:31:33Z")
Hi Kyle, and welcome to the forum. Great order you have there! A snippet of everything. Make sure you take a look at the stickies in the mens forum as the will answer many of the newbie questions you are having. The best way to start is to test one product at a time and use it for about a wek. Start with one spray the first day, 2 the second, three the 3rd until you find your “sweet spot”. (these helpful instructions can all be found in the stickies. Be patient with the products, it will take time to see the fun they hold. Also, in what situation are you planning on using your products? and what type of results are you going for? Are you primarily looking for self effects? or to affect the ladies around you? coworkers? Lettin us know what your aim is will help us to give you guidance tappered to your needs 🙂 Welcome once again and hope you have fun with all the goodies you have! CC 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2008, 11:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/reaching-out-form-nd/11931/5 "2008-04-29T11:18:19Z")
Hello Kyle Welcome to the forum 🙂 Great order, so you need a hand getting used to useing them. No problem the forum is full of useful tips and we are here to anwser any questions you may have. Start by useing one product at a time and looking for your optimal dosage. This way you will no what each product can do for you before layering with combos. A good method to use posted in this helpful thread… > [@My stupid newbie tricks](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-stupid-newbie-tricks/6369/1): > > STOP If you are new and have not read this thread byZeph Ksages great expectations post Another great post that may help many guys by Fire and Ice Wow, the two month mark! I might as well post a few of my less than stellar phero adventures. I wouldn’t have listened to me but there may be some smarter noobs out there who will heed these remarks. First order was A314, Instant Openness, Instant Honesty, Instant Shine, [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/), Turn Up The Heat, CTTM. smiley I think the mo… Places to apply Well its cold where you are so anywhere your showing skin if your all covered up. Hair is also good. When it warms up and you start just wearing tshirts and such then wrists, forearms, neck ,chest, back of neck, hair ,crook of elbow, jaw line these are all good places to experiment applying. You will find that some application spots will diffuse better for you then others. Things to look for from mones, This post will help you a bit there… > [@What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/9558): > > A lot of people come in to the forum and read all the wonderful stories about peoples experiences with [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/). New people end up trying them out with high expectations and usually as they get to know the product those expectations are met to some extent and sometimes not because there expectations were to high But I think its best for people to have a realistic view on what exactly they can and can not do. I get a lot of PM’s from people asking me why "they couldn’t get there cheati… Keep in mind when we say mixing we mean layering the products not mixing them in one bottle. If you have any questions or need and help just ask or you can PM me. 😃 **Your GC will be in your email box in the next 24 hours** 😃 Have fun Tisha