# Reasons for using Pheromones **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [July 10, 2010, 1:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/reasons-for-using-pheromones/39944 "2010-07-10T13:33:30Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![pheroguy7](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/4af34b/32.png) [@pheroguy7](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pheroguy7)\ **Post date:** [July 10, 2010, 1:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/reasons-for-using-pheromones/39944/1 "2010-07-10T13:33:30Z")
Hey everyone, My name is Mark, and I’m a male in his 40’s who is very intrigued by what I’ve read about [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) so far. I’ve always stayed in good shape, and have been a successful business man for the last 20 years or so. I currently live in Connecticut, which has been considered a wealthy area of the U.S. Unfortunately, as a result of the wealth in this area it is quite difficult to meet sincere people (woman for me) who don’t play games. Believe it or not, I’ve never had difficulty meeting woman, and in fact I’m often told I’m attractive, have a very attractive and outgoing personality, and a great sense of humor. Yet, it is so difficult to meet women in this area (I’m sure some guys can be the same way) who actually follow through with what they say. In other words, I constantly meet attractive women who, at first, are seemingly intersted in me, and even take the first step in asking if I’m interested in getting together with them, and/or offering me their phone number. However, actually getting them to follow through and accept the first date when I call is as difficult as performing brain surgery on myself. I’ve found that women in this area are so reserved, and reluctant to going out with a man that doesn’t fit their description of the perfect man. I would have moved from this area long ago if it wasn’t for the fact that it is so much easier here to be successful in business due to the fact there is a lot of business potential. After reading up on the effects of pheromones I’d be very intersted in seeing if this helps break down the barriers many women in this area have put up. I’m a firm believer in ‘what goes around comes around’, so whenever I take any action that involves other people I’m always asking myself the question, ‘would I want this done to me?’. I would never try and manipulate anyone, since I would never stand for anyone doing that to me. If I thought this product works in a violating fashion, where it can manipulate people’s feelings and make them like you when they normally would not, I would not even consider trying it. But from what I gather, it does not work in this way. If this product can assist in gently removing the barriers and walls that so many of us have put up regarding sex and intimacy, then I’m all for it. In fact, I’m only willing to try this product up until a first or second date… after that, if she still wants to see me I will not use it, as I would want to know if she is truly interested in me. This society we live in has created such a taboo on sex and intimacy, that its no wonder so many of us are ashamed of desiring it. I think Jack Nicholson said it best… “you can suck on a tit and they will rate it ‘R’, but if you hack the tit off with an ax they will rate it ‘PG’”. Several years ago Janest Jackson showed her nipple during the half-time highlights of the superbowl, and everyone freaked out, and the television station banned her for life. Yet, during that same superbowl we were bombarded with commercials for movies involving explosions, gunfire, and killing. Is it any wonder why we have such issues about sex. I’m looking forward to trying this product, and see where it leads. Thanks for reading my post. Mark. ---
**Author:** ![zyron](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/zyron/32/1842_2.png) [@zyron](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/zyron)\ **Post date:** [July 10, 2010, 1:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/reasons-for-using-pheromones/39944/2 "2010-07-10T13:46:58Z")
I get the whole Janet thing. She barley even showed anything. that one stupid thing ruined Radio. i have friend in the industry that had to change there show and it has never been the same. Weird how something visual could change the way people can talk on the radio. It is only now things are slowly getting back to something better. still aways to go though. this country is one of the few who put such a slant on sex. Other countries are comfortable and look at us here, and say wow they so backward. No wonder theres so many whack jobs in this country. Anyways, Welcome aboard. I have been using them for a couple years now. they work well in so many ways of life. My favs are [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), Ammo, and Instant Openess and Honesty. there only like 10 percent of the work. where you are the other 90 percent. I have seen some interesting things happen around me. Best thing is to try them out and observe the people around you. Its so much fun. Get that 25 dollar gift and get going. So excited to see how they work for you. Check the different threads. theres so many experienced people on this site. Welcome again PheroGuy7 ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [July 10, 2010, 2:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/reasons-for-using-pheromones/39944/3 "2010-07-10T14:40:35Z")
Hi Mark, Welcome to the forum. You can try IH and AMMO. IH can help to enhance relationship. The girls will be closer to you as they will feel they have known you for long time. AMMO will help to get them atrracted to you. Good luck ---
**Author:** ![jessejester](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jessejester/32/1683_2.png) [@jessejester](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jessejester)\ **Post date:** [July 10, 2010, 3:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/reasons-for-using-pheromones/39944/4 "2010-07-10T15:33:51Z")
Hello Mark, Welcome to the forum. I have to agree with the advice given so far. AMMO and IH seem to be the best fit for what you are descibing. A sexual spark with connection and trust. Please come back and tell us what youy decide and how the products workrd for you. Again, welcome ---
**Author:** ![Katalyst](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/katalyst/32/1415_2.png) [@Katalyst](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Katalyst)\ **Post date:** [July 10, 2010, 7:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/reasons-for-using-pheromones/39944/5 "2010-07-10T19:41:47Z")
Hey welcome 🙂 to the forums Mark! Thanks for the great introduction and i think you already got some great suggestion on pheros to start out with and it seems like your personality is already good so pheros will only enhance whats already there! With that said, yes pheros do no manipulate anyone, they actually tend to break down barriers at times and bring out what is already there. They for example cant and wont force someone to be interested in you for example where a guy is chasing a girl that he claims is his dream girl but she has no interest in him. Him wearing pheros around her will not change her brain thoughts about him and all of sudden melt in his arms. They act subconsciously and sometimes make us more aware of feelings, or acting on them, or enhancing them at that time when they are around you. For example, when you wear a phero and it makes them feel a certain way, and when you leave they dont feel that way, they know that it is YOU that is making them feel that way. You know you like to surround yourself with other successful people and those that make you feel good and make you laugh. Well of course a woman will be interested in a man that she finds attractive and makes her laugh and feel good… ok im rambling now but you get the picture.. dont be worried about an ethical dilemma like a date rape drug or something. that is completely a 180 away from what these products offer and you have to put forth your effort or they wont yield the desired results. THey are seen as a team player at about 10% and 90% is how you steer things and handle the situation that is presented! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [July 14, 2010, 7:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/reasons-for-using-pheromones/39944/6 "2010-07-14T19:22:38Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Mark! I read your introduction and found it was so cute. Especially the part about you saying getting them to follow through and accept a first date being like brain surgery. Lol. My team already did a great job in product recommendations and advice. The men here will take over and when you have been initiated in the men’s club here you will learn so much and they will teach you the ways of a PUA. Your gc was issued!