# RECEIVED MY FIRST ORDER!!!!...........Now Need Some Advice Please! **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [May 20, 2008, 9:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/received-my-first-order-now-need-some-advice-please/12904 "2008-05-20T21:03:30Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 13\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![lakerman34](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lakerman34/32/1663_2.png) [@lakerman34](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lakerman34)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2008, 9:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/received-my-first-order-now-need-some-advice-please/12904/1 "2008-05-20T21:03:30Z")
Just received my first order EVER of Ammunition, IH, IO, and IS. Where do you guys recommend I spray for each one and how much of each? Keep in mind, I’m a 17 year old half-Latino Junior in HS trying to impress a girl !!!😛 ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2008, 11:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/received-my-first-order-now-need-some-advice-please/12904/2 "2008-05-20T23:11:54Z")
Well I have been out of the loop for a few weeks - so if you asked what to order I was not here to make any recommendations. My first comment would be that I would recommend [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) instead of Ammo. Instant Gentleman gives off a great vibe but it does not have any none in it. I recommend this because at age 17 you are probably producing a LOT of none already and it will be easy to OD if you are not careful. Now a none OD is not the end of the world but it can create just one more obstacle to overcome afterwards. That being said I would start with the IH, IO or Instant Shine. Part of it depends on what kind of rapport you already have with said young lady. If you two already talk then I would start with the IH or IS. Probably the IS. If you do not have much in the way of converstions then you could always start with the IO to get some conversations going. Not knowing the current relationship level - friends, strangers, somewhere in between - I can only kinda guess. ---
**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2008, 11:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/received-my-first-order-now-need-some-advice-please/12904/3 "2008-05-20T23:59:05Z")
Depends what kind of vibe you’re going for, cooler and more light, or warmer and more comfy? Depending on which one you would perfer, I’d go with: 2-3 sprays of IO/IH and 1-2 sprays of IS. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) is cooler and lighter, Instant Honesty is warmer and more comfortable. ---
**Author:** ![lakerman34](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lakerman34/32/1663_2.png) [@lakerman34](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lakerman34)\ **Post date:** [May 21, 2008, 12:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/received-my-first-order-now-need-some-advice-please/12904/4 "2008-05-21T00:30:38Z")
> [@bosshank](#): > > Well I have been out of the loop for a few weeks - so if you asked what to order I was not here to make any recommendations. > > My first comment would be that I would recommend Instant Gentleman instead of Ammo. Instant Gentleman gives off a great vibe but it does not have any none in it. I recommend this because at age 17 you are probably producing a LOT of none already and it will be easy to OD if you are not careful. Now a none OD is not the end of the world but it can create just one more obstacle to overcome afterwards. > > That being said I would start with the Instant Honesty, Instant Openness or Instant Shine. Part of it depends on what kind of rapport you already have with said young lady. If you two already talk then I would start with the IH or IS. Probably the IS. If you do not have much in the way of converstions then you could always start with the IO to get some conversations going. Not knowing the current relationship level - friends, strangers, somewhere in between - I can only kinda guess. We are pretty good friends, but not like GREAT friends. She’s new this yr., and already has made some friends who she considers close, but the guys in that group, I heard, she has no interest in. Also, I’m very friendly with that crowd of kids so I think with a little bit of help (hence the pheromones), I can gradually become more than just “pretty good friends.” ---
**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\ **Post date:** [May 21, 2008, 1:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/received-my-first-order-now-need-some-advice-please/12904/5 "2008-05-21T01:02:17Z")
Just as a quick warning. There have been **TOO** many threads on getting in and out of the “friend zone”. NJM apparently had enough of it and was even gracious enough to present her own personal guide for dealing with the FZ. In short, the best answer was to never get into the friend zone. SO..don’t try and become “pretty good friends” then become more, just become “pretty good lovers” (or “pretty good makeout buddies” if you’re abstaining) from the get go. Just off of instinct I’m gonna say go with cooler and light. I don’t think warm and comforting will be the right…tone so to speak. ---
**Author:** ![lakerman34](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lakerman34/32/1663_2.png) [@lakerman34](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lakerman34)\ **Post date:** [May 21, 2008, 1:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/received-my-first-order-now-need-some-advice-please/12904/6 "2008-05-21T01:24:22Z")
I wouldn’t say “just friends” zone either. Like we say hey to each other in the hallways, but it’s not like just friends. She knows me by name, went to prom w/ one of her good friends (which may be a problem cuz I think her friend likes me A LOT now), and we tease each other a lot. I guess it’s KINDA warm, but still friends, but I wouldn’t say I’m stuck in that zone. If it helps, she’s 100% Hispanic, idk how ethnicity is related with [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/). ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [May 21, 2008, 1:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/received-my-first-order-now-need-some-advice-please/12904/7 "2008-05-21T01:28:54Z")
I would go with the IH to try to push any relationship deeper and get her to open up verbally with you or with Instant shine so she realizes she is always happy around you and use that to your advantage. ---
**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\ **Post date:** [May 21, 2008, 1:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/received-my-first-order-now-need-some-advice-please/12904/8 "2008-05-21T01:33:05Z")
Go with Bosshank, if he says IH is better for this situation, I would take it. I usually favor IH as well, but I was thinking that a lot of people consider it ‘heavy’ and therefore I didn’t want to create unnecessary weight so to speak. ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [May 21, 2008, 1:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/received-my-first-order-now-need-some-advice-please/12904/9 "2008-05-21T01:35:02Z")
[Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) is good to project you as more capable and respected compare to the other kids. Social pheros as recommended by Boss, IO, IH and INstant shine will also definitely help. Boss, where have you been. Long time no see. ---
**Author:** ![tmoz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/7ab992/32.png) [@tmoz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tmoz)\ **Post date:** [May 21, 2008, 1:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/received-my-first-order-now-need-some-advice-please/12904/10 "2008-05-21T01:57:42Z")
[http://www.collegebound.org/pic6.jpg](http://www.collegebound.org/pic6.jpg) ---
**Author:** ![tmoz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/7ab992/32.png) [@tmoz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tmoz)\ **Post date:** [May 21, 2008, 1:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/received-my-first-order-now-need-some-advice-please/12904/11 "2008-05-21T01:59:38Z")
Or just spray yourself 2-3 times with IShine + Instant Openness ---
**Author:** ![lakerman34](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lakerman34/32/1663_2.png) [@lakerman34](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lakerman34)\ **Post date:** [May 21, 2008, 2:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/received-my-first-order-now-need-some-advice-please/12904/12 "2008-05-21T02:11:47Z")
HAHAHA good one tmoz lol. 2130 baby on my SATs. ---
**Author:** ![tmoz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/7ab992/32.png) [@tmoz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tmoz)\ **Post date:** [May 22, 2008, 6:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/received-my-first-order-now-need-some-advice-please/12904/13 "2008-05-22T06:28:15Z")
Had to take ACT’s in Michigan. Back in the day when SAT was out of 1600 !