Here’s a mix I like to wear my self, it’s very -none heavy so try it at your own risk. However, also note that results WILL vary. It REALLY ups your confidence though.
Instant Big Balls A’ Plenty mix:
x2 sprays of IJ (or if you’re risky and CAN handle more 3 to 4 sprays not all at once though! In timed increments of maybe 4 to 6 hours with same reapplication of socials noted. Half of the socials if going for a 3rd spray or the full recommended amount of socials if going for 2 more sprays to count as 4 total, BUT by this I mean just one spray to count as three from the first original doses NOT literally 3 more or 4 more!)
2 to 3 (maybe 4 depending on how much you can handle) drops of A314
x2 sprays of mega dose Spaceland
x4 sprays of preferably IH x2 (so you won’t have to spray on so much.)
Now for you personally I don’t recommend IJ so you won’t scare her away, although the socials (especially mega dose Spaceland might buffer it pretty good.) This is just for general big ball purposes for confidence and what may work for me may not work for you, but a simple tweak of this kind of mix may work well for confidence. So instead of IJ you can replace it with either TUTH, or a good MX from the Raw Power test pack or straight 2.5 (or 5 mcg if you’re older) of straight -none from the ExperiMone series.
If you start to see people seeing you as too intimidating try adjusting the socials by adding a spray or two more of Spaceland or/and IH (or IO if no Spaceland, but Spaceland is highly recommended for this mega -none mix because of its high dose of Alpha Androstenol and ease of not having to spray too much Alphanol on.) The IH will serve as adding comfort to your persona while the high dose of Alphanol will make you approachable.