# Regain/Build Trust **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [October 5, 2008, 6:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/regain-build-trust/20879 "2008-10-05T18:45:29Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![tomtom26](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/cab0a1/32.png) [@tomtom26](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tomtom26)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2008, 6:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/regain-build-trust/20879/1 "2008-10-05T18:45:29Z")
What would be a good phermone to target the feeling of trusting someone. I have somewhat lost a trust of a female interest. I didn’t do anything that bad at all, but it upset her and I want to regain her trust and could use some phermonal help. Any suggestions? ---
**Author:** ![douche](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/douche/32/1144_2.png) [@douche](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/douche)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2008, 7:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/regain-build-trust/20879/2 "2008-10-05T19:06:25Z")
you might want to try some instant honesty with a little a314 and possibly instant female magic ---
**Author:** ![Seraphim54](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/seraphim54/32/514_2.png) [@Seraphim54](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Seraphim54)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2008, 7:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/regain-build-trust/20879/3 "2008-10-05T19:08:24Z")
> [@tomtom26](#): > > What would be a good phermone to target the feeling of trusting someone. > > I have somewhat lost a trust of a female interest. I didn’t do anything that bad at all, but it upset her and I want to regain her trust and could use some phermonal help. > > Any suggestions? My best input. As you can see, I am a newbie too. One who came to [pheromones](https://a314.com/) as a solution to a “woman” problem like yours. Let me ask you. How bad do you feel about it? I ask because the degree of “badness” you feel about it will determine how far you are willing to go to change your situation. It has been well said here that pheromones are 10% whereas you, and your personality comprise 90% of the problem/solution (I am paraphrasing here but that’s the gist of it). I have spent about $250 on pheromones and I believe they are helping some, as in they got my foot back in the door in order to give me another shot. HOWEVER, I still have the problem of my personality having the ability to create a strong enough attraction to get this lady to see me as more than a ‘friend’ (ugh…the kiss of death). First go read this post by Tisha, one of our lovely moderators: [What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/9558) While I am not encouraging you to lose interest in pheromones, I would also encourage you to start re-educating and re-programing yourself (as I am doing currently) and I recommend you google “double your dating catalogue” and invest in one of the courses listed there. I am currently working with one called Deep Inner Game which I recommend as a good starting point, and I have another called Body Language on the way. It requires a strong commitment to change. How bad are you hurting? This will determine your motivation. When you get your inner game in order, pheromones will dramatically enhance this. If you don’t, I guarantee you more hurt and failure. Thats my two cents. Seraphim ---
**Author:** ![in\_uk](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/in_uk/32/2130_2.png) [@in\_uk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/in_uk)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2008, 7:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/regain-build-trust/20879/4 "2008-10-05T19:18:06Z")
whats the deep inner game course like? ---
**Author:** ![Seraphim54](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/seraphim54/32/514_2.png) [@Seraphim54](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Seraphim54)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2008, 7:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/regain-build-trust/20879/5 "2008-10-05T19:26:42Z")
> [@in\_uk](#): > > whats the deep inner game course like? So far I am really impressed. I have only been working with it about 10 days now and you are asked at the outset to make a 90 day commitment to work with the material for an hour a day at least. I am learning quite a lot and feel confident that at the end of the 90 days, I will have re-made myself to a great extent and be able to attract women that are far better for me than the psycho that moved me to take this initiative. Unfortunately, I can’t “fix” her. ---
**Author:** ![in\_uk](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/in_uk/32/2130_2.png) [@in\_uk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/in_uk)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2008, 7:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/regain-build-trust/20879/6 "2008-10-05T19:44:44Z")
its from the david deangelo site right, i looked at the site but am a bit apprehensive about those sort of sites, good to hear a real life review. ---
**Author:** ![Seraphim54](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/seraphim54/32/514_2.png) [@Seraphim54](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Seraphim54)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2008, 7:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/regain-build-trust/20879/7 "2008-10-05T19:57:05Z")
> [@in\_uk](#): > > its from the david deangelo site right, i looked at the site but am a bit apprehensive about those sort of sites, good to hear a real life review. Yep…David D alright. He gives you 30 days to check it out and see if it’s right for you, without charge. Also there is a 5 monthly payment plan if you don’t have the cash outright. ---
**Author:** ![ntk23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/65b543/32.png) [@ntk23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ntk23)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2008, 7:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/regain-build-trust/20879/8 "2008-10-05T19:57:56Z")
I think there are some newsletters or something from David DeAngelo on either his own site or [fastseduction.com](http://fastseduction.com) or both; they are free to read and quite good. In fact there’s a lot of good stuff on or linked from [fastseduction.com](http://fastseduction.com) that’s very good. If you were apprehensive about parting with money, or skint even, you could do some “data mining” and dig for some good PUA advice. It would just take a bit of time to sort out the wheat from the chaff basically. And not every bit of PUA advice is necessarily going to mesh well with everyone’s personality or lifestyle. ---
**Author:** ![in\_uk](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/in_uk/32/2130_2.png) [@in\_uk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/in_uk)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2008, 8:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/regain-build-trust/20879/9 "2008-10-05T20:02:00Z")
thanks for the heads up, my main concern is typing those sacred card numbers into the computer, for some robbing scumbag to clean me out. ---
**Author:** ![Seraphim54](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/seraphim54/32/514_2.png) [@Seraphim54](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Seraphim54)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2008, 8:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/regain-build-trust/20879/10 "2008-10-05T20:15:32Z")
> [@in\_uk](#): > > thanks for the heads up, my main concern is typing those sacred card numbers into the computer, for some robbing scumbag to clean me out. David D is not a scumbag. In fact, he is a personal friend of SteveO ---
**Author:** ![in\_uk](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/in_uk/32/2130_2.png) [@in\_uk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/in_uk)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2008, 8:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/regain-build-trust/20879/11 "2008-10-05T20:20:11Z")
i didn’t say he was seraphim54.