# Remaking Why do guys who do...

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/remaking-why-do-guys-who-do/41744>\
**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [September 14, 2010, 10:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/remaking-why-do-guys-who-do/41744 "2010-09-14T22:37:03Z")\
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**Author:** ![Jstn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jstn/32/848_2.png) [@Jstn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jstn)\
**Post date:** [September 14, 2010, 10:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/remaking-why-do-guys-who-do/41744/1 "2010-09-14T22:37:03Z")

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I saw this post but it got deleted or something I’ve seen this happen alot so I thought I should ask.

Why do guys who do guys who do drugs get so many girls?  
It doesn’t make sense to me doesn’t weed increase anxiety and make you laugh more which is approval seeking?  
Please give good explanation or opinion  
Thanks.

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**Author:** ![henk](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/henk/32/5189_2.png) [@henk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/henk)\
**Post date:** [September 14, 2010, 11:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/remaking-why-do-guys-who-do/41744/2 "2010-09-14T23:47:10Z")

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Because they do what they want to do.  
It’s not allowed what makes it attractive.  
It has nothing to do appproval seeking.

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**Author:** ![Jstn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jstn/32/848_2.png) [@Jstn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jstn)\
**Post date:** [September 15, 2010, 12:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/remaking-why-do-guys-who-do/41744/3 "2010-09-15T00:00:42Z")

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I was saying I thought all the laughing from it would be bad since laughing is approval seeking

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**Author:** ![Vivid\_Boy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/vivid_boy/32/2225_2.png) [@Vivid\_Boy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Vivid_Boy)\
**Post date:** [September 15, 2010, 12:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/remaking-why-do-guys-who-do/41744/4 "2010-09-15T00:24:48Z")

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girls only like druggies in highschool because theyre rebelling. once you get into the real world the only people that stay druggies are fuck ups and the only people who date fuck ups are other fuck ups.

I dont really consider weed much of a drug though.

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**Author:** ![thegentleman](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/thegentleman/32/1770_2.png) [@thegentleman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thegentleman)\
**Post date:** [September 15, 2010, 1:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/remaking-why-do-guys-who-do/41744/5 "2010-09-15T01:06:47Z")

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> [@Jstn](#):
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> I saw this post but it got deleted or something I’ve seen this happen alot so I thought I should ask.
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> Why do guys who do guys who do drugs get so many girls?  
> It doesn’t make sense to me doesn’t weed increase anxiety and make you laugh more which is approval seeking?  
> Please give good explanation or opinion  
> Thanks.

It probably didn’t get deleted just moved to an appropriate forum.  
This forum is for [pheromone](https://a314.com/) discussion, this post / question is off-topic and should be posted in the lounge.

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**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\
**Post date:** [September 15, 2010, 1:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/remaking-why-do-guys-who-do/41744/6 "2010-09-15T01:19:50Z")

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This will get deleted as well. Regardless of how anyone feels about pot, its illegal…the op is a minor and AD is a business that can’t afford the trouble. I would think coming to the conclusion that it was deleted, would be enough of clue that resurrecting it would seem like a bad idea.

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**Author:** ![MVKBUGATTI](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/50afbb/32.png) [@MVKBUGATTI](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MVKBUGATTI)\
**Post date:** [September 15, 2010, 1:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/remaking-why-do-guys-who-do/41744/7 "2010-09-15T01:43:33Z")

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[quote=“Jstn”]

I saw this post but it got deleted or something I’ve seen this happen alot so I thought I should ask.  
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This community has inherented responsibilities and with responsibility comes accountability: with that we should strives to maintain a spirit of decency and order.

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**Author:** ![CoolKat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/coolkat/32/501_2.png) [@CoolKat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CoolKat)\
**Post date:** [September 15, 2010, 1:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/remaking-why-do-guys-who-do/41744/8 "2010-09-15T01:43:37Z")

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seriously, get rid of the teen trolls , lol

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**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\
**Post date:** [September 15, 2010, 2:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/remaking-why-do-guys-who-do/41744/10 "2010-09-15T02:17:30Z")

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Please stop posting this on this section.

Go to the lounge to do this.

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**Author:** ![Vivid\_Boy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/vivid_boy/32/2225_2.png) [@Vivid\_Boy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Vivid_Boy)\
**Post date:** [September 15, 2010, 2:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/remaking-why-do-guys-who-do/41744/11 "2010-09-15T02:18:31Z")

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I dont think its a bad question at all. the teens ask all sorts of stupid questions unrelated to mones, i think this one is probably the most important unrelated questions.

Just dont stress the stoner kids. they are appealing now to girls because smoking pot when you should be in class is a shitty form of rebellion, and when youre in your teens, rebellion seems “cool”. Wait till they hit there mid twenties and get a serious gf. then those same kids who were once all about rebelling and ‘bros before hoes’ will be the guys with their nuts in a pickle jar sitting on top of their gfs fireplace mantle on display like a trophy.

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**Author:** ![Jstn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jstn/32/848_2.png) [@Jstn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jstn)\
**Post date:** [September 15, 2010, 7:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/remaking-why-do-guys-who-do/41744/12 "2010-09-15T19:06:06Z")

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Kat… seriously stop giving me S\*\*\* just because I’m younger then you it doesn’t mean I’m not as smart and just because I accidently posted a relevant question in the wrong forum it doesn’t make me a troll.

I assumed that the maker of the post deleted it so I made it again.. is there something wrong with that too? I’m guessing you’ll think there is because I’m 15 right.. ur the troll posting rude irrelavent junk on like every teenagers post get a life.

Thank you Vivid for actually being respectful I appreciate it.

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**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\
**Post date:** [September 15, 2010, 7:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/remaking-why-do-guys-who-do/41744/13 "2010-09-15T19:11:54Z")

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At this point both of you should take your argument to pm’s and keep the board drama free

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**Author:** ![boosh](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/boosh/32/646_2.png) [@boosh](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/boosh)\
**Post date:** [September 15, 2010, 7:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/remaking-why-do-guys-who-do/41744/14 "2010-09-15T19:14:10Z")

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> [@RADMAN513](#):
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> This will get deleted as well. Regardless of how anyone feels about pot, its illegal…the op is a minor and AD is a business that can’t afford the trouble. I would think coming to the conclusion that it was deleted, would be enough of clue that resurrecting it would seem like a bad idea.

> [@Jstn](#):
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> I assumed that the maker of the post deleted it so I made it again.. is there something wrong with that too? I’m guessing you’ll think there is because I’m 15 right.. ur the troll posting rude irrelavent junk on like every teenagers post get a life.

Yes there is something wrong with it, see RADMAN’s reply.

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**Author:** ![mikdal9201](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikdal9201/32/2358_2.png) [@mikdal9201](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikdal9201)\
**Post date:** [September 15, 2010, 8:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/remaking-why-do-guys-who-do/41744/15 "2010-09-15T20:12:07Z")

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i’m waiting for a few rounds of “did not, did too, did not, did too, did not, did too”

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**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\
**Post date:** [September 15, 2010, 8:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/remaking-why-do-guys-who-do/41744/16 "2010-09-15T20:27:08Z")

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> [@Jstn](#):
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> Kat… seriously stop giving me S\*\*\* just because I’m younger then you it doesn’t mean I’m not as smart and just because I accidently posted a relevant question in the wrong forum it doesn’t make me a troll.
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> I assumed that the maker of the post deleted it so I made it again.. is there something wrong with that too? I’m guessing you’ll think there is because I’m 15 right.. ur the troll posting rude irrelavent junk on like every teenagers post get a life.
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> Thank you Vivid for actually being respectful I appreciate it.

I remember defending myself like that way back when. But Rad is right, for problems with each other, you two should respect everyone that doesn’t want to see bickering back and forth. Regardless of my opinions on the subject, we all have to be courteous to each other.

No matter how much I’ve wanted to come out and say not so nice things, I held back because as human beings we want to try and respect each other as much as possible. Do bite your tounge when you’re saying things that can be hurtful or disrespectful.

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**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\
**Post date:** [September 15, 2010, 8:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/remaking-why-do-guys-who-do/41744/17 "2010-09-15T20:52:57Z")

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> [@Vivid\_Boy](#):
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> girls only like druggies in highschool because theyre rebelling. once you get into the real world the only people that stay druggies are fuck ups and the only people who date fuck ups are other fuck ups.
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> I dont really consider weed much of a drug though.

I would tend to lean toward this - Once I was out of my teens and certainly by my mid 20s, I would say that IME most women had either learned the hard way or otherwise determined that getting into a relationship with a major stoner was a bad idea.

After that, it did tend to be the fuck-ups dating the fuck-ups whilst the rest of us got on with life.

And yes, I’m a bit ambivalent about weed too. 🙂

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**Author:** ![Reclipse](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/reclipse/32/773_2.png) [@Reclipse](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Reclipse)\
**Post date:** [September 15, 2010, 11:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/remaking-why-do-guys-who-do/41744/18 "2010-09-15T23:21:17Z")

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> [@Vivid\_Boy](#):
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> I dont think its a bad question at all. the teens ask all sorts of stupid questions unrelated to mones, i think this one is probably the most important unrelated questions.
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> Just dont stress the stoner kids. they are appealing now to girls because smoking pot when you should be in class is a shitty form of rebellion, and when youre in your teens, rebellion seems “cool”. Wait till they hit there mid twenties and get a serious gf. then those same kids who were once all about rebelling and ‘bros before hoes’ will be the guys with their nuts in a pickle jar sitting on top of their gfs fireplace mantle on display like a trophy.

I’m still a stoner kid at 30 yrs old and none of my gf’s have ever had me by the nuts like that.

It depends on your reasons for doing whatever drugs you’re doing. Some have addictions, some like things on a recreational level.

I personally smoke the green because it keeps my anger in check as well as helps me with my back problems. These are actually the 2 reasons listed on my sb215 (medical referral to use mj). I dabble in other substances as well.. and that’s my personal choice.

Females go for guys who have confidence. The reason why the the younger ones like the lil rebellious snots is because they have an air of defiance… tying into the ‘badboy’ syndrome. This can be perceived by the girls as confidence but it really isnt.

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**Author:** ![Jstn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jstn/32/848_2.png) [@Jstn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jstn)\
**Post date:** [September 16, 2010, 1:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/remaking-why-do-guys-who-do/41744/19 "2010-09-16T01:04:39Z")

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I’m really rebellious and confident yet they get more girls.. I dont get it

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**Author:** ![Olfact\_Amorous](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/olfact_amorous/32/434_2.png) [@Olfact\_Amorous](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Olfact_Amorous)\
**Post date:** [September 16, 2010, 1:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/remaking-why-do-guys-who-do/41744/20 "2010-09-16T01:46:01Z")

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> [@Jstn](#):
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> I’m really rebellious and confident yet they get more girls.. I dont get it

If you have to question yourself and ponder about this all day long it makes me wonder if you actually possess those qualities or are you just constantly pumping your self up with reassurances that dont actually personify who you are at the moment.

The fact that your so focused on what they do and quantify their success in comparison to yours just shows that your missing the bigger picture. Girls come in all shapes, sizes, IQ levels, and ultimately social trends. Are you going to appeal equally to girls from all social trends? Most likely not considering the variances in likes and dislikes of their choosing of men due to personality, how they dress, how they carry on, how they carry themselves and so forth.

Im not here to put you down though. All I’m saying is for you to come and ask this question again after its removal is not a bad thing. Its the fact that asking it again seems like a cry out in the sense that perhaps if you learn the mechanism behind their success perhaps you can follow suit in a alternate manner. People only seek to ask things like this because they feel unfortunate in their current circumstances. The fact you know about Androtics and have the ability to purchase products here should be enough of a push to get you to work on yourself so that when you use these products that you truly will be the “Golden Boy” in the eyes of your peers.

Questions like this rarely if ever bring upon any enlightenment or any real answers to anything. People have graciously shared their perceptions through what they’ve experienced but none of it is concrete cause and effect and socially bound aspects like this cant have straight up facts discerned.

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**Author:** ![Aggie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f07891/32.png) [@Aggie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Aggie)\
**Post date:** [September 16, 2010, 2:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/remaking-why-do-guys-who-do/41744/21 "2010-09-16T02:39:00Z")

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Jealousy is the price that people who don’t do big things pay to those that do.

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