# Role Reversal, need help. **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 27, 2011, 5:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/role-reversal-need-help/53040 "2011-10-27T17:39:57Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![gjohnsoniii](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/cdc98d/32.png) [@gjohnsoniii](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/gjohnsoniii)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2011, 5:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/role-reversal-need-help/53040/1 "2011-10-27T17:39:57Z")
Hi everyone. My wife (of 15 years) and I have just entered our forties. When we were younger, I had a sexual appetite that she just couldn’t keep up with. Back then, I wanted to make love everyday of the week if we could… Now, (in the past year or so), our roles have reversed. She ALWAYS wants it but lately I’m not always in the mood. Don’t get me wrong, I still find my wife attractive but after a long day at work and helping kids with homework and life in general…I’m tired and just want to relax. When we do make love (usually on the weekends), it is a powerful experience. we have no trouble “pleasing” each other, its just starting the engine that’s the problem. I came across this site when googling ways to increase male libido and was very intrigued. I made up my mind to try buying a spray for her that may help put me in the mood. I cant decide whether I should get the MX397 or [Instant Sexiness b](https://phera.com/product/kitten/), or any other mone someone may suggest. I welcome any suggestions or experiences. Gregg ---
**Author:** ![empath](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/empath/32/2351_2.png) [@empath](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/empath)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2011, 6:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/role-reversal-need-help/53040/2 "2011-10-27T18:01:18Z")
> [@gjohnsoniii](#): > > Hi everyone. My wife (of 15 years) and I have just entered our forties. When we were younger, I had a sexual appetite that she just couldn’t keep up with. Back then, I wanted to make love everyday of the week if we could… > > Now, (in the past year or so), our roles have reversed. She ALWAYS wants it but lately I’m not always in the mood. Don’t get me wrong, I still find my wife attractive but after a long day at work and helping kids with homework and life in general…I’m tired and just want to relax. When we do make love (usually on the weekends), it is a powerful experience. we have no trouble “pleasing” each other, its just starting the engine that’s the problem. > > I came across this site when googling ways to increase male libido and was very intrigued. I made up my mind to try buying a spray for her that may help put me in the mood. I cant decide whether I should get the MX397 or Instant Sexiness b, or any other mone someone may suggest. I welcome any suggestions or experiences. > > Gregg the [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) mixes could work. Also TUTH can make things pretty awesome once in the bedroom. I find anything with none ends up starting my engine a bit… seems to make me a bit horny lol. So TUTH and ammo have that ingredient. A lot of this seems like a mindset as well. Just have the mind all day that you’re going to not relax and sit on the couch but make awesome love with your wife 🙂 get it in your head! hope this helps ---
**Author:** ![XPX](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/x/a587f6/32.png) [@XPX](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/XPX)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2011, 6:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/role-reversal-need-help/53040/3 "2011-10-27T18:12:55Z")
Hi, I think for beginners it’s good to get their 25$ GC! That helps you to feel totally free to just try out some products without any risks! Here you find the way how you get it [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) The Instant Sexiness is a good way to use for your wife which will increase your libido! Another way could be to use male pheromones because they often have self effects on you which also will increase your libido, especially products with high androstenone content like TUTH or IJ Also remember those MXs are experimental mixes, they work but they are not concipated to be reliable as the products in the Instant Line! [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) is also a nice product which has some sexual tendencies but not in the direct sexual way! Greetz ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [October 31, 2011, 8:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/role-reversal-need-help/53040/4 "2011-10-31T20:03:22Z")
Hi there gj! The [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/) you are looking into are products for your wife but you say you are still attracted to her. I think my team gave you great advise. Since the only problem is you being tired is figure out some way that you can get more days off. I think you both should wear these pheromones for a more rewarding experience but the product I recommend the most for you is shine to make you feel calm, refreshed and more relaxed so that you can get yourself ready to please your wife _ **Your gc was issued! 🙂** _