# Rub or leave **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [July 26, 2013, 12:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/rub-or-leave/59648 "2013-07-26T12:31:44Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Mobidv](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/90db22/32.png) [@Mobidv](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mobidv)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2013, 12:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/rub-or-leave/59648/1 "2013-07-26T12:31:44Z")
When applying spary based products should I spray onto the skin and leave to dry naturally or rub into key areas? Does it matter? ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [July 27, 2013, 10:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/rub-or-leave/59648/2 "2013-07-27T22:29:35Z")
Yes, let them air dry and you’ll be fine. No need to transfer the mones to your fingers and I’d think you’d wash them away when you washed your hands… You do wash your hands… I hope… right?? Personally, IShine is one that I like to appy to my hair for a wider range mone cloud… 🙂 1Alpha . ---
**Author:** ![nicor6](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/dfb087/32.png) [@nicor6](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nicor6)\ **Post date:** [August 10, 2013, 2:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/rub-or-leave/59648/3 "2013-08-10T02:14:05Z")
was about to ask the same question! 😃 not to thread jack but what about oil based products like the A314?? rub to dry? or just one drop to let it dry naturally? ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [August 10, 2013, 2:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/rub-or-leave/59648/4 "2013-08-10T02:25:25Z")
Spread it out lightly with your fingertip and leave it. Don’t rub. Also keep spray and oil apps apart as it can mess-up diffusion. ---
**Author:** ![nicor6](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/dfb087/32.png) [@nicor6](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nicor6)\ **Post date:** [August 10, 2013, 9:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/rub-or-leave/59648/5 "2013-08-10T09:13:09Z")
> [@mobocaster](#): > > Spread it out lightly with your fingertip and leave it. Don’t rub. > > Also keep spray and oil apps apart as it can mess-up diffusion. Thanks for the heads up mobo! one other small thing.. I see some people advising to wear different sprays like IO + IG + IH will it mess the diffusion if all 3 is sprayed same location?? ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [August 10, 2013, 9:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/rub-or-leave/59648/6 "2013-08-10T09:38:35Z")
No problem with layering sprays - in fact it is the advised way to do things. Just leave a minute or two between each layer for the spray to dry down. The only caveat I have here is that if any of your sprays contain a A1, I would try and keep them to different app points. This is because A1 is prone to sudden breakdown to none (throwing your dosing right-off) and a pretty awful stink in hotter/sweatier conditions. Also, if you are prone to the negative self effects as I am, it helps to keep any A1 points as far away from the nose as possible. So if that happens, I can quickly slink-off, wash and reapply the A1 without greatly disturbing the rest of the mix. ---
**Author:** ![XyzN](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xyzn/32/2416_2.png) [@XyzN](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/XyzN)\ **Post date:** [August 10, 2013, 6:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/rub-or-leave/59648/7 "2013-08-10T18:04:31Z")
So what happens if you do rub oils in too much? boy have I been using my oil wrong lol. ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [August 10, 2013, 6:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/rub-or-leave/59648/8 "2013-08-10T18:13:31Z")
They settle deeper/faster into the epidermis, getting trapped - so less diffusion and breaking down faster due to the increased exposure to skin bacteria. This is why a little bit of lotion over an oil app point, and allowed to settle-in will form a barrier in the epidermis, slowing absorption and exposure to bacteria, giving you slightly longer duration. ---
**Author:** ![nicor6](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/dfb087/32.png) [@nicor6](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nicor6)\ **Post date:** [August 14, 2013, 6:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/rub-or-leave/59648/9 "2013-08-14T06:25:37Z")
Ok one last question on this topic if like for example it recommends to use 2 sprays or 2 drops, does it mean it has to be sprayed on same area? for example 2X on the wrist, or it has to be 2 different locations? 1X on wrist other on neck?? sorry for the noob question guys..im new to this 😃 ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [August 14, 2013, 6:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/rub-or-leave/59648/10 "2013-08-14T06:47:44Z")
It all depends on you, the situation and the pheros involved. Spread-out a bit is generally a good idea as it makes for maximum diffusion but in some situations it might be better to apply tighter. At its most general, I tend to find that none-based pheros do best when kept mostly towards the centre - neck/throat/upper chest, whilst status/socials can be spread wider but some overlap is ok. Think on how an interaction builds. you want the maximum sexual impact when physically closest to your subject - ie in your arms! 😉