# Rule 774

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**Category:** Lounge\
**Created:** [August 13, 2011, 2:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/rule-774/51782 "2011-08-13T02:45:51Z")\
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**Author:** ![Taibo](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/taibo/32/1396_2.png) [@Taibo](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Taibo)\
**Post date:** [August 13, 2011, 2:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/rule-774/51782/1 "2011-08-13T02:45:51Z")

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Rule 774 is DON’T BE A PUSSY

The reason most people don’t get success is that they pussy out way too fast.

It’s true in many walks of life, career, love, family, finances, etc.

Here, we’re going to focus in on why you can’t succeed with women if you’re a pussy.

I could write you like 1,000 pages on this, but I’ll keep it to a short list.

If you’re scared to approach women, stop being a pussy.

If you’re scared of touching/kissing/fucking a woman, stop being a pussy.

If you’re scared of what people around you might think, don’t be a pussy.

If you’re scared of changing jobs, and you’re throwing your life away working 80 hours a week, don’t be a pussy, get a new job.

If you’re scared some guy is going to punch you for talking to his girlfriend, stop being such a pussy. It basically never happens. Maybe once in every 10,000 approaches. And even then it’s harmless. One or 2 punches, and then the bouncers kick you both out.

If you’re scared of your parents, and you’re letting them run your life, don’t be a pussy. They’re getting old and someday you will be in charge of them. You can put them in any nursing home you want, so don’t pussy out now!

Ok I think you get the idea. If someone gave you a link to this post, that’s their way of telling you to stop being a pussy. So I will now explain the process you must go through, because just telling someone not to be a pussy doesn’t really help much.

1- Recognize that you are being a pussy. Accept it. Commit to the fact that you want to change.

2- Begin to confront all the things you are afraid of. You can start small and then slowly work your way up to bigger and bigger non-pussified actions.

3- If you consistently behave as a ballsy kind of guy, instead of a pussy, you will change. The goal is a consistent change in behavior. This will create a permanent change in self image.

4- OK now that you’ve read this article, make 3 goals. One easy action, one medium, and one really hard goal.  
for example

1- Hit on 2 chicks tonight  
2- Hit on 2 chicks who are with guys (next week)  
3- Hit on 20 chicks in one hour, whether they are with guys or not. (3 months from now)

That’s it, time to take action.

(Credit Brad P.)

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**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\
**Post date:** [August 14, 2011, 9:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/rule-774/51782/2 "2011-08-14T21:25:58Z")

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