# running out of options **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 12, 2010, 3:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/running-out-of-options/39272 "2010-06-12T15:27:22Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![enjoyda](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/f475e1/32.png) [@enjoyda](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/enjoyda)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2010, 3:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/running-out-of-options/39272/1 "2010-06-12T15:27:22Z")
Hi, Me trying to woo a girl that i think is just made for me. I’m running out of options to get her attention. Add to that, their parents are dead against me for some egoistic problems with my parents. Well coming to the point, i need to first get the attention of this girl & get close first, its a long way I know but I have very little time. I hope this site will help me find the right product to help me out. I have had my best times being single, however, its time I move on make a family. I’m really really tired of playing this singles dating game. Would really appreciate any help on finding the right product, (I’m so confused about the gazillion bits of information out there online) Cheers Enjoy ---
**Author:** ![Katalyst](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/katalyst/32/1415_2.png) [@Katalyst](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Katalyst)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2010, 4:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/running-out-of-options/39272/2 "2010-06-12T16:39:36Z")
Welcome enjoyda, There is a ton of information out there however there is also a ton of information here in the forums and i think you will soon find that you made a great choice to join and will find only the best and useful information possible here. It would definitely help if you told us more about yourself like your age and how you are in your personality and such in order to get you qualified for a 25 dollar gift certificate and it will also guide is in the direction to make the correct recommendations. From what you have said so far i would suggest you look at IH which would help her to trust you and also IG which will make you seem as the protector and bf material that girls strive for like confidence and it will give you an aura of respect. Those are the current suggestions i would make based on the information you have provided thus far and would need more info in order to fully understand your scenario! Thanks ,and again welcome ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2010, 8:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/running-out-of-options/39272/3 "2010-06-12T20:33:08Z")
It’ll help tons if we know things like your age, your personality, her personality how would you describe your current relationship status with her now etc. ---
**Author:** ![metalTree](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b38774/32.png) [@metalTree](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/metalTree)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2010, 8:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/running-out-of-options/39272/4 "2010-06-12T20:40:00Z")
> [@enjoyda](#): > > trying to woo a girl that i think is just made for me. Pheromones won’t help you woo a girl that knows you but is not into you. There is no way a man can make a woman like him who isn’t into him. As men, we can’t select from all the women out there. We have to pick and choose from the women who are into us. What pheromones can do is increase the number of women who are into you so you have more to select from. Read the product descriptions of the [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/) and select one that has effects than will compliment your personality. Then pick from the girls that show interest in you and forget about this one special girl who was made for you. ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2010, 8:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/running-out-of-options/39272/5 "2010-06-12T20:46:44Z")
The pedestal effect is so common, guys romanticize women and make a girl that might be pretty into something more than what she is, been there done that myself, then I;d be mad at the girl for not living up to my expectations and being who I convinced myself she was. If this girl truly was “made for you” she’d be with you already. Fact is over the years you’ll probably find a dozen “the ones” that were made just for you. Mones might help but my experience has been that in spite of what women and Meg Ryan/Julia Roberts movies might tell you, the LAST place a woman wants to be is on a pedestal. Just focus on you, work on becoming a more dominant, and attractive (socially) man, and stay close enough to her for her to see that side of you. ---
**Author:** ![Katalyst](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/katalyst/32/1415_2.png) [@Katalyst](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Katalyst)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2010, 11:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/running-out-of-options/39272/6 "2010-06-12T23:19:43Z")
wise, wise words of wisdom. Agreed but the chase is inevitable at times and does lead to some crushed feelings. Sure weve all been there done that. ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2010, 11:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/running-out-of-options/39272/7 "2010-06-12T23:54:26Z")
The chase usually is inevitable, but so many guys buy into chick flick bs that simply chasing her is enough and that somehow your persistence (which says nothing more about yourself than the fact that you want her) will somehow convince her that she wants you and that just ain’t the way it works. You have to display value and attractive qualities, this means confidence, assertiveness, warm dominance, social skills, etc. Mones can and will help if used smartly but no promises man. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [June 13, 2010, 10:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/running-out-of-options/39272/8 "2010-06-13T10:15:58Z")
Hi There enjoyda. Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Metaltree has made a excellent point here. [Pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) will not change it if she is just not into you at all. They may make her more friendly and receptive on a platonic level but generally there needs to be some underlying attraction already. I am not trying to discourage you but make sure your approaching this with a realistic view. You should try though because then you wont look back with regrets later. From your post I am guessing your in your late 20’s or older because your thinking of settling down. You mention her parents have a problem with you so I am assuming they know you or at least know off you. You are however asking about pheromones so I will give you my take on that because more info is needed before we can help you with other advice. I would suggest you start with A314. I dont know what kind of contact you have with her parents if any but this will influence them as well. This is the alpha respect mix. It ups your status. If she is being influenced by her parents then this will help. Next I would suggest Ishine for a charismatic warm charm vibe. This one will draw her in more. Next I would go with IH, This will help you achieve a feeling of connection and closeness. In many situations it ups the intimacy level as well. I would not jump into using the sexual mixes just yet. You have some hurdles to get past first. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![alvin101](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/91b2a8/32.png) [@alvin101](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/alvin101)\ **Post date:** [June 13, 2010, 1:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/running-out-of-options/39272/9 "2010-06-13T13:19:17Z")
> [@RADMAN513](#): > > The pedestal effect is so common, guys romanticize women and make a girl that might be pretty into something more than what she is, been there done that myself, then I;d be mad at the girl for not living up to my expectations and being who I convinced myself she was. If this girl truly was “made for you” she’d be with you already. Fact is over the years you’ll probably find a dozen “the ones” that were made just for you. > > Mones might help but my experience has been that in spite of what women and Meg Ryan/Julia Roberts movies might tell you, the LAST place a woman wants to be is on a pedestal. Just focus on you, work on becoming a more dominant, and attractive (socially) man, and stay close enough to her for her to see that side of you. There is a lot wisdom here. I chased around the same girl for the past year and a half only to have this Epiphany a few days ago. My friends told me this same thing but I didn’t listen. I WAS IN LOVE 😃 . Now every single time I see her my mind says “wow this isn’t what I built her up to be” > [@enjoyda](#): > > Hi, > > Me trying to woo a girl that i think is just made for me. I’m running out of options to get her attention. Add to that, their parents are dead against me for some egoistic problems with my parents. Well coming to the point, i need to first get the attention of this girl & get close first, its a long way I know but I have very little time. I hope this site will help me find the right product to help me out. > > I have had my best times being single, however, its time I move on make a family. I’m really really tired of playing this singles dating game. > > Would really appreciate any help on finding the right product, (I’m so confused about the gazillion bits of information out there online) > > Cheers > Enjoy OK listen up. I could tell you not to chase this girl but your probably gonna just look for advice on how to chase her. What I ask is you don’t idealize her. Do you really believe that out of the billion plus woman in the world this one woman absolutely perfect for you? Also I suggest finding the right mix of pheromones from this forum and getting David Deangelo’s Becoming Mr. right which will help develop personality traits that woman find most attractive (like not idealizing her and not being needy). ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [June 14, 2010, 9:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/running-out-of-options/39272/10 "2010-06-14T21:44:46Z")
Thanks so much for joining PheroTalk, I’m super excited to have you here. It’s always great when a new member discovers a world so full of endless possibilities. The only limits to mones is our own imagination 🙂 While I would love to issue you the $25 Gift Certificate for saying hello I do kindly request you post some more about yourself here. If you are unsure about what qualifies as sufficient to obtain the gift certificate I am just itching to email you, please have a look at this thread: [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) I wrote it to help everyone in writing the perfect introduction. Of course the choice is yours and your privacy is very important. If you just don’t feel comfortable providing additional info we will all still do our best to assist you anyway. Welcome to PheroTalk