Welcome to Pherotalk Sammy!
Life changing you say. Well you have come to a place where we are going through some amazing life changes all the time and a brave enough to share it here with others. For most of us this a place where we can vent , grow , learn etc. 
The instant honesty and instant openness recommendations are right on. I am a bit curious as to why you want to try TUTH and Instant Jerk. These products have none in them and you want to be careful the kind of signal you are giving off. Are you always placed as the nice guy and want to give off a more , raw sexual appeal ? If not I suggest you go with the A314 or instant gentleman. Or the A314 and Instant shine combo.
Your last statement wasn’t so clear , maybe it’s because am female so I’ll let the guys handle this one. I have included a link that would be beneficial to you.
Your GC will be issued soon!