# San Diego Newbie needs advice! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 2, 2012, 3:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/san-diego-newbie-needs-advice/55466 "2012-05-02T15:57:00Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 13\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![smartmunky](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/smartmunky/32/1482_2.png) [@smartmunky](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/smartmunky)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2012, 3:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/san-diego-newbie-needs-advice/55466/1 "2012-05-02T15:57:00Z")
Hi there! I am new the the wonderful world on mones, and after giving it it’s due diligence, I’ve come to the conclusion this could be just the thing to give me an added advantage in several aspects of my life. I’m a 36 yr old white male, living in sunny San Diego. I’m tall and lean in stature; witty, charming, and likeable in nature. I’ve been divorced for almost 3 years now, am just now getting back into the dating scene after 12 years… It’s a jungle out there! 😮 I’m not what you’d call the aggressive type, which is somewhat of a disadvantage in the world of dating and in my line of work as a salesman. Despite my passive nature I’ve managed to do quite well in both areas thanks to charm and my natural/ learned people skills. So I’ve decided that a little help from science could help me to excel where I am now just doing all right! I have 2 situations that I would appreciate advice on: 1. I’ve been dating a girl for a couple months now. We get along great both physically and mentally. There’s a lot of potential for a LTR, but she still seems a bit guarded & hesitant to “let herself fall” as it were. She has a great sex drive, but there too seems held back on acting on it. So I was wondering what might help to loosen her inhibitions both emotionally and sexually? 2. I am currently in between jobs and foresee plenty of interviews in my near future. (btw I’m quite sure my unemployed status has no bearing on her hesitancy to fall for me, she’s cool like that! 😛) Anyway, like I said: I’m a salesman and am looking for something that might help out my charm to seal the deal! I guess to summarize both scenarios: I’m looking for the right mix of molecules to say “I’m the man for the job!”… Although I’d imagine they are different mixes! I look forward to your advice and am happy to have joined the community! ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2012, 4:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/san-diego-newbie-needs-advice/55466/2 "2012-05-02T16:14:40Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk! 🙂 For your first requirement, [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) and IS might be just the thing if you are still politely dating. However, if you are getting physical and stopping short of sex, TUTH and IO or IS might be a better choice. For your second - That’s easy. There is only one! A314 - Oil is best, longest lasting and most cost effective by far but the /b spray is similar impact if you don’t want to punt so much money fiest. ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2012, 4:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/san-diego-newbie-needs-advice/55466/3 "2012-05-02T16:53:24Z")
Hey there and welcome to the forum, munky! You’re just down the street from me, we’re practically neighbors. 🙂 I do suggest you listen to MOBO as he has some SERIOUS mone experience. In my own personal experience, I’d second his recommendations. A314 is … A#!$… It’s that good for Respect Me Now, type of vibe and shows others a Reliable view of you. To get the most out of the mones, though, take a look at my sig below, two very good threads, Intro to Mones and how to know what are hits. Take a stroll down those to get a good handle on all things mones and what to expect from them. How’d you find This Site, BTW? 1Alpha ---
**Author:** ![smartmunky](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/smartmunky/32/1482_2.png) [@smartmunky](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/smartmunky)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2012, 9:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/san-diego-newbie-needs-advice/55466/4 "2012-05-02T21:20:35Z")
Thanks for the advice! I’ll definitely be adding A314 to my cart. As far as pairing it with IH or IO- which would be better for interviewing/sales? As for my female pursuit: I’ll Probably go the TUTH/ IO route. We’ve been having sex, but only after a bit of liquid courage. I’m thinking that mix would help motivate her to act more freely. I’ll also get AMMO as I’ve read nothing but good things about it, and it seems less likely to backfire in more casual situations. I look forward to reporting the results! ---
**Author:** ![smartmunky](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/smartmunky/32/1482_2.png) [@smartmunky](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/smartmunky)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2012, 9:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/san-diego-newbie-needs-advice/55466/5 "2012-05-02T21:26:29Z")
How’d you find This Site, BTW? I googled “Do [Pheromones](https://a314.com/) work?” and this was at the top of the list. I looked around several sites and came back here based on the information and wealth of knowledge. Apperas it is #1 for a reason! 😛 ---
**Author:** ![Mister\_Bee](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b9e5f3/32.png) [@Mister\_Bee](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mister_Bee)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2012, 10:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/san-diego-newbie-needs-advice/55466/6 "2012-05-02T22:02:04Z")
Hey Munky! I’m from SD, as well.. I also intend to purchase some A314 in the near future.. While I intend to use A314 at work, I’m curious to hear how it works out with your pursuit.. Best of luck! ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [May 3, 2012, 3:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/san-diego-newbie-needs-advice/55466/7 "2012-05-03T03:26:44Z")
> [@smartmunky](#): > > Thanks for the advice! I’ll definitely be adding A314 to my cart. As far as pairing it with IH or IO- which would be better for interviewing/sales? IH all the way. If you check the store page again, you will see that IO is the product suggested for toning down the A314 vibe - and personally I find that IO wrecks A314 comprehensively. So if you are feeling the need to add IO, you should probably be reducing your A314 dose instead - Far cheaper too. If you want a friendlier and cheaper alternative to IH but still with many of the same qualities. [P74](https://a314.com/product/p74/) at around 10mcg is a very viable product indeed, even though the consumer warranty will not apply - P74 is one of the better understood putatives and if you want to increase that talkative aspect of A314, P114 again around 10mcg seems to do that without damaging status etc - although P114 is not so well tested or understood yet. ---
**Author:** ![lexy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lexy/32/2346_2.png) [@lexy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lexy)\ **Post date:** [May 3, 2012, 10:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/san-diego-newbie-needs-advice/55466/8 "2012-05-03T10:35:09Z")
Just wanted to say **HI!**..I’m another one from SD…Diego Rocks! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![smartmunky](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/smartmunky/32/1482_2.png) [@smartmunky](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/smartmunky)\ **Post date:** [May 3, 2012, 1:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/san-diego-newbie-needs-advice/55466/9 "2012-05-03T13:24:50Z")
> [@mobocaster](#): > > IH all the way. If you check the store page again, you will see that IO is the product suggested for toning down the A314 vibe - and personally I find that IO wrecks A314 comprehensively. So if you are feeling the need to add IO, you should probably be reducing your A314 dose instead - Far cheaper too. > > If you want a friendlier and cheaper alternative to IH but still with many of the same qualities. P74 at around 10mcg is a very viable product indeed, even though the consumer warranty will not apply - P74 is one of the better understood putatives and if you want to increase that talkative aspect of A314, P114 again around 10mcg seems to do that without damaging status etc - although P114 is not so well tested or understood yet. Thanks for the info. IH it is! Granted, I still need to go thru the sweet spot test phase, but it never hurts to plan ahead! I think I’ll hold off on the putatives until I’m a little more experienced. It also sounds like IH instead of IO, paired with AMMO or TUTH will help with the deeper bond I’m looking for with with my lady… well, she’s not “mine” YET! 😉 ---
**Author:** ![smartmunky](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/smartmunky/32/1482_2.png) [@smartmunky](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/smartmunky)\ **Post date:** [May 3, 2012, 1:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/san-diego-newbie-needs-advice/55466/10 "2012-05-03T13:30:57Z")
> [@BeautyScent](#): > > Just wanted to say **HI!**..I’m another one from SD…Diego Rocks! 😃 Howdy neighbor! 🙂 Yes, it doesn’t get much better than San Diego. The best weather on the planet. No humidity, not many pesky bugs, you can drive to the snow, the desert, or a 3rd world country, and still be back in time to surf! And as far as beautiful people? 10s galore! 😃 Too ad it’s so damn expensive, but you definitely get what you pay for! ---
**Author:** ![smartmunky](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/smartmunky/32/1482_2.png) [@smartmunky](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/smartmunky)\ **Post date:** [May 3, 2012, 5:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/san-diego-newbie-needs-advice/55466/11 "2012-05-03T17:06:37Z")
Ok, The order has been placed! To begin my journey I’ve decided to start w/ the to-go sizes for trail purposes. My to-go arsenal will include TUTH, AMMO, IH, IO & A314. I decided to hold off on IS for now- my natural good cheer is contagious enough 😉. I’m hoping A314 & IH can assist me in finding gainful employment so I can afford more weapons of mass olfaction! 😛 Looking forward to reporting some good hits!!! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [May 4, 2012, 1:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/san-diego-newbie-needs-advice/55466/12 "2012-05-04T13:01:57Z")
Welcome Smartmunky! I am always super happy when someone else comes knowing the importance of pheromones and what we do here. Your stuff is hanging out and I may have to write you a ticket for indecent exposure. 😛 _ **Your gc was issued!** _ ---
**Author:** ![smartmunky](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/smartmunky/32/1482_2.png) [@smartmunky](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/smartmunky)\ **Post date:** [May 4, 2012, 3:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/san-diego-newbie-needs-advice/55466/13 "2012-05-04T15:28:57Z")
> [@kelsey](#): > > Welcome Smartmunky! > > I am always super happy when someone else comes knowing the importance of pheromones and what we do here. > > Your stuff is hanging out and I may have to write you a ticket for indecent exposure. 😛 > > _ **Your gc was issued!** _ LOL Oh no, I assure you the fig leaves are properly placed! 😛 I’m all about decent exposure. Besides, it’s always good to leave a little something to the imagination 😉 … Well, in my case “little” isn’t the best choice of words 🆒 I see my order is already on it’s way! You guys rock. Thanks again! 😃