# Seeking out the knowledge! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [September 3, 2008, 6:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/seeking-out-the-knowledge/18738 "2008-09-03T06:32:10Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Reserva](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/ed8c4c/32.png) [@Reserva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Reserva)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2008, 6:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/seeking-out-the-knowledge/18738/1 "2008-09-03T06:32:10Z")
Hello everybody, I am, in fact, a new member here (Just to let you know!). I’m an 18 year old male who raised himself by choice as a ghost. To elaborate, I grew up enjoying my own thoughts and solidarity. This was likely for two major reasons, one of which is that I was a very large kid. At the same time, I grew up without a consistent father figure and a rather unstable family setting (At times). Now that I am older, 80 pounds lighter (As an affect of changing my lifestyle and eating completely), and live in a stable home - I am beginning to dislike the reserved state of being that I currently am. As a residual effect of my childhood, I am very quiet and still insecure despite not having to be! I’ve never been in anything close to a relationship because I’m still gaining confidence and don’t usually approach women. At the same time, I’ve never been approached myself (And although not the way it usually happens, all of my friends have had it happen several times). On a broader scale, I feel like strangers in general find it easy to disrespect me when meeting. I’m a down-to-earth, nice, empathetic, and generally a normal-appearing guy. Still, I tend to be overlooked instantly and left in the dust. With girls, I seem to just have terrible luck! I’ve met girls before of course, but it never goes beyond that. Although I took it upon myself to educate myself in interpreting body language and noticing those who notice me - it doesn’t go beyond that! It’s almost as if I have 0 staying power. I get contact info in one form or the other, and the next day they message me about how a short driving distance between the two of us is an insurmountable obstacle. I then do not hear from them again! I basically just spit out a rant, but I feel as if to get knowledge I must trade an equal amount of mine in. If anybody has any questions about my situation that would help them assess me, I have no problem answering them! Overall, I am looking for information towards what would hypothetically work for me. After that, I can perform more effective research and I may or may not act upon the results. Thanks for your time in reading this and for any future responses you will grant me! -Trent ---
**Author:** ![K24](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/k24/32/1513_2.png) [@K24](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/K24)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2008, 9:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/seeking-out-the-knowledge/18738/2 "2008-09-03T09:17:12Z")
Hi Reserva, welcome to the forum 🙂 what a long intro, almost as long as mine lol. I think that you need some [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/), given that strangers don’t respect you during initial meeting, -Rone is your friend here 🙂 ammo would be the choice if you are after general attraction, i think you need it for the ladies, it is a standalone product and it’s a great smelling cologne, it is well buffered so less chance of OD at 18. i also suggest some social products to go along, IH and Ishine would be a great start for a 18 year old guy. if you have any more questions don’t hesitate to ask, we are here to help you 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2008, 9:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/seeking-out-the-knowledge/18738/3 "2008-09-03T09:19:50Z")
Hi Reserva, Good to have you as a member of Pherotalk 🙂 Ok i see that you are keen on trying pheros here & sorry to hear about your childhood life well everyone once has a bad past life. Ok for your situation that i have checked out, you need to try AMMO + Instant Shine + Instant Openness as these three work well in a combo & this combo will give sexual attraction(AMMO), a boost in confidence & make people comfortable with you(Instant Shine) & easier & smoother conversation hence breaking the icebreaker there(Instant Openness). Plus i suggest [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) or A314 for your respect situation as these two are well suited for it 🙂 I hope my info help you there & see you 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2008, 9:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/seeking-out-the-knowledge/18738/4 "2008-09-03T09:21:26Z")
Helllo and welcome to the forum. I agree with K24 - at your age I would look into [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/). I would also seriously consider using the social products: IO, IH and Instant shine. The first two will help you generate conversations and Instant Shine is good for helping everyone around you feel goood. In the meantime I would rea up. You can start with the threads in my signature block and then go to the stickies in the mens foruml. Hope to hear more from you soon. ---
**Author:** ![Reserva](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/ed8c4c/32.png) [@Reserva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Reserva)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2008, 1:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/seeking-out-the-knowledge/18738/5 "2008-09-03T13:00:33Z")
Thanks for the replies all, So from what I can gather, there are a few different Purposes that I could look further into. Attraction, Social, and Respect (Presence). Are there any good Attraction + social combos? Oh, and my childhood wasn’t bad - just very unstable. I’ve enjoyed life very much! Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![Butterfly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/butterfly/32/1942_2.png) [@Butterfly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Butterfly)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2008, 2:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/seeking-out-the-knowledge/18738/6 "2008-09-03T14:33:33Z")
Much respect for rising above your raising! On the men’s forum, so can find more information about the different products in the stickies. ---
**Author:** ![Reserva](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/ed8c4c/32.png) [@Reserva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Reserva)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2008, 5:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/seeking-out-the-knowledge/18738/7 "2008-09-03T17:04:37Z")
Could I get some thoughts on this possible package? - [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) - IS x1 - IO x1 - IH x1 I’ll also check the forums some more. I’m less convinced in IH most of all. Asides from the possible benefits (I remain skeptic), did any of you enjoy just experimenting with the products and seeing what happened? I feel that would be fun if you’re in to Psychobiology or something of that sort. Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![therapygirl](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/therapygirl/32/1880_2.png) [@therapygirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/therapygirl)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2008, 5:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/seeking-out-the-knowledge/18738/8 "2008-09-03T17:21:04Z")
Oh baby I’m sorry you’re having trouble! My heart goes out at your post, but I am SO excited for you because I know the difference the pheros are gonna make. There are few changes you can make in your life that will change it SO quickly! As for Instant Honsety, don’t be a skeptic! It is instant relationship in a bottle. It makes others feel a bond with you like they’ve known you for a long time, a best friend vibe! It’s good stuff. I have it in 4x and if you see the amazing things it does at the normal lever, you’ll LOVE the effects of the big guns. I second the guys on [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/), it’s like a spray James Bond suit! It makes others see you as older and smoother. A314 is one a friend of min who is your age has tried to great avail, I am just not sure if it might be too “alpha” for you right now. Give your new self a little time to grow into it, but put it on the list for the future! Good luck, and keep us posted! It’s gonna be a great ride! ---
**Author:** ![Reserva](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/ed8c4c/32.png) [@Reserva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Reserva)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2008, 6:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/seeking-out-the-knowledge/18738/9 "2008-09-03T18:07:40Z")
Thanks for your reassuring words! You seem to have some kind of aura of trust surrounding you, but I cannot place my finger upon it (Haaa… Phero joke… 😛 ). Anyway, I think I have package together that I would like to purchase, but I’ll wait until I could get that nice $15 off bonus! If anything, I’ll at least enjoy the Experimental Psych. part of it. Will be interesting to see how far we’ve come. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2008, 6:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/seeking-out-the-knowledge/18738/10 "2008-09-03T18:38:07Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Congratulation on your weight lose and new approach to life. The past is in the past and I am glad your willing to be open minded enough to give pheromones a try. Mones are for enhancing your persona, I am glad you can read body language because it will be helpful in using them. Please read “what pheromones can do and what they cant do” the link is in my signature below. This will give you a more clear understanding on how they work. > [@](#): > > - Ammo > - IS x1 > - Instant Openness x1 > - Instant Honesty x1 Hmmm I would like to see you with something that would increase the amount of respect you get since you mention thats a issue for you but at the same time I dont want to lessen your approachability since you mention you never approach or have been approached. I am thinking the order above is good to start out with and perhaps when you are ready after you see what the products can do you should look into [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/). I think you need something that will get the ball rolling for you and AMMO can do that better then IG. > [@](#): > > I’m less convinced in Instant Honesty most of all. Instant Honesty is just its name. it dosnt make people tell the truth. It increases deeper more personal communication and brings a feeling of closeness and connection. It has been known to make people blurt things they had no intention of saying aloud once in a while LOL If you have any questions or need any help let me know. **Your GC is on its way** 😃 Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Reserva](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/ed8c4c/32.png) [@Reserva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Reserva)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2008, 10:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/seeking-out-the-knowledge/18738/11 "2008-09-03T22:36:24Z")
Thanks tisha! I am grateful for all of the advice and I will keep you posted on my experiences. Maybe I could log this stuff down and use the findings towards some kind of research paper in the future for uni. Just one more possible use!