# Separated **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [January 27, 2012, 7:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/separated/54356 "2012-01-27T07:46:14Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Fraydenz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/87869e/32.png) [@Fraydenz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Fraydenz)\ **Post date:** [January 27, 2012, 7:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/separated/54356/1 "2012-01-27T07:46:14Z")
Hi All. I was with the same woman for 11 years, 8 married, and we are now separated, a mutual decision and we’re still friends. During that time I never seriously thought I would be in the situation where I would want to find another woman, but there it is. I find myself more or less single (still married for health insurance, till it becomes “incovenient”. I am both excited and terrified at this. I very much want to meet a woman that I can…well, I dunno. Become friends with and then fall in love with? Sounds nice, but also long a drawn out. I wouldn’t mind getting intimate with several different women before that happens. Part of the reason we separated is that neither of us was really physically attracted to the other for very long, and we stayed together WAY after that was gone. Yeah, oops. I don’t ever want that to happen again, so I would like to attract girls that I would normally consider “out of my league” or too hot for me. Yeah, self-esteem issues, I know. I am also quite shy, especially with girls. No real reason, I look fine, it’s just that when talking to a girl I am seriously attracted to, my mouth dries up, my hands shake, and I forget most of the words I know. And I know a lot of them, usually! 😉 So what do we think? I decided to look in to pheremones almost as a joke, and then thought “well it couldnt hurt to look” and then I found this site. Oh, and I’m 39 years old, if it matters, and my preference for a woman is wide open, from a mature 18 to a young 40, basically. Do these work equally well on women of all ages? Thank you ---
**Author:** ![MikeMan22](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikeman22/32/332_2.png) [@MikeMan22](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MikeMan22)\ **Post date:** [January 27, 2012, 7:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/separated/54356/2 "2012-01-27T07:52:00Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum! Sorry to hear you have separated, but glad you are still friends. So heres a few suggestions. For the shyness, look into the socials. They all work great. I love IS, helps with shyness and confidence. IO helps people open up, become chatty IH helps with deep conversation You may want to consider some ammo (2x) for the sexual attraction side of things. Hope this helps a bit! ---
**Author:** ![Fraydenz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/87869e/32.png) [@Fraydenz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Fraydenz)\ **Post date:** [January 27, 2012, 8:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/separated/54356/3 "2012-01-27T08:39:21Z")
> [@MikeMan22](#): > > Hello and welcome to the forum! > > Sorry to hear you have separated, but glad you are still friends. > > So heres a few suggestions. > > For the shyness, look into the socials. They all work great. I love IS, helps with shyness and confidence. > > IO helps people open up, become chatty > > IH helps with deep conversation > > You may want to consider some ammo (2x) for the sexual attraction side of things. > > Hope this helps a bit! Thanks, I’ll have a look at those. I’m not sure it matters, but I forgot to mention that I just bought some Dial Magnetic with the pheremone in it. ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [January 27, 2012, 2:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/separated/54356/4 "2012-01-27T14:35:49Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum. I am truly sorry to hear that your marriage did not work out. But welcome to your new life. I know it is scary - I have had both male and female friends face the same thing. Mike has given you some good recommendations. I would ask you to consider one other product: A314. It will give you a success alpha The Man kinda vibe. Pair it with [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) that Mike mentioned above. This will be your base product combo. You can wear it to work and out socially. Then you can tweak it with IH or IO. If you have a hard time with those intial conversations then IO may do a little better for you. I will say that the A314 may come acrss as too mature for the 18-24ish crowd BUT by about 24 or 25 the girls figure out that that is the “marker” of a successful guy. Which can be an aphrodisiac of its own. Let us know what you think. ---
**Author:** ![Fraydenz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/87869e/32.png) [@Fraydenz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Fraydenz)\ **Post date:** [January 28, 2012, 12:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/separated/54356/5 "2012-01-28T00:23:46Z")
Thank you for the ideas - I am looking forward to placing my order. I think I want to try them all, lol. Still waiting for the $25 off, though…hint hint. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Fraydenz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/87869e/32.png) [@Fraydenz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Fraydenz)\ **Post date:** [January 28, 2012, 6:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/separated/54356/6 "2012-01-28T06:52:34Z")
Oh, I re-read the “how to get $25” post and realized I forgot 1 piece of information. I live in Las Vegas, NV. Thanks! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2012, 1:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/separated/54356/7 "2012-02-03T13:29:36Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Fray! We have many married , divorced and persons separated who has told their story to us. Even when you are in a relationship for say 3 years it can be both exciting and scary to start all over and venture into this dating world again. You will be fine, just take it slow and open up yourself for something new and wonderful that might happen with someone besides your ex. _ **Your gc was issued! 😃** _