# Sex drive **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [February 20, 2011, 7:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sex-drive/48939 "2011-02-20T07:17:01Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![mackie72](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mackie72/32/623_2.png) [@mackie72](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mackie72)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2011, 7:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sex-drive/48939/1 "2011-02-20T07:17:01Z")
Hi everyone I have been married for 5 years and over the last year or so the sex has really dried up. I have tried using TUTH but my wife doesnt seem to be affected whatsoever. My wifes sex drive appears to be non existant and I am left just feeling frustrated. Has anybody got any sure fire combos that will help. Maybe I havent been using enough TUTH? ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2011, 9:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sex-drive/48939/2 "2011-02-20T09:16:38Z")
Before people can give you advice we need to know a few things, I know they may not seem relevant to you but believe me they are… Is she on the pill ? Do you have small children ? Does she have a stressful job or does she have some sort of stress in her life ? Do you use other mones that do work on her ? How old is she ? All this will help members get a better feel for what will more likely work for your wife. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![M\_M](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9fc29f/32.png) [@M\_M](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/M_M)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2011, 1:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sex-drive/48939/3 "2011-02-20T13:11:14Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > Before people can give you advice we need to know a few things, I know they may not seem relevant to you but believe me they are… > > Is she on the pill ? > > Do you have small children ? > > Does she have a stressful job or does she have some sort of stress in her life ? > > Do you use other mones that do work on her ? > > How old is she ? > > All this will help members get a better feel for what will more likely work for your wife. > > Tisha Annnnd! Maybe you should tell us how much TUTH you’ve been using around her, since you think that MAYBE you haven’t been using enough, too. ---
**Author:** ![John\_Sebastian](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/john_sebastian/32/1060_2.png) [@John\_Sebastian](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/John_Sebastian)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2011, 7:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sex-drive/48939/4 "2011-02-20T19:13:49Z")
> [@M\_M](#): > > Annnnd! Maybe you should tell us how much TUTH you’ve been using around her, since you think that MAYBE you haven’t been using enough, too. This is important. It should be standard when asking advice. Often times “I don’t think I use enough” really means “I’ve been using way too much.” More mones =/= better results. ---
**Author:** ![Gegogi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gegogi/32/1536_2.png) [@Gegogi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gegogi)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2011, 11:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sex-drive/48939/5 "2011-02-20T23:59:15Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > Before people can give you advice we need to know a few things, I know they may not seem relevant to you but believe me they are… > > Is she on the pill ? > > Do you have small children ? > > Does she have a stressful job or does she have some sort of stress in her life ? > > Do you use other mones that do work on her ? > > How old is she ? > > All this will help members get a better feel for what will more likely work for your wife. > > Tisha Plus lifestyle things like does she workout and eat healthy food? Five years of processed food and no exercise puts both mind and body to sleep. I’ve noticed my GFs whom worked out daily tended to be a lot more horny than the couch surfers babes. Unfortunately, women can vary greatly in their sexual appetite as some need it daily whereas others are perfectly happy just once a week or even monthly. No amount of mones can change that. They tend to help bring out what’s already there, lurking just below the surface. ---
**Author:** ![mackie72](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mackie72/32/623_2.png) [@mackie72](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mackie72)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2011, 9:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sex-drive/48939/6 "2011-02-21T09:47:49Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > Before people can give you advice we need to know a few things, I know they may not seem relevant to you but believe me they are… > > Is she on the pill ? No > > Do you have small children ? Yes > > Does she have a stressful job or does she have some sort of stress in her life ? Yes > > Do you use other mones that do work on her ? No > > How old is she ? 37 > > All this will help members get a better feel for what will more likely work for your wife. > > Tisha Hi Tisha I had a chat with my wife about this and we are both going to make an effort to spend quality time with each other instead of just vegging in front of the TV. Work and kid pressures can sometimes get in the way. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2011, 10:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sex-drive/48939/7 "2011-02-21T10:09:05Z")
> [@mackie72](#): > > Hi Tisha > > I had a chat with my wife about this and we are both going to make an effort to spend quality time with each other instead of just vegging in front of the TV. Work and kid pressures can sometimes get in the way. Thats great 😃 Lots of times the most obvious thing is whats blocking arousal which is why I asked those questions. You just needed some one not so close to the situation to point it out. When your stressed and stuff the last thing on your mind is sex at least for females. Its no different then the advice I give guys who are just becoming sexually active really. Without the comfort and feeling of connection first arousal doesn’t occur for girls. Spending more quality time together will help with the stress and open her up to responding to TUTH. When you mentioned no to using other mones that work on her did you mean you never tried them or they she didn’t respond to them ? Tish ---
**Author:** ![mackie72](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mackie72/32/623_2.png) [@mackie72](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mackie72)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2011, 3:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sex-drive/48939/8 "2011-02-21T15:56:36Z")
Hi Tisha I have used IH and TUTH to little effect. If my wife feels tired then nothing - not even mones can change that. I use mones mainly for work and socialising to great effect.