# Sexual hits with nols: Anol's playful feel versus Anone's raw passion **URL:** \ **Category:** Consumer Products\ **Created:** [February 13, 2006, 6:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sexual-hits-with-nols-anols-playful-feel-versus-anones-raw-passion/23441 "2006-02-13T06:58:36Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![MHarris](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mharris/32/2107_2.png) [@MHarris](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MHarris)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2006, 5:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sexual-hits-with-nols-anols-playful-feel-versus-anones-raw-passion/23441/21 "2006-02-18T17:47:04Z")
> [@josef](#): > > i’ve competed in professional athletic events around the world and whenever i get back to my home course i better have my A game because every local yokel will remember the day they beat joe, even if on that day i was obviously playing well below my level. Heh. That is a tricky situation… you want to play, but… > [@josef](#): > > i remember reading a quote somewhere that i will only be able to paraphrase but it went something like “the greatest achievments in human history have come about because a man was trying to attract the attention of a woman” or something to that effect… Men will do anything to impress women… even go to the moon. I’m also certain a major portion of the economy is driven by mating instincts. To _have_, and to hold, you know! ---
**Author:** ![josef](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/josef/32/2007_2.png) [@josef](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/josef)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2006, 1:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sexual-hits-with-nols-anols-playful-feel-versus-anones-raw-passion/23441/22 "2006-02-19T13:30:37Z")
> [@MHarris](#): > > Men will do anything to impress women… even go to the moon. men are schmucks, besides going to the moon to impress them, they’ll even propose to them at christmas and valentines day (valentines day here 😃 ) > [@MHarris](#): > > I’m also certain a major portion of the economy is driven by mating instincts. > > To _have_, and to hold, you know! mating instincts and DeBeers. ironically enough, those two things are responsible for killing more relationships than they’ve started, _ **aaaaaaand** _ they drive the economy on the back side as well, keeping the courts full of attorneys. ---
**Author:** ![MHarris](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mharris/32/2107_2.png) [@MHarris](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MHarris)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2006, 11:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sexual-hits-with-nols-anols-playful-feel-versus-anones-raw-passion/23441/23 "2006-02-21T11:49:55Z")
> [@josef](#): > > men are schmucks, besides going to the moon to impress them, they’ll even propose to them at Christmas and valentines day (valentines day here 😃 ) That’s only when they don’t know what else to do to bring it to “the next level”. Marriage almost always changes everything. At least one of the parties, and sometimes both, get a sense that they “own” the other, and that creates come powerful (almost always negative) changes in how you treat the other. Marriage probably works best WITHOUT a sense of ownership. When you remember, that hey… this other person is a _person,_ not a possession. That they still belong first and foremost to themselves. Sure, they love me and they’re with me, but it’s out of choice, not because a piece of paper or some sort of verbal contract (vows) _force_ me them to. When you start using your vows or the legalities, or worse, threat of divorce, in order to create behaviors… and not your natural charisma and joy for each other… that’s when you start running into problems. You transform from human beings being human with each other, which is a beautiful thing, to mini lawyers or negotiators… which is no way to deal with someone you supposedly love. > [@](#): > > mating instincts and DeBeers. ironically enough, those two things are responsible for killing more relationships than they’ve started, _ **aaaaaaand** _ they drive the economy on the back side as well, keeping the courts full of attorneys. Yes, very try! Man, the economy makes out like a bandit. Too bad the currency of love sometimes suffers. ---
**Author:** ![Cloud9](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/cloud9/32/1736_2.png) [@Cloud9](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cloud9)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2006, 2:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sexual-hits-with-nols-anols-playful-feel-versus-anones-raw-passion/23441/24 "2006-02-21T14:18:35Z")
> [@](#): > > When you remember, that hey… this other person is a _person,_ not a possession. That they’re still belong first and foremost to themselves. Sure, they love me and they’re with me, but it’s out of choice, not a piece of paper. > > When you start using your vows or the legalities, or worse, threat of divorce, in order to create behaviors… and not your natural charisma and joy for each other… that’s when you start running into problems. > > You transform from human beings being human with each other, which is a beautiful thing, to mini lawyers or negotiators… which is no way to deal with someone you supposedly love. probably some of the best advice I’ve herd on marriage..I never really thought of it that way and I know I should have. I think if people were to keep that in mind when they got married it would keep things much better and more stable for longterm happiness. [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sexual-hits-with-nols-anols-playful-feel-versus-anones-raw-passion/23441.md?page=1)