# she 18 im 16 i was crushed today **URL:** \ **Category:** Lounge\ **Created:** [November 28, 2007, 4:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-18-im-16-i-was-crushed-today/6982 "2007-11-28T04:23:14Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![nikefredo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/e9bcb4/32.png) [@nikefredo](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nikefredo)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2007, 4:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-18-im-16-i-was-crushed-today/6982/1 "2007-11-28T04:23:14Z")
ok i guess it was only a crush, now i know what the word means so my buddy jose got that book “ the mystery method” before i even knew bout the site anyway i wanted that book so we made a bet if i could kiss sarah on the lips i get the book … i like her but kiss not happening cause she has a bf sooo had 2 think i told her she said “no i cant i have a bf” so i said ok fine how bout i kiss u … she said yes. later on i jose was washing dishes and she came in the back. walked up to ( by the way no pheros there processing still wtf) and went 4 the kiss then my heart droped because what she did next was unreal…next time on the manny. lol well she turn away while saying i have a bf worse day of my life ---
**Author:** ![mindset](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ccd318/32.png) [@mindset](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mindset)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2007, 7:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-18-im-16-i-was-crushed-today/6982/2 "2007-11-28T07:35:52Z")
> [@nikefredo](#): > > ok i guess it was only a crush, now i know what the word means so my buddy jose got that book “ the mystery method” before i even knew bout the site anyway i wanted that book so we made a bet if i could kiss sarah on the lips i get the book … i like her but kiss not happening cause she has a bf sooo had 2 think i told her she said “no i cant i have a bf” so i said ok fine how bout i kiss u … she said yes. later on i jose was washing dishes and she came in the back. walked up to ( by the way no pheros there processing still wtf) and went 4 the kiss then my heart droped because what she did next was unreal…next time on the manny. > > lol well she turn away while saying i have a bf worse day of my life i think she’s testing you, man. for instance, she said you could kiss her, it’s a play on her conscious mind. she’s trying to rationalize that if you made the move, then it wouldn’t be her fault. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2007, 10:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-18-im-16-i-was-crushed-today/6982/3 "2007-11-28T10:11:38Z")
Manny There is a big world filled with girls out there. May seem like the worst day of your life today but down the road you probably wont even remember it. > [@](#): > > ( by the way no pheros there processing still wtf) If you chose overnight they are only over night from the time they are shipped. Orders need to be processed and since they make the [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) here not wholesale them it will take a day or to to process. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![nikefredo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/e9bcb4/32.png) [@nikefredo](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nikefredo)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2007, 8:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-18-im-16-i-was-crushed-today/6982/4 "2007-11-28T20:04:33Z")
thanks for you support :] ---
**Author:** ![Carrie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/carrie/32/1537_2.png) [@Carrie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Carrie)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2007, 8:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-18-im-16-i-was-crushed-today/6982/5 "2007-11-28T20:54:09Z")
> [@nikefredo](#): > > ok i guess it was only a crush, now i know what the word means so my buddy jose got that book “ the mystery method” before i even knew bout the site anyway i wanted that book so we made a bet if i could kiss sarah on the lips i get the book … i like her but kiss not happening cause she has a bf sooo had 2 think i told her she said “no i cant i have a bf” so i said ok fine how bout i kiss u … she said yes. later on i jose was washing dishes and she came in the back. walked up to ( by the way no pheros there processing still wtf) and went 4 the kiss then my heart droped because what she did next was unreal…next time on the manny. > > lol well she turn away while saying i have a bf worse day of my life honey, this is a classic seduction move on her part … you were supposed to kiss her anyway. Don’t make her do all the work! It’s a dance, you have to match her moves, and being the man it would be nice if you led, LOL! good luck 😃 edit: I see mindset gave you the same advice! ---
**Author:** ![nikefredo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/e9bcb4/32.png) [@nikefredo](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nikefredo)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2007, 8:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-18-im-16-i-was-crushed-today/6982/6 "2007-11-28T20:57:10Z")
yeh im a bad dancer thanks ill remember that next time( with another girl i messed this up ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2007, 12:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-18-im-16-i-was-crushed-today/6982/7 "2007-11-29T00:14:24Z")
Great call Carrie. My turn to rep you. And to expound on Carries dance analogy, the dance kind of goes like this: You take 2 steps forward, and one step back. Another 2 steps forward and then 1 back. And the dance continues till either party ends the dance, or you become a couple. That’s the dance. It’s actually a courting ritual and played out in the animal world by most species. Observe how birds court each other, or cats, squirrels, even dogs. it’s an elegant push-pull back, then push and pull-back again ritual, and plays out until they finally mate. In Sarah’s situation, you showed interest and she pulled back. You showed more interest and she gave in a little. You then backed down. 2 steps forward and 1 step back - Round 1 complete! Round 2 - She showed interest and and walked up to you. You showed interest by turning to her. She showed more interest and kissed you. Then she pulled back - Round 2 complete Round 3 - It’s now your turn to take 2 steps forward! ---
**Author:** ![nikefredo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/e9bcb4/32.png) [@nikefredo](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nikefredo)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2007, 12:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-18-im-16-i-was-crushed-today/6982/8 "2007-11-29T00:35:12Z")
now i know what i got 2 do thanks mark ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2007, 1:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-18-im-16-i-was-crushed-today/6982/9 "2007-11-29T01:25:19Z")
You’re welcome nikefredo, but the thanks really goes to Carrie and mindset. If it weren’t for their posts, I wouldn’t have thought to mention my analogy of the ritual and how the dance goes.