# She Stayed Very Close Part 2

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close-part-2/21873>\
**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [October 23, 2008, 1:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close-part-2/21873 "2008-10-23T13:20:21Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 16\
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**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\
**Post date:** [October 23, 2008, 1:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close-part-2/21873/1 "2008-10-23T13:20:21Z")

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Myself: Mid-40s, athletic, married

This is a follow-on to:

[She stayed very close ...](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close/21363)

I have been playing with [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) a little more with both work and social situations. For work my favorite mix continues to be A314 and Instant honesty but it never hurts to experiment a little …

Mix:  
3 sprays Instant Gentleman  
1 spray TUTH  
1 spray Instant shine 2x

Siutation:  
Social with people 30s and 40s.

Hit #1:

Good female friend, we are sitting on a large love seat talking. A say large in that a third person could probably squeeze in if they had to. We are talking - general local stuff. She keeps moving closer and closer. Two friends come along and we stand up to say hello. When they move on we sit back down but now she is right beside me in the middle of the seat. Right beside me as in physical contact. Someone else comes along to say hello but she makes no move to get up or slide over to break physical contact. I make no indication I notice the physical contact but …

Hit #2:

Another good female friend comes over to say hello. And a lot more. Just pleasant conversation but she never talks this much to me. Lots of smiles, eyes very bright, comes very close several times.

Hit #3:

This is actually an anti-hit. Formally introduced to another lady. We knew who each other was but never really met before. We have a friendly conversation on a subject of mutual interest. She is very friendly but soon I can see a slight discomfort. She sits down as a way to break close contact/conversation. I can tell she is more comfortable about 6 feet away or so. I talk with other people but every time I come by I say something to her. She is always friendly, smiles, & responds but I can tell she is more comfortable when I am about 6 feet away. For whatever reason the one spray of TUTH is putting out just a little too much 'none for her today …

This mix gives a feel somewhat like A314 but different, It does not have the “gravitas” (thanks ntk) that A314 has and is a little more sexual due to the higher dose of 'none with the TUTH. But it definitely works and would give a single guy something solid to work with.

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**Author:** ![river](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/river/32/934_2.png) [@river](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/river)\
**Post date:** [October 24, 2008, 8:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close-part-2/21873/2 "2008-10-24T20:29:59Z")

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Once again Boss, great report!!! I’m sure a lot of the guys will be trying this combo out!

BTW, how did your wife react to this one?

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**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\
**Post date:** [October 30, 2008, 2:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close-part-2/21873/3 "2008-10-30T02:13:47Z")

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River - sorry for the late reply.

She gets all snuggly into my neck …

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**Author:** ![QuietGuy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/q/bc8723/32.png) [@QuietGuy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/QuietGuy)\
**Post date:** [October 30, 2008, 2:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close-part-2/21873/4 "2008-10-30T02:41:54Z")

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Thanks for this post [bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank). I am going to to use this mix as a template, when I become more experience in [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) use. 😃

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**Author:** ![squall1212](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e47774/32.png) [@squall1212](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/squall1212)\
**Post date:** [October 30, 2008, 5:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close-part-2/21873/5 "2008-10-30T05:00:19Z")

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Whenever I add -none with Instant Gentlemen I get very positive results. You give off a sexual yet cool vibe at the same time.

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**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\
**Post date:** [October 30, 2008, 7:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close-part-2/21873/6 "2008-10-30T07:13:52Z")

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> [@squall1212](#):
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> Whenever I add -none with Instant Gentlemen I get very positive results. You give off a sexual yet cool vibe at the same time.

Exactly - you add a little spice to a cool vibe. Very nice effect.

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**Author:** ![river](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/river/32/934_2.png) [@river](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/river)\
**Post date:** [October 30, 2008, 2:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close-part-2/21873/7 "2008-10-30T14:05:29Z")

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(3 IG + 1 TUTH + 2 IS)

She gets all snuggly into your neck, huh?

Hmmm…maybe the TUTH adds just enough “edge” to the nicey-nice guy vibe of the IG…“rough but gentle”…every woman’s dream…

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**Author:** ![ntk23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/65b543/32.png) [@ntk23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ntk23)\
**Post date:** [October 30, 2008, 8:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close-part-2/21873/8 "2008-10-30T20:10:09Z")

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> [@river](#):
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> (3 IG + 1 TUTH + 2 IS)
> 
> She gets all snuggly into your neck, huh?
> 
> Hmmm…maybe the TUTH adds just enough “edge” to the nicey-nice guy vibe of the IG…“rough but gentle”…every woman’s dream…

I certainly think so, because when I have worn IG solo it has been very much like an enhanced version of the “nice guy” vibe I give out naturally anyway… which is all good, but I have actually learned a lot about myself through -none in the form of TUTH, in a weird way. It is like getting in touch with my inner caveman 😃 and coming to terms with him.

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**Author:** ![river](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/river/32/934_2.png) [@river](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/river)\
**Post date:** [October 30, 2008, 8:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close-part-2/21873/9 "2008-10-30T20:15:56Z")

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> [@ntk23](#):
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> I certainly think so, because when I have worn IG solo it has been very much like an enhanced version of the “nice guy” vibe I give out naturally anyway… which is all good, but I have actually learned a lot about myself through -none in the form of TUTH, in a weird way. It is like getting in touch with my inner caveman 😃 and coming to terms with him.

LOL! Is the “inner caveman”😃 feeling that you get with the IG/TUTH combo like any of the experimental mixes? I’m just wondering if they’ve tried mixing this one up already and put it out as a MX…

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**Author:** ![ntk23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/65b543/32.png) [@ntk23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ntk23)\
**Post date:** [October 30, 2008, 8:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close-part-2/21873/10 "2008-10-30T20:51:40Z")

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Oh, well I mean I got the feeling from just the TUTH alone… but yeah, I can see why a spray of TUTH is good to give the IG a bit of edge. The IG may or may not be similar to my own natural phero-signature, but it is really similar to a prevailing aspect of my personality. So I have mixed feelings about it at least as a solo [pheromone spray](https://a314.com/product-category/spray-pheromones/), because it seems like “Instant Friend Zone” to me, in a sense. I mean when I first tested out 2 to-go sprays of IG I recognised myself in it immediately, it was weird. Although it was me at my most socially confident.

The IG/TUTH mix is essentially going to be largely -none and -rone with maybe a bit of alphanol and/or TAA and/or TAC or something (these are what people on the forum have speculated at being the extra ingredients in IG). I suppose there might be an MX that is mainly these two pheros. I am thinking of actually getting some experimones of both -none and -rone for making mixes and combos with. Nice and simple… of course I’ll still be collecting exotic putatives and test molecules and the like, but I have learnt about myself from these two pheros and am keen to explore them in higher doses now 🙂

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**Author:** ![yasserthekid1](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/yasserthekid1/32/1011_2.png) [@yasserthekid1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/yasserthekid1)\
**Post date:** [October 30, 2008, 10:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close-part-2/21873/11 "2008-10-30T22:00:07Z")

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> [@river](#):
>
> (3 IG + 1 TUTH + 2 IS)
> 
> She gets all snuggly into your neck, huh?
> 
> Hmmm…maybe the TUTH adds just enough “edge” to the nicey-nice guy vibe of the IG…“rough but gentle”…every woman’s dream…

the mix had been doing extra wonders for me till this happened…

> [@Turn Up the Heat and Instant Gentleman led to a sexual harassment accusation](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/turn-up-the-heat-instant-gentleman-nj-girl-sexual-harassment-accusation/22298):
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> Hi pherotalk’s people, this is your buddy Yasserthekid1 cool bringing you some bad news about pheros and looking out for my forum’s people so that you guys don’t get this type of anti-reaction that I got a few weeks ago… hope you like the story.. it goes kindda like this… So I decided to stay over at my college’s apartments this one weekend, just to visit a few friends and chill around over there and have a good time (cuz sometimes there are crazy parties going on stuck_out_tongue)… So anyw…

and I thought I was lucky ☹😛

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**Author:** ![river](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/river/32/934_2.png) [@river](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/river)\
**Post date:** [October 30, 2008, 10:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close-part-2/21873/12 "2008-10-30T22:35:18Z")

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> [@yasserthekid1](#):
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> the mix had been doing extra wonders for me till this happened…

😮 Yeah, just like women have to be careful wearing couplins…you can’t just block out the freaks since everyone responds differently.

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**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\
**Post date:** [October 31, 2008, 4:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close-part-2/21873/13 "2008-10-31T16:59:35Z")

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> [@yasserthekid1](#):
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> the mix had been doing extra wonders for me till this happened…
> 
> [Turn Up the Heat and Instant Gentleman led to a sexual harassment accusation](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/turn-up-the-heat-instant-gentleman-nj-girl-sexual-harassment-accusation/22298)
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> and I thought I was lucky

Check out the psts that Gegogi, a couple others and I left for you.

Basically you went with too much TUTH for that individual and then once you did notice her discomfort the best thing to do would be too keep your distance but be very friendly keeping conversation to a friendly minimum. The more you say, even in jest, the more can be misinterpreted when someone is agitated. Plus you gotta remember the university environment.

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**Author:** ![CyranoDK](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ea5d25/32.png) [@CyranoDK](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CyranoDK)\
**Post date:** [November 1, 2008, 1:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close-part-2/21873/14 "2008-11-01T01:45:58Z")

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I’m wondering if a touch of instant female magic could have taken the edge of things in yasserthekid1’s unlucky mix experience.  
I would definitly try this combo:  
3x instant gentleman  
1x turn up the heat  
1x instant female magic

Actually.. I’m going to try 😉

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**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\
**Post date:** [November 1, 2008, 1:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close-part-2/21873/15 "2008-11-01T01:58:13Z")

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Give it a try and let us know …

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**Author:** ![CyranoDK](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ea5d25/32.png) [@CyranoDK](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CyranoDK)\
**Post date:** [November 1, 2008, 3:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close-part-2/21873/16 "2008-11-01T03:52:33Z")

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I will.. problem is that it will take a while before I can try it :S  
I’m in bed with pneumonia ☹  
It’s the second time I got that.. First time it took me 3 months to get over it (it was resistant to the medicin).  
I hope it will be faster this time around.
