# She stayed very close ... **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [October 14, 2008, 2:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close/21363 "2008-10-14T14:12:43Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 14\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [October 14, 2008, 2:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close/21363/1 "2008-10-14T14:12:43Z")
Myself: Mid-40s, Athletic, Married Mix: 2 Drops A314 to the neck 2 Sprays Instant Gentleman to the neck 2 Spray Instant Shine to the back of the neck All sprays from a 30 ml bottle Self-Effects: None at this point … lol. Situation: I was with a group - mixed male and female - same people for several days. I was … the boss, in charge. This can be different for me as I am used to an all (mostly alpha) male type environment. If you have read my threads you know I switch between A314, [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) and sometimes Ammo as a base, rotating them every week to 10 days and then add in IH, Instant Shine, etc. as I think I need to. I seldom if ever wear A314 and Instant Gentleman together. This time I wanted a blend of the two effects (I am the Boss and warm, dependable Guy) because there would be females in the group but certainly not the sexual undertones of Ammo so I decided to give this mix a try. The effects seemed to work as I intended. You always end up dealing with a couple people who try your patience but for the most part people did as I needed them to do but it was on friendly terms. In particular, there was one female (significantly younger than myself) who - on those occassions when we were standing around talking or waiting - would stand close by. Very close by - say within a two foot radius. She would bring a couple female associates/friends with her and they would be talking amongst themselves but she would always stand the closest to me. We might say a quick “Hello, how are you today, etc.” kind of pleasantry, but for the most part she would talk to her friends. If I looked at her she would look at me and give me a warm, friendly smile. Nothing sexual in nature whatsoever in her comportment, speech or looks. But she always seemed happy just to be close by - almost like I was that protector/guide maybe fatherly figure. Very interesting effect overall and very pronounced with that one person. ---
**Author:** ![river](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/river/32/934_2.png) [@river](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/river)\ **Post date:** [October 15, 2008, 7:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close/21363/2 "2008-10-15T19:40:02Z")
Very nice report Boss! Yet again, another A314 hit! That stuff is like gold in a bottle. LOL! Seems like the IG pulls in the reins of the A314 just a bit and subtly softens its effects. NICE!!! ---
**Author:** ![OoohYahhh](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ooohyahhh/32/1274_2.png) [@OoohYahhh](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/OoohYahhh)\ **Post date:** [October 15, 2008, 8:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close/21363/3 "2008-10-15T20:19:48Z")
You got it Hoss. That mix is my standard base trim. Sometimes i up the Shine or Gentleman just for fun. 1 or 2 more drops of A314 for tough situations. (I’ve never tried more than 4 drops.) Peoples expectations get conditioned. About every 3rd day, i don’t wear any pheros just a little mushroom cologne. The reactions are almost the same. Last night, i didn’t wear anything and one guy came almost a hundred feet to shake my hand and ask i had what i needed when i walked in. A few months ago this same guy would hardly nod to acknowledge my presence. This mix really, really works at work. I probably wouldn’t need any other pheros except that i am planning to seduce Martha Stewart. ---
**Author:** ![river](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/river/32/934_2.png) [@river](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/river)\ **Post date:** [October 15, 2008, 9:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close/21363/4 "2008-10-15T21:51:14Z")
> [@OoohYahhh](#): > > I probably wouldn’t need any other pheros except that i am planning to seduce Martha Stewart. OMG LOL! What in the world are you planning to use for that one???!!! I’m not sure a bath in IFM would thaw that one out!😃 Sorry to any Martha Stewart fans out there…wherever you are… ---
**Author:** ![ntk23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/65b543/32.png) [@ntk23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ntk23)\ **Post date:** [October 15, 2008, 10:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close/21363/5 "2008-10-15T22:43:04Z")
Another nice report Bosshank, reps. I never tried Ishine to the back of the neck but maybe I will try this out, it should be interesting to not be so affected by it myself and see how it affects others in a more “detached” way. ---
**Author:** ![Tenant](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tenant/32/1668_2.png) [@Tenant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tenant)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2008, 6:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close/21363/6 "2008-10-16T06:30:25Z")
Nice report man 😃 I’m still learning the ins and outs of A314 myself. This is a good primer on some things to look for. ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [October 17, 2008, 9:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close/21363/7 "2008-10-17T09:17:54Z")
Tenant: Glad you enjoyed it. Tread the threads in my signature block on A314. A lot of experienced people made some good comments in there. ---
**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\ **Post date:** [October 17, 2008, 10:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close/21363/8 "2008-10-17T22:19:23Z")
Aww!!! That’s so cute daddykins! lol, kinda creepy that this girl reminds me of myself, cause I act the same way! lol, dunno if he had pheros on though lol, I remember being so extra close towards this man as well and whenever he looked down at me, I would slightly smile -I’m weird I know- lol (but it wasn’t a crush or anything, I just liked him! he’s a cool guy). Plus, I think I was super close to him, because I knew that he was such a good guy (aka gentleman) no matter how close I got near him, he wouldn’t take it as a chance and get closer to me (so I found that pretty attractive) he was really steady, and polite too! (too bad, my younger guy friends don’t act like him, _sigh_) Plus, guys who smile (which is not the same as grinning) is such a nice thing to see cause I don’t see men smile often! or atleast the ones around me! Nice report daddkins, let’s see if I could rep you again, without having to share the love again! 😉 Dang, I have to share the love 🙄 so I owe you! ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [October 18, 2008, 6:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close/21363/9 "2008-10-18T18:29:39Z")
> [@msselva](#): > > Nice report daddkins, let’s see if I could rep you again, without having to share the love again! Dang, I have to share the love .. so I owe you! A smile will suffice for now … lol.😛 ---
**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\ **Post date:** [October 18, 2008, 7:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close/21363/10 "2008-10-18T19:00:34Z")
> [@bosshank](#): > > A smile will suffice for now … lol.😛 😕 only a smile?! lol! ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [October 18, 2008, 7:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close/21363/11 "2008-10-18T19:02:36Z")
Anything else (besides rep points) might mean I would have to move up near you for my health’s sake … lol. ---
**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\ **Post date:** [October 18, 2008, 7:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close/21363/12 "2008-10-18T19:09:53Z")
> [@bosshank](#): > > Anything else (besides rep points) might mean I would have to move up near you for my health’s sake … lol. LOL!!! hahaha!!! 😛 ---
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [October 23, 2008, 8:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close/21363/13 "2008-10-23T08:27:29Z")
Sorry I missed this BH, but I’ve been away for several days…you know the drill. > [@bosshank](#): > > _ **there was one female** _ _**(significantly younger than myself)**_ _ **who would stand close by.** _ > > _ **Very close by - say within a two foot radius.** _ > > _ **she always seemed happy just to be close by** _ I know there’s a crowd forming…but ya got room for one more? 🙄 😃 > [@](#): > > _ **almost like I was that protector/guide maybe fatherly figure** _. Yeah, yeah…keep tellin’ yourself that… Nice report, Hank, reps! 😉 Bella ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [October 23, 2008, 12:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close/21363/14 "2008-10-23T12:52:59Z")
> [@Bella](#): > > Sorry I missed this BH, but I’ve been away for several days…you know the drill. I know, I know - I left a note in the ballroom - things have just been getting out of hand here - I have not had time to check several times for days at a time - you, Mark, Renny - everyone busy “taking care of business”. > [@Bella](#): > > I know there’s a crowd forming…but ya got room for one more? Always … > [@Bella](#): > > Yeah, yeah…keep tellin’ yourself that… Trust me. > [@Bella](#): > > Nice report, Hank, reps! Your kind indulgence is always greatly appreciated.😃