# She's an 11 and I'm not, but I'm going for it **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 15, 2010, 11:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/shes-an-11-and-im-not-but-im-going-for-it/37047 "2010-03-15T23:54:17Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 14\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Bomber](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/5fc32e/32.png) [@Bomber](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bomber)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2010, 11:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/shes-an-11-and-im-not-but-im-going-for-it/37047/1 "2010-03-15T23:54:17Z")
I’m 43, she’s 32; men are drawn to her; she feeds on the attention; she dates around but has decided to spend most of her time with me. She was a wild one but now claims she wants to wait for the right one as sleeping around has brought “him” to her yet, so she’s trying something new. I want to be that one. I blow her off on occasion and throw out a mild negative every once in a while to try and keep her interested in chasing me. We’ve known each other for 2 1/2 months, sleep together but no sex, I don’t think she feels a strong sexual attraction for me - want to change that. Of course it helps when other women hit on me and she sees it. What product do you recommend and how should I use it? ---
**Author:** ![falcos](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/falcos/32/1189_2.png) [@falcos](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/falcos)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2010, 11:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/shes-an-11-and-im-not-but-im-going-for-it/37047/2 "2010-03-15T23:59:57Z")
Hi there bomber. I am falcos, and I am here to help you 🙂. But before that, can you please tell me a little bit more about yourself. Your personality traits. And if you just want mones for this woman, or you are interested in more like job or people in general? And by doing so you will fullfilling the conditons required to win a free $25 gc. So please if you can help me, I will sure to awnser your request, and give you the best advice within my knowledge. Best regards, falcos ---
**Author:** ![Des\_1](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/des_1/32/695_2.png) [@Des\_1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Des_1)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2010, 12:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/shes-an-11-and-im-not-but-im-going-for-it/37047/3 "2010-03-16T00:13:12Z")
hmm I’m in a situation alot like the one your in, only I’m 20 and she’s 18, I used a half a spray of Instant jerk some Cometalktome and alot of Shine and it’s really seeming to do the trick, it sounds to me like you already know alot about what your doing but just remember the phermones aren’t going to do the job for you, they only help ---
**Author:** ![Des\_1](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/des_1/32/695_2.png) [@Des\_1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Des_1)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2010, 12:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/shes-an-11-and-im-not-but-im-going-for-it/37047/4 "2010-03-16T00:15:39Z")
also what you need to note is as you grow older your body slows it’s none production so you need a product to counter that.. I would suggest heavy ammo. and some instant shine ---
**Author:** ![MVKBUGATTI](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/50afbb/32.png) [@MVKBUGATTI](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MVKBUGATTI)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2010, 12:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/shes-an-11-and-im-not-but-im-going-for-it/37047/5 "2010-03-16T00:26:05Z")
[quote=“Bomber”] As Falcos asked, could you tell more about your personality. We can see from your statement, “I want to be that one.”… that’s your objective. Bro, you said, you are sleeping together; hopefully your **holding** and **holding** and holding her. Bomber you added, “I don’t think she feels a strong sexual attraction for me” hopefully we can change that." Bomber, I really hope so, I really do. This sounds like a very a mature woman in her thinking, however I got these thoughts about why will she allow herself to sleep with YOU. Right now, you see I have these thoughts running through my mind. One side says, we need to know more about his personality…Is he just too “nice guy” or what?? Do you see why we need a little about your strengths and weakness. Another side, has me thinking, what is she thinking? Does she trust you just as a friend with limits . I agree with your comment, “Of course it helps when other women hit on me and she sees it.;” So you want to use this in your favor… Okay…so tell us what’s on your mind, and please don’t hestiate, it’s all about you right now and we want to do the best job in helping you with recommendations.🙂 Respectfully, MVKBugatti ---
**Author:** ![Maidenfan01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e9bcb4/32.png) [@Maidenfan01](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Maidenfan01)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2010, 1:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/shes-an-11-and-im-not-but-im-going-for-it/37047/6 "2010-03-16T01:07:35Z")
I really think this might be a case for A314. She seems to be looking for mature and dependable, and thats exactly what A314 is. It is not sexual in nature, but can be what you need to get her thinking about you more. Get some ammo to switch with it occasionally and I bet you are golden. If you do get ammo, your probably gonna want double strength because of your age. Good luck and hope it works out, looks like you are on the right track! ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2010, 3:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/shes-an-11-and-im-not-but-im-going-for-it/37047/7 "2010-03-16T03:20:55Z")
I’m only a few years younger than you so we probably have reasonably similar mone levels Now I’m going to go a little counter intuitive here. See there’s two types of guys, the guy that women know they SHOULD want, but usually winds up a friend, and they guy they know is no good for them but can’t help themselves. I imagine most people will suggest you go with something that will enhance what you already are. Probably [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) or something like that. I personally think that mature stability and reliability is something she already gets from you as a vibe. You need to give her an impression that you have all the positive qualities she already knows and expects from you, AND the more youthful “dangerous” qualities she’s likely found attractive in men up to this point. As was said before, at 40+ your none production is probably low, ironically at being over 30 her attraction to high none is up there. I say get a bottle of TuTH double strength…Instant Jerk might work as well but I can’t speak from experience on that one and I’m told it’s VERY powerfull and might be TOO much of the wrong message. Shine is an all around feel good mone, self effects for me have been great. And it’s advertised to give off a “youthful type of energy”. Instant Openess has similar effects imo but with more chattiness. Basically it sounds like she has a history of getting the right kind of feelings from the wrong kind of guy. These products will help her get those feelings for the right guy, you. Just be sure to be congruent. Act a little more sexual, smile a lot, joke around, be playful and flirty, not a total personality change mind you, just enough to show her there’s more to you than what she already thinks she knows. ---
**Author:** ![seekingadvice](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/58f4c7/32.png) [@seekingadvice](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/seekingadvice)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2010, 3:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/shes-an-11-and-im-not-but-im-going-for-it/37047/8 "2010-03-16T03:54:38Z")
> [@RADMAN513](#): > > I’m only a few years younger than you so we probably have reasonably similar mone levels > Now I’m going to go a little counter intuitive here. See there’s two types of guys, the guy that women know they SHOULD want, but usually winds up a friend, and they guy they know is no good for them but can’t help themselves. I imagine most people will suggest you go with something that will enhance what you already are. Probably Instant Gentleman or something like that. I personally think that mature stability and reliability is something she already gets from you as a vibe. > You need to give her an impression that you have all the positive qualities she already knows and expects from you, AND the more youthful “dangerous” qualities she’s likely found attractive in men up to this point. > As was said before, at 40+ your none production is probably low, ironically at being over 30 her attraction to high none is up there. I say get a bottle of TuTH double strength…Instant Jerk might work as well but I can’t speak from experience on that one and I’m told it’s VERY powerfull and might be TOO much of the wrong message. > Shine is an all around feel good mone, self effects for me have been great. And it’s advertised to give off a “youthful type of energy”. Instant Openess has similar effects imo but with more chattiness. > > Basically it sounds like she has a history of getting the right kind of feelings from the wrong kind of guy. These products will help her get those feelings for the right guy, you. Just be sure to be congruent. Act a little more sexual, smile a lot, joke around, be playful and flirty, not a total personality change mind you, just enough to show her there’s more to you than what she already thinks she knows. seems like rad has a point 😛 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2010, 10:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/shes-an-11-and-im-not-but-im-going-for-it/37047/9 "2010-03-16T22:01:19Z")
Thanks so much for joining PheroTalk, I’m super excited to have you here. It’s always great when a new member discovers a world so full of endless possibilities. The only limits to mones is our own imagination 🙂 While I would love to issue you the $25 Gift Certificate for saying hello I do kindly request you post some more about yourself here. If you are unsure about what qualifies as sufficient to obtain the gift certificate I am just itching to email you, please have a look at this thread: [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) I wrote it to help everyone in writing the perfect introduction. Of course the choice is yours and your privacy is very important. If you just don’t feel comfortable providing additional info we will all still do our best to assist you anyway. Welcome to PheroTalk ---
**Author:** ![Bomber](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/5fc32e/32.png) [@Bomber](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bomber)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2010, 11:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/shes-an-11-and-im-not-but-im-going-for-it/37047/10 "2010-03-16T23:39:37Z")
Thanks for all the replies, looking forward to reading more. I live in Missouri, in a midsized town. I’ve been “too nice” in the past. Women generally find me attractive and I don’t have trouble walking up and starting a conversation. Divorced, she cheated, so I have some trust issues. I’m in decent shape, no model though. Can’t dance very well and that’s my biggest insecurity. I hold her when we sleep, but I know she’s slept with othr guys in the same way, just not as much as with me. What other info will help you figure me out? Thanks ---
**Author:** ![Bomber](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/5fc32e/32.png) [@Bomber](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bomber)\ **Post date:** [March 17, 2010, 1:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/shes-an-11-and-im-not-but-im-going-for-it/37047/11 "2010-03-17T01:18:33Z")
Strengths- intuitive, understanding, resourceful, kind, smart, easy going Weaknesses- too nice, prone to depression but everyone thinks I’m Mr. Positive, can’t dance well and she loves to dance ---
**Author:** ![Bomber](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/5fc32e/32.png) [@Bomber](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bomber)\ **Post date:** [March 17, 2010, 1:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/shes-an-11-and-im-not-but-im-going-for-it/37047/12 "2010-03-17T01:23:44Z")
Thanks for all the replies, looking forward to reading more. I live in Missouri, in a midsized town. I’ve been “too nice” in the past. Women generally find me attractive and I don’t have trouble walking up and starting a conversation. Divorced, she cheated, so I have some trust issues. I’m in decent shape, no model though. Can’t dance very well and that’s my biggest insecurity. I hold her when we sleep, but I know she’s slept with othr guys in the same way, just not as much as with me. What other info will help you figure me out? Thanks ---
**Author:** ![MVKBUGATTI](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/50afbb/32.png) [@MVKBUGATTI](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MVKBUGATTI)\ **Post date:** [March 17, 2010, 2:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/shes-an-11-and-im-not-but-im-going-for-it/37047/13 "2010-03-17T02:23:31Z")
> [@Bomber](#): > > Thanks for all the replies, looking forward to reading more. I live in Missouri, in a midsized town. I’ve been “too nice” in the past. Women generally find me attractive and I don’t have trouble walking up and starting a conversation. Start out with Ammo ([AMMO – Sexual Attraction Pheromone Cologne For Men - Alpha A314](https://a314.com/product/ammo/)) and Instant Shine, Ammo is versatile, it signals you want to be more than friends and you can use it anywhere. It’s a -none based formula that presents a smooth sexual vibe. [Turn Up The Heat](https://a314.com/product/turn-up-the-heat-tuth/) for one of those nights when she sleeps (hug up with you) in your bed, so keep a to-go bottle the side line. Just a spray- start slow, you want her to get use to your heat. [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) ([Instant Honesty – Deep Relational Communication Pheromone – You Won’t Believe Your Ears! - Alpha A314](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/))to increase in intimacy and deepen your connection, this is to be use to effect those you want to influence. 🙂 Once you been around a while and are pretty familiar with the commercial line, if possible try, P83 ([Experimental Pheromone P83 - Alpha A314](https://a314.com/product/p83/)) it decreases people inhibitions. I believe these products will assist positively; if you’re feeling unsure you can always start with the smaller, less expensive to-go bottles to get a better feel for things. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2010, 7:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/shes-an-11-and-im-not-but-im-going-for-it/37047/14 "2010-03-19T19:49:46Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.