# Should I get Phermones? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [August 2, 2008, 12:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/should-i-get-phermones/16729 "2008-08-02T00:03:10Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Random\_Bob](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/6a8cbe/32.png) [@Random\_Bob](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Random_Bob)\ **Post date:** [August 2, 2008, 12:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/should-i-get-phermones/16729/1 "2008-08-02T00:03:10Z")
Hi, I’m and 18 year old, male, high school student. It is safe to say that I would fall under the category of a nerd, geek, or any other demographic label that implies a sacrifice social interaction for academic performance. Since senior year is beginning soon I have yet again an opportunity to interact and make friends ect… Ideally I wish to gain a level of social proficiency that stems from charisma or character. However, as previous years show I am woefully inept at holding a conversation let alone befriending someone. I am looking to expedite matters. As per my understanding of [pheromones](https://a314.com/) such products would help me be perceived as friendly or perhaps even cool 🙄. Am I wrong in my assumptions? If not then what products are suggestible for attaining the desired result. ---
**Author:** ![RaiderMagic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/bc79bd/32.png) [@RaiderMagic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RaiderMagic)\ **Post date:** [August 2, 2008, 12:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/should-i-get-phermones/16729/2 "2008-08-02T00:16:38Z")
I definitely think you should get pheromones. The only regret that I have regarding pheromones was not discovering it soon enough. It is only after high school that I’ve stumbled upon pheromones and boy, it would have been so interesting trying it in a high school environment, as in University, the people here are mostly serious and committed to their school work. The effects that you desire (eg, building friendships and having wonderful conservations) can be significantly enhanced with [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/). For these effects, I would first recommend Instant Shine. This pheromone product will make those around you super happy and pretty soon they will be addicted to your presence. To start conversations and friendships, I would recommend Instant Openness. This would open up other people and would make them more chatty with you. If you desire, I would recommend Instant Honesty to this mix as it can help build quality conversations that could possibly lead to lifetime friendships. If you have decided and made up your mind, you can post an introduction in this section of the forum `http://www.pheromonetalk.com/introductions-new-users-say-hello-get/` and you will receive a free $15 gift card to start your journal! I hope this post helped you. ---
**Author:** ![GuySajer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/guysajer/32/446_2.png) [@GuySajer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/GuySajer)\ **Post date:** [August 2, 2008, 12:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/should-i-get-phermones/16729/3 "2008-08-02T00:20:01Z")
Ammunition, which is a good, well-rounded mix. It had Androstenone, which is sexual, androsterone which is respectable and androstenol, which is social. I also heard that [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) is a really good respect pheromone for younger people. One of the socials too, like Instant Openness might do you some good too. Yeah you should definitely get pheromones, but only if you’re also willing to make the effort to become more social. They will definitely give you an edge, but they won’t do all the work for you. Oh yeah, post an introduction about yourself with details in the intro ection and you’ll get a $15 gift certificate. ---
**Author:** ![RaiderMagic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/bc79bd/32.png) [@RaiderMagic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RaiderMagic)\ **Post date:** [August 2, 2008, 12:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/should-i-get-phermones/16729/5 "2008-08-02T00:27:50Z")
Hey Bob! I definitely think you should get pheromones. The only regret that I have with pheromones is that I did not find out about it sooner. It is only after I graduated from high school that I stumbled upon these products. It would have been so cool to test them out in a high school environment. The university environment is quite different and the people here are more serious and focused. Pheromones can indeed help you obtain your desired effects (eg. making new friends and improving conversations). With that in mind, I would first recommend you Instant Shine as this product makes the people who sniffed your scent happy and after a while they will be addicted to your presence. Secondly, I would recommend [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) to help improve your conversations. This would open more people up and make them more friendly towards you. If you want quality conversations, add a little Instant Honesty to this mix. This will add the depth in these conversations and perhaps you will end up with life long buddies in this process! If you have already made up your mind about pheromones, I suggest you post an introduction about yourself here : `http://www.pheromonetalk.com/introductions-new-users-say-hello-get/` You will shortly receive a $15 gift card to get your journey started! I hope this post was helpful! ---
**Author:** ![attractor](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ee7513/32.png) [@attractor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/attractor)\ **Post date:** [August 2, 2008, 1:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/should-i-get-phermones/16729/6 "2008-08-02T01:31:42Z")
Pheromones are great! And Ammo is an excellent recommendation. Another excellent pheromone for you is Instant Openness, Instant Openness and [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/). They will both put females amazingly at ease and make them more likely to want hang around. Be careful with instant female magic as it gets some males (elevates the mood of females) depressed. I too had some social anxiety at your age. If you have a friend that is good with the women, I’d recommend that you follow him and learn from him. Dressing right, being confident, good social skills and a sense of humor are the most important aspects of keeping a women’s interest (way more than pheromones). Also, there is some stuff on getting better social skills with women on the internet, although you have to weed out the bad from the good. I also recommend that you join Toastmasters [Toastmasters International - Home](http://www.toastmasters.org) to improve your general self confidence. In this organization, you give speeches, lead the group and other activities that will give you good self confidence. I found there was nothing better than getting good at public speaking to enhance my confidence. Buy the pheromones, get out there and keep trying. Model a successful person, adapt your behavior (always try something new if you experience an unsuccessful pattern) and you will eventually be very successful. ---
**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\ **Post date:** [August 2, 2008, 2:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/should-i-get-phermones/16729/7 "2008-08-02T02:19:30Z")
Hey sweetie, I suggest you to post in the introduction sections in the forum, so you can get your GC (I think it’s like $15) Anyhow, like others have mentioned instant openness is excellent for socializing, people feel comfortable talking to you. However, beware, that some people wont stop taking lol! And instant shine does add some confidence, makes you feel calm and happy. While it also makes others around you in a good mood, which is never a bad thing 😉 Have fun 🙂 Btw: nerds are awesome! ---
**Author:** ![Wolfy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wolfy/32/965_2.png) [@Wolfy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfy)\ **Post date:** [August 2, 2008, 3:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/should-i-get-phermones/16729/8 "2008-08-02T03:34:59Z")
> [@msselva](#): > > Btw: nerds are awesome! Nerds rule! if you don’t believe me, piss one off and see what happens to your email… 😃 I would suggest starting with the following 3 at most, I would say IO, IH and [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/). Then every girl at space camp will be telling you her dirty little secrets. 😃 (sorry bad joke) but truthfully I think you will find the open honest talk will be to your liking. I would suggest starting with Togo bottles and double strength where available, then plan on blotting or opening the bottles to apply a little bit, even just a single spray will go further. ---
**Author:** ![Daedelus76](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/eb8c5e/32.png) [@Daedelus76](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Daedelus76)\ **Post date:** [August 2, 2008, 3:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/should-i-get-phermones/16729/9 "2008-08-02T03:57:50Z")
> [@Random\_Bob](#): > > . However, as previous years show I am woefully inept at holding a conversation let alone befriending someone. Maybe instant Openness, Instant Honesty, or [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/). I wouldn’t recommend Ammo for you, it would be distracting at school. Honestly you might be producing alot of pheromones already and not even be aware of it. It is easy to be hard on yourself when you are a teenager, however it is possible for you to learn to think about yourself, and others, in another way. Perhaps you just secretly don’t want to meet people? That’s fine too, as long as you are aware of it. ---
**Author:** ![iamstretchypanda](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/iamstretchypanda/32/1228_2.png) [@iamstretchypanda](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/iamstretchypanda)\ **Post date:** [August 2, 2008, 8:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/should-i-get-phermones/16729/10 "2008-08-02T08:59:42Z")
I’m 18, the nerd type (in a computer kinda way), but also extremely social. Hopefully knowing this i can help you help yourself. I just started using pheros a month ago and have had impressive results. I’ve tested instant openness and instant shine on my peers and have had great success (more with the shine than the openness). However you may want to look into a book that diagrams social interactions so you are more confident with your responses. The only books i’ve read have focused on male to female relationships, but if you look at the big picture you will realize that the information in these kinds of books will assist you in all interactions. Good luck. PM me if you need some help :].