# Should I leave A314 out? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [May 27, 2012, 4:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/should-i-leave-a314-out/55704 "2012-05-27T16:45:10Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 3\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![dsouza](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dsouza/32/840_2.png) [@dsouza](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dsouza)\ **Post date:** [May 27, 2012, 4:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/should-i-leave-a314-out/55704/1 "2012-05-27T16:45:10Z")
I’ve been wearing IS AMMO around a hot Swiss chalet waittress the last 2 times I’ve seen her and she is very responsive. Today i tried adding a little a314 (1 spray) and I noticed she approached me even though I wasn’t in her section. Furthermore, with the a314 I had the confidence to state her name (Now she knows I remember her), and also tell her next time I’d like to be seated in her section (she wasn’t my waistress this time). Here’s some info about her. She’s 21 a college grad (1 year to go) and we had a brief conversation about her education the first time I saw her. She was very talkative. Now when she saw me several weeks later and was not my waitress this time, she just said hi and smiled and I did most of the talking. It’s clear i was leading the conversation. The question becomes is this really a good idea. I find a314 makes me quiet sometimes as all I do is talk about business, school etc. Her great gab was gone and maybe in beginning stages its best to have more gab. Do you people think I should leave out the a314? I want to have confidence and a314 gives me that and also steers my thoughts to acting like a wealthy caring man, but I’m concerned it may intimidate her even though she is a graduate student. What do you think? Should a314 be used around waitresses in family restaurants (i.e. no dress code, fast food generally etc). Does it have a bigger chance on backfiring on me? Thanks for your help… Any ideas how I can get smooth enough to ask her out without pressuring her would be a great insight too. I really am attracted to her,.. She is VERy beautiful and kind. I may even fall for this one.. I have to be careful. I don’t want things to get too serious, but with ammo IS I’m just the casual guy with casual things to say.. A314 is a relatiosnhip changer. dsouza ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2012, 10:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/should-i-leave-a314-out/55704/2 "2012-05-29T10:43:54Z")
I’m not to sure if I should answer, as it seems this is from a while ago. Hopefully you already figured this out my friend. I think the reason its gone unanswered is because, well only you will be able to answer it. You have the pro’s and cons already listed. So while I cannot give you a definitive answer I would say test out both scenarios and see where you get your best results from. If you are inclined, then stick with it. One thing I like to do anyway is to mix up my signature. One day I’ll wear one thing and then the next something completely different from the previous days. I’ve had women say more often that they dated me and had sex with me because I was a mystery and they couldn’t figure me out. One girl flat out told me, right after a night of sex, she fucked me because she thought it would be the only way to figure out who the hell I was. I asked her if she succeeded and she said no and it was pissing her off because every guy she met was boring and predictable. Instead of going with the obvious response that she would have to keep fucking me and maybe she’d figure it out, I told her we could never have sex again so I could maintain my mystique. It drove her nuts when I wouldn’t hook up with her until she practically attacked me. I was dead serious and to this day I do everything I can to resist her. She tells all her friends and she has hot friends. So yeah, do what sometimes seems completely illogical and you’ll be surprised just how women get addicted to the unpredictable ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2012, 11:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/should-i-leave-a314-out/55704/3 "2012-05-29T11:18:35Z")
How long have you been using A314? I did find it took a month or so of regular use to adjust to it myself - and yes, I did have quiet/introspective/overwhelmed moments in that time that made me wonder. If you want to dredge back through my posts, Steve gave an excellent reply that helped me keep my resolve to go-on with it. Eventually everything clicked and yes, I’d say it was worth persisting. Also, remember that some women won’t respond to A314 as they are turned-on by a totally different signature. Also, A314 can be a bit much for the younger ones - Too mature/serious/LTR-minded and maybe even “dad-like.” I find the mid 20s are in many cases a tipping point between affinity for a fun/social/engaging signature and a more status/sexual oriented sig. Have you got any IG to try instead?