# Showing interest without being creepy. **URL:** \ **Category:** Lounge\ **Created:** [July 19, 2012, 1:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/showing-interest-without-being-creepy/56193 "2012-07-19T13:29:30Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![dsouza](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dsouza/32/840_2.png) [@dsouza](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dsouza)\ **Post date:** [July 19, 2012, 1:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/showing-interest-without-being-creepy/56193/1 "2012-07-19T13:29:30Z")
Women say they want an assertive men, but when is coming on too strong, coming on to strong? If you don’t show interest nothing happens. If you do show interest first you come across as a supplicant because YOUR putting the ball in the other persons court. On the other hand your seen more as assertive and masculine. If a woman is responding to your emails , telephone calls etc and she is younger and eventually she gets the feeling your a creep because you think its ok as she’s responding quickly what chances do you have to salvage things? Apologizing just makes you seem weaker in her eyes and still a creep. I find I get my best results with complimenting women if I ignore them for a while first. Then its back to ignoring them after complimenting, and vica versa. Sometimes testosterone levels make a man needy as the urge to mate is high. Some people recommend kino. I’ve found some women HATE kino and don’t like touchy feely men but more chilled out guys. With so much polar advice how does one know how to act?😮 ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [July 19, 2012, 3:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/showing-interest-without-being-creepy/56193/2 "2012-07-19T15:50:31Z")
Its about balancing oneself and finding the formula that correctly fits the moment. I get this from a lot of guys often asking for my advice. You’re in very good company. You cannot attempt to fit women into pretty little boxes with ribbons. I did that once but I broke her in half to make her fit!🙄 To many guys are trying to be everything all this advice tells them to be. You just need to take the best of everything that fits who you already are and then use it in the proper situation. Getting drunk evry once in a while with friends is a fun and healthy experience. That doesn’t mean you get drunk at your best friends mothers funeral though. Find what works for you without changing your core principles. Know what you want and go after it. Use those things that are appropriate at the moment. If you meet a girl who doesn’t like kino, it might surprise you but adjust and don’t be touchy feely. That’s not me anyway. Do you! ---
**Author:** ![dsouza](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dsouza/32/840_2.png) [@dsouza](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dsouza)\ **Post date:** [July 21, 2012, 5:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/showing-interest-without-being-creepy/56193/3 "2012-07-21T05:52:37Z")
I find the only time I can be ASSERTIVE with women is if I’m wearing a314. Without wearing it and being assertive I come across as needy. I find the only time I can ignore women and not come across as distant is if I wear summer ammo. Without wearing it and ignoring women I come across as distant. Ammo summer for younger girls who like to chase men and men not to act needy. A314 when you want to project status and take the lead. I have a surprising high rate of failure with seducing women over email conversation.. probably because the lack of mones. In person my chances of seducing increase the more I IGNORE a woman. Unless they respond to a314 in which case I can be more of a leader and still not come across as needy. I find only 2 mones on androtics have been worth my time.. [Summer Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) and a314. It used to be IS, reg Ammo and A314 but that has changed. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [July 21, 2012, 10:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/showing-interest-without-being-creepy/56193/4 "2012-07-21T22:17:51Z")
> [@](#): > > have a surprising high rate of failure with seducing women over email conversation.. Thats not surprising I think that would be true of most people and if they tell you different they are blowing smoke. True Seduction requires an appeal to all the senses. You cant do that in an email or in any venue online really. The phone is slightly better because it engages one more sense, hearing, but still not a productive environment to seduce. Online you can create interest but seduction by its nature needs to be done in the presence of the person your trying to seduce. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![JohnM](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/848f3c/32.png) [@JohnM](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JohnM)\ **Post date:** [August 4, 2012, 3:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/showing-interest-without-being-creepy/56193/5 "2012-08-04T03:58:38Z")
> [@](#): > > If a woman is responding to your emails , telephone calls etc and she is younger and eventually she gets the feeling your a creep because you think its ok as she’s responding quickly what chances do you have to salvage things? If you show interest via email but not ask her out to go on a date with you, you are acting needy. > [@](#): > > Some people recommend kino. I’ve found some women HATE kino and don’t like touchy feely men but more chilled out guys. If you touch a woman while you are anxious most of the time the woman won’t enjoy it. If you are completely relaxed and feeling great while the woman is feeling a bit worse touching her might be a lot more welcome. Being creepy is not primarily about what you do to a girl but about which state you have while you do it.