# Sincerely Seeking Guidance In The World Of Pheromones **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 17, 2011, 10:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sincerely-seeking-guidance-in-the-world-of-pheromones/50358 "2011-05-17T22:42:10Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![BlackOrchid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e47c2d/32.png) [@BlackOrchid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BlackOrchid)\ **Post date:** [May 17, 2011, 10:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sincerely-seeking-guidance-in-the-world-of-pheromones/50358/1 "2011-05-17T22:42:10Z")
Hello everyone. I have decide to come and visit this site in hopes of finding help in perfecting my social and personal life. I am single black male who lives alone in New Jersey, but I visit and work in New York & Philly. I am a very social person, I love meeting and greeting people. So starting a convosation is never a problem for me. As well I am a gemini so I do have two personas. What I call my good boy/bad boy zones. Also I am about 5’11 and weight about 280lbs. so I am overweight, but still very attractive. What I am looking for is something to help me attract females during social events and while out clubbing. I work in the fashion industry so I am always around a lot of women but I want something that will make a woman take a second look when I walk past them as far as the work place is concerned. As well I need something to sexually attract women to while dating or out in a club. I the type of guy that women always look at me as if i’m there brother, but what i want is for women to look at me like sexy chocolate stripper(lol)… if that can be achieved. As well I have never been married and have no children. And I have always been known as a leader and not a followers But yeah I want the stripper man effect on women when they see rather then the boy next store/ brother/ best friend type. Because that always leaves me sleeping alone at night. So yeah please help me out. I am very attractive, open minded, talkative, vibrant type of guy. Who always gets the party start but always the one left going home alone. And I do wanna attract women between 25 and 35. thanks Ohh and yes I would like to request a free gift certificate too, that would be great in helping towards getting what I need. Thanks again ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [May 17, 2011, 11:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sincerely-seeking-guidance-in-the-world-of-pheromones/50358/2 "2011-05-17T23:02:34Z")
Hey there Blackorchid… Thanks for sharing your interest in mones and sharpening up your game… Stripper man effect… I like that descriptor…🙂 Well, I’d say give AMMO, TUTH and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) a try. The AMMO can be used to project more of a sexy man vibe while TUTH is more of a sexually explicit mone…😃 The TUTH can fit in very well in a club setting. Instant Shine is my smile in a bottle… get others relaxed and comfortable around you. Either of the Sexy/sexual mones with Instant Shine can be deadly attractive… IJ could get you the Bad Boy signal… you could work with that as well… GC, I got mine in about 4 days, as the admins will come around in a day or 2. It took me that long because I posted on a friday and AD isn’t ‘open’ on the weekends. Cheers and welcome to our ‘little’ mone forum! 🙂 . ---
**Author:** ![ClintX2](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/9e8a1a/32.png) [@ClintX2](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ClintX2)\ **Post date:** [May 18, 2011, 3:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sincerely-seeking-guidance-in-the-world-of-pheromones/50358/3 "2011-05-18T03:05:35Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk BlackOrchid! , I would suggest **Ammo** (this helps to attract the ladies) and **[Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/)** (this helps to form a bond/connection with the people you talk to. It also helps them to trust you more.) From your description it seems like you come in contact with a lot of ladies. You should consider keeping a journal here. I think that a lot of people would read it(I know I would 🙂) and it will also help you to find out what works best for you. I’m curious, how did you find out about this site? ---
**Author:** ![paradox1](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/paradox1/32/1196_2.png) [@paradox1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/paradox1)\ **Post date:** [May 18, 2011, 11:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sincerely-seeking-guidance-in-the-world-of-pheromones/50358/4 "2011-05-18T11:12:32Z")
> [@BlackOrchid](#): > > As well I am a gemini so I do have two personas. What I call my good boy/bad boy zones. Also I am about 5’11 and weight about 280lbs. so I am overweight, but still very attractive. Hi BlackOrchid, Interesting situation here. If you want to portray yourself as a badboy, I would recommend instant jerk. Also, a little instant shine goes a long way. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [May 19, 2011, 10:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sincerely-seeking-guidance-in-the-world-of-pheromones/50358/5 "2011-05-19T22:26:01Z")
Welcome to pherotalk BlackOrchard! What you do makes an excellent testing ground for [pheromones](https://a314.com/). I can’t wait to read your reports when you start your testing. Have fun in your adventures. **Your gc was issued! 😉**