As the pulchritudinous Miss Dragon said, Ammo is a good bet paired with Instant Openness or Instant Shine (I’d get both and see which you prefer, IO I’ve found good if I really want to effect others but IS gives me a good self-effect too and lately I’ve been using both together).
I also like to suggest new folks go read An Introduction to Mones; Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Length of and being a skeptic I’d suggest you read What pheromones can do and what they cant Updated it will help eliminate some of the fantastical claims you may have heard and give you a more realistic idea of what to expect which should help move you towards curious believer and away from cautious skeptic.