# Skeptical, but curious **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [July 7, 2010, 12:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/skeptical-but-curious/39861 "2010-07-07T12:52:05Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![booyah](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ed8c4c/32.png) [@booyah](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/booyah)\ **Post date:** [July 7, 2010, 12:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/skeptical-but-curious/39861/1 "2010-07-07T12:52:05Z")
hello ppl, the title says it all in a nutshell. Not a firm believer in [pheromones](https://a314.com/), but then again, I have NO experience. As of right now, not sure what to believe. I am open-minded to find out more. I would like to experiment with pheros to see if they can make a difference in my sex life. I’m married. 3 yrs. My wife is sweet, fun to hang out with and drop dead beautiful. The prob is, she doesnt respond to anything I do to get her turned on in bed. I am a good provider. I operate my own successful business. I am a good looking guy, and generally women are attracted to me. I’ve tried massage, candles, soft music, bubble baths, porn…nuthin gets her motor started. After 3 yrs of marriage, our only prob is infrequent sex. It would be interesting to see if pheros can make a diff for us. I will def re-post after I have experimented, and let u know my findings. -got my fingers crossed. ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [July 7, 2010, 12:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/skeptical-but-curious/39861/2 "2010-07-07T12:57:18Z")
Hi there, Welcome to the forum. Try IH and TUTH. IH can help to make her closer to you. She will talk more personal and in greater bonding. This can help to enhance relationship. TUTH can help to sexually arouse her. Hope it can help you to spice up the sex life. Good luck ---
**Author:** ![Katalyst](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/katalyst/32/1415_2.png) [@Katalyst](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Katalyst)\ **Post date:** [July 7, 2010, 1:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/skeptical-but-curious/39861/3 "2010-07-07T13:04:51Z")
Hey booyah welcome to pherotalk! Many people, as well as myself were skeptical upon doing their introduction posts and thats natural 😉 dont worry. By introducing yourself you will get qualified for a 25 dollar gift certificate where you can try out a couple to gos and maybe pay a few bucks for shipping. You really cant beat an offer like that, and AD does this because they know you will be back for more products! In your current situation, there may be other factors going on and the connection may not be as strong as it used to be, so i suggest some IH to strengthen the bond. THis helps to enhance trust and feelings of closeness which is often times what women need to feel in order to take things to the next level. Also, you can try ammo which is an all around attractant scented at cologne strength, or TUTH which is strictly for taking things to the next level. ITs best to apply this mone when you know that you are trying to intiate things like during a massage. This mone is strong so less is more, 1 spray is usually plenty to start with and gauge reactions. Just dont overdo it as you can get adverse reactions of agitation and it may make you feel a bit more aggressive. These are the two that are intended to spice things up in that part of your relationship. You may also consider whether or not she has had any changes in life recently, whether it be now shes on birth control, or if she has added responsibilities, or whatever it may be you should communicate that while wearing IH, since this may help to open things up and find out exactly what is going on. This mone is harder to OD on since it is a social mone but start out with 1 spray, then try 2 , etc till you find the best results. i find that 2-3 sprays is my optimal range. If tiredness is a problem i find that instant shine works great and my gf seems to associate the feeling of happiness and uplifted mood when around me when im wearing it. IT also gives me a slight confidence boost which is nice in itself if you are trying new ways to initiate. Hope this gives you a little direction and dont hesitate to ask any further questions ! ---
**Author:** ![jessejester](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jessejester/32/1683_2.png) [@jessejester](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jessejester)\ **Post date:** [July 7, 2010, 10:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/skeptical-but-curious/39861/4 "2010-07-07T22:43:02Z")
Hello booyah, Welcome to the forum. It seems you have already received some great advice so I am just going to throw a few things out there. I agree with the suggestions made by the 2 before me. I feel they are your best bet to accomplish your goal. Here is a thread taht may help you. [Married Guys Looking to Help Life at Home](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/married-guys-looking-to-help-life-at-home/13695) ( [1](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/married-guys-looking-to-help-life-at-home/13695) [2](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/married-guys-looking-to-help-life-at-home/13695) [3](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/married-guys-looking-to-help-life-at-home/13695) … [Last Page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/married-guys-looking-to-help-life-at-home/13695)) Also here are a few threads that will help explain some stuff. Alot of your initial questions will be answered in these threads. [Pheromone FAQs](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheromone-f-a-qs/11517) [The Snook’s big book o’ pheros for rookies](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-snooks-big-book-o-pheros-for-rookies/5879) ( [1](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-snooks-big-book-o-pheros-for-rookies/5879)[2](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-snooks-big-book-o-pheros-for-rookies/5879)[3](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-snooks-big-book-o-pheros-for-rookies/5879) … [Last Page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-snooks-big-book-o-pheros-for-rookies/5879)) **Basic Noob Phero Bootcamp** ([Basic Noob Phero Bootcamp](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/basic-noob-phero-bootcamp/2159)) ( [1](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/basic-noob-phero-bootcamp/2159)[2](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/basic-noob-phero-bootcamp/2159)[3](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/basic-noob-phero-bootcamp/2159) … [Last Page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/basic-noob-phero-bootcamp/2159)) Good luck, and please let us know what you decide. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [July 8, 2010, 9:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/skeptical-but-curious/39861/5 "2010-07-08T21:41:04Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Booyah! I am glad you came here and I am hoping we have the advice and the products needed to turn this situation around. The reason I say this is not because am not confident in our products as they are top notch. The reason I say this is because there could be a number of reasons why she doesn’t jump all over you even if it’s twice a week. My first question is what is your wife’s personality and what is yours? Women no matter how aggressive or alpha they tend to be (some of us) always wants a guy they know who can hold us down and just give it to us in the bedroom. We want a nice guy but a guy we know we can’t play with or twist around our finger. That is a turn on and always will be. A change of scenery could assist and if there are any issues with you in terms of unresolved , it could be from when you first got married that could be something to consider. We women are very emotional and if you say something mean to us you can forget about jumping in bed in a day or two until you more than made up for that. My second question would be , was it like this when you guys were dating and just got worse or are you now feeling the strain because it’s been 3 yrs. Some women are not that sexual and will need to get in touch with their sexual side before you can deep into that well of constant sexual goodness. I will include this link I think is great for you to read. > [@Married Guys Looking to Help Life at Home](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/married-guys-looking-to-help-life-at-home/13695): > > Myself: Mid-40’s, athletic, married for 20+ years. This post is actually a combination of posts I have made in the Introductions section. It is designed for married guys looking to use the [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/) here to help things at home. I use pheromones for several purposes - work, social and to enhance life at home. I use multiple approaches especially for home: First - at this point in our lives we know sexual attraction is not the final answer. So my first recommendation is actually what … Instant honesty and CTTM 2 are products that enhances intimacy and will have your lady feeling closer to you and that is very important. Turn up the heat is great for giving out that raw sexual signal and many have reported ladies jumping them while wearing it but take into consideration what type of person your wife is and might want to use [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) instead. What you need is the right combination and some advice from the man himself Steve O. I hope everything works out. Your gc is on it’s way