# Skeptical but somewhat conviced New user **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 18, 2009, 6:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/skeptical-but-somewhat-conviced-new-user/34180 "2009-11-18T06:27:02Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![starmena](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/4bbf92/32.png) [@starmena](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/starmena)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2009, 6:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/skeptical-but-somewhat-conviced-new-user/34180/1 "2009-11-18T06:27:02Z")
Hello, So hopefully I’m doing this right. I’m 20 years old as of age of posting. I live in Reading, PA (USA) and am a Male. I’m close to purchasing Turn Up The Heat but still trying to decide between [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) and Instant Openness. I’m looking for one that has a great smell. So which of those 2 do you think smells really good. I know i’m buying TUTH but not sure about the other two. Reason being that IG sounds more for like a Profesional environment and IO should help break the ice with my shyness but I also want a product that smells good. ---
**Author:** ![AlexanderG](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/alexanderg/32/891_2.png) [@AlexanderG](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AlexanderG)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2009, 7:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/skeptical-but-somewhat-conviced-new-user/34180/2 "2009-11-18T07:10:20Z")
Welcome starmena, My fav is instant gentleman, I use it every day at work - works a treat. I also have instant openness which I combine with instant honesty when I really want someone to open up to me and build a good relationship outside of work. Turn up the heat is a great product. Most experience with [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) first as tuth is for the advanced stages of dating. I suggest you search the forum more and read up about its strength. Once again welcome, do let us know how you go. One of the guys should be online again soon to hand out gift certificates 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![dude](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dude/32/2011_2.png) [@dude](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dude)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2009, 7:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/skeptical-but-somewhat-conviced-new-user/34180/3 "2009-11-18T07:33:35Z")
I’m sceptical myself and still working out whether it works. Androstenone shows signs of respect from others so I’ll recommend Ammo. Ammo currently is scented with a nice new cologne. ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2009, 10:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/skeptical-but-somewhat-conviced-new-user/34180/4 "2009-11-18T10:06:46Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum. IF you tell us a little more about your personality and what you want to do with the pheros we will be able to help a little better with recommendations plus you can get a GC to use towards this purchase. Both IG and IO smell the same. They have a light neroli (orange) scent that fades very quickly once it dries down. YOu may be aware of it because it is new but trust me - most people will not even smell it. However it will be there, diffusing and working. As far as which proudcts to get, it all depends onwhat you want to do. IG would be great for a professional environment as you have ascertained. It is also good for general social situations. It will give you a smooth, cool vibe. If you need more of an authoritative vibe for work you may want to think about A314. There is a thread in my signature block that compares the two. Give it a read and see what you think. TUTH can be a little tricky. It is straight none and is NOT suitable for work or general social environments. It has a very sexual vibe. You need to be a little careful with this one as an OD will probably chase girls away and possibily provoke some type of aggressive behavior (verbal or physical) from certain guys. So start your testing a 1 spray and move up. Even for clubbing I would recommend tempering it with IO or IShine. It will still be sexual but a little friendlier. Which is good when trying to meet girls. IO as you have also figured out is great to help with initial conversations. I say help because you will have to “man up” and still initiate the conversations. But the IO will help you keep them moving along. I use this product sparingly as for me it helps move the conversations along too well … lol. All the chatter around me drives me crazy sometimes … lol Good luck and let us know what you decide to do. ---
**Author:** ![starmena](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/4bbf92/32.png) [@starmena](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/starmena)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2009, 6:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/skeptical-but-somewhat-conviced-new-user/34180/5 "2009-11-18T18:30:32Z")
Well that answers my question. I’m an IT guy so I usually work in various locations where professionalism is definitely a Plus. When not at work I’m usually very easy to get a long with and can initiate conversation with no problem (depending on the personality on the other person). However keeping the conversation going is where the problem arises and at times i even have trouble starting a conversation right away and may take me a few moments. I can be the center of attention depending on what type of mood I’m in and what type of people are around. Now because of that I usually just give off a very friendly vibe but no sexual attraction although I’m considered very good looking most of the time. Also making a move I seem to have problems with So with everything that has been said I’ve decided to buy a bottle of TUTH and testers of IG IO IH. Depending on how it goes I’ll later decide if I should buy the whole bottle and which one’s I prefer. Now another question: can I wear this with other colognes without it affecting these colognes? ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2009, 7:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/skeptical-but-somewhat-conviced-new-user/34180/6 "2009-11-18T19:59:43Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course Steve is available to answer any question you might have regarding mones. Please call our hot-line and select extension one and Steve will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.