# snoopy's mix plus p96: a comprehensive multi-night report **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [October 2, 2010, 8:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/snoopys-mix-plus-p96-a-comprehensive-multi-night-report/42265 "2010-10-02T20:56:29Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 7
**Author:** ![jayarea](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/48db29/32.png) [@jayarea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jayarea)\ **Post date:** [October 4, 2010, 7:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/snoopys-mix-plus-p96-a-comprehensive-multi-night-report/42265/7 "2010-10-04T07:18:44Z")
thanks for all the kind words everyone. **first, a call to readers** i’ll keep this short and sweet: A is unlike any other girl i’ve talked to. she’s promiscuous and plays the “not sexually active” card (which is also the truth) to jump between guys. with permission and guidance from jfg, i will keep talking to her; my only requirement is to keep her updated on what’s going on between us. i will also keep you guys updated and hopefully, any experienced readers will let me know when to fold 'em or how to prevent possible mistakes. if you do participate, consider this a thanks in advance if i’m not able to get to all feedback. now, the good stuff… **third consecutive night together, second consecutive night sleeping together** we had planned on friday night to get together saturday night (last night) to make up for going out so late and seeing that everything was closed. well, our plans didn’t finalize on saturday night until late (but earlier than friday night) so i figured it was going to be a quick visit to the bars and then back to my place for the majority of the action. **mix for saturday night** 1s sm split hands 1s p96 25mcg neck 2s cttm neck what changed? well, in my rush to get out the door, i forgot a314. :o also, i subbed cttm for ih. i pick her up and immediately she says that’s she’s ready to drink. she had a long day of getting work done and what not. i took this as “i want to get drunk and see what happens between us.” as crude as that sounds, it turns out i was correct. first stop was the same first stop as friday night, the strip of bars. we got there in time for everything to be open, but we also got there in time for really long lines. we picked the shortest line to wait in. while walking to the line and around the strip of bars, she bumped into me multiple times. as there were lots of people out, at one point i held her by her lower back and pulled her close. she had one hand clutching her purse and the other wrapped in front of her (it was a bit chilly) so all she could do was lean into me as we walked - not terribly good body language, but close enough. at one point while waiting in line, she wrapped her arms around herself and did the “shivering” thing. at first i was going to offer her my jacket and then i thought 🙄 well duh, so i wrapped my arms around her shoulders and asked if that was warmer. she said yes and we stood like that for a while. the bar was boring and hot, the drink was weak, but luckily we found a cool and quiet area to chat while we basically drank water. two things i noticed during this time: first was somewhat random chatter. i think cttm was at work. it wasn’t as sexually charged as it usually is, just more random. second thing i noticed was that at times, i didn’t look her in the eyes. missing that a314 was a poor oversight on my part. especially when talking to someone like A, i feel it helps me stay composed and focused. i still don’t know what p90 does but i like using the p90e over the sbe. after our drink we decided to go. the lines were still packed so we checked out the attached strip mall and did some more window shopping. eventually we were both sober, kinda cold, and bored, so the mutual attitude was “let’s go home and drink a lot.” i joked that i was going to drink more than her and she said “well, if you do, then you won’t be able to drive me back” - again, her way of seeking confirmation about sleeping over. the drive is no more than 10 minutes; i like to take a few long routes and stretch it out to 20 minutes. the conversation at this point was more ih-focused in that we were talking about desires, goals, dreams, future stuff. surprisingly, still nothing terribly sexual. i figured either the mix was busted or we somehow got past the “talk about sexual stuff” phase. when we got home, she went to freshen up and i chose to do the same. i scrubbed hard at my hands to get the residual sm off. on the drive home, i thought about it and realized that sm on my hands, and then keeping my hands in my pockets due to it being cold, and other rubbing of my hands, probably was not beneficial to anything. i wanted to start with a clean slate, moreso because i was on home turf now. **mix update** residual p96 25mcg residual 2s cttm NEW: 1s sm split forearms NEW: 1s ishine split forearms i had taken off my jacket and kept my short sleeved shirt on. forearms was a wise choice because it’s less prone to rubbing. also, it’s common among my friends to always “cheers” before drinking anything. A requested shots as our drink of the night so i anticipated lots of “cheers”-ing, thus lots of forearms near her face. i also threw on a shot of ishine just for scent cover. cologne or akuto/game would’ve been too obvious. i rejoined her in the kitchen to begin our drinking. i won’t bore you with details about it but the main thing we did while drinking was ask each other questions, no holds barred. this was like the power of ih exponentially increased. with every drink, our questions became deeper and our answers became more storied. i felt like i learned a lot about her during this time, and i gave her some info about me as well. the spark to start off the next round of hits came from a phone call she got. one of her guy friends met one of her girl friends, they found it surprising their common friend was A, and they drunk dialed her. A was in a happy drunk state and her conversation (broadcast on speaker phone for my listening pleasure) was spiced with laughter and giggly moments. it didn’t help that i kept lightly brushing her side and thigh - most of it was to keep her laughing and feeling good, some of it was to set the mood for later. she ends the call and we decide to go to bed. hit #1: the first night she stayed over, i gave her a pair of my gym shorts and a shirt to wear so she didn’t have to sleep in her jeans and top. last night, on the way to my room she mentioned something about forgetting her sleep shorts, “that didn’t have as much material as gym shorts.” i took the hint and offered her a pair of my boxers. **editor’s note:** apparently, girls wearing guys’ boxers is very common. sarah did it, but i thought it was just her. now A does it. i asked some of my other girl friends and they all said gym shorts are nice if [a girl] randomly decides to crash with you, but if sleeping together is somewhat relatively planned, boxer briefs are a better choice because they’re not as thick as gym shorts, and if intimacy is planned, they cover less and are more playful. you learn something new every day. hit #1 continued: she takes my boxers and changes in the bathroom. i have a dimmer switch on my light and the light was turned down to not be so bright to our tipsy eyes. i passed by her briefly as she exited, then i went to grab water for the morning. when i came back, she was already under the covers. the hit here, which i realized later, is that she turned down the shirt i offered (same one she wore the first night) in favor of keeping her going-out top on. it was a medium cut top, nothing too sexual, but lighter than a shirt and as you’ll read later, much easier to take off. i was too busy thinking about the boxer hit that i forgot about her top, until it came in handy later on. hit #2: touching and cuddling, initiated by her. the touching wasn’t sexual at all - it was just on my chest - but to have it be initiated by her is quite the accomplishment. also, as soon as i got into bed, she curled up next to me and also draped her leg over mine when she faced me. both big steps forward. we roll around a little bit and spend some time cuddling and pushing each other around. one important hit on my end is that when we cuddled in preparation for sleep, i put one arm under her head and my other hand on her side, whereas it used to just rest freely by me. she didn’t mind. again, big steps forward. hit #3: i had a whiskey and coke at the first bar earlier in the night and i’m pretty sensitive to caffeine so i was feeling relatively awake and happy, and she was feeling slightly tired and happy. thus, she rested and i turned my fidgeting into a light massage on the same side of her back as my free hand, pillow talking the whole time. for reference, i was propped up on my left side and she was tucked into me also on her left side. gradually she rolled over onto her back **but kept her head facing away, thus exposing her neck**. i could hear her breathing slow so the first time my lips touched anywhere on her body was me kissing her forehead/hair to send her off into sleep. she purred a little bit and dozed off. since she was on her back, i rested my hand on the side of her stomach furthest from me (underneath her top, so touching bare skin), essentially pulling her in. a few times, i traced the top elastic band of her boxer shorts and up to her diaphragm area. i felt a hint of her bra but didn’t go any further. she woke from her slumber and kept her head facing away from me as she spoke softly. i leaned in close to her head to hear what she was saying and i also leaned in to whisper in her ear as i didn’t want to talk too loud and ruin the soft moment. by extension, with her neck exposed and me leaning in so close, i was practically kissing her, so i removed all doubt and started kissing her neck. she responded _very_ well to this by snuggling in very tight and using her leg to caress mine. my hand that was tracing her shorts went into more of a holding position when i rested it on her thigh. she ran her hands all over my arms. by luck i found her earlobe (hey, in my defense, it’s been a while since i went looking for one) and started kissing and nibbling it. this shot her into overdrive as she kept grinding back into me and squeezing my arms. i shifted my kisses a few inches right to her cheek, and she responded by turning her head slightly in my direction. i shift again to just to the side of her mouth and she turns her head again in my direction, practically facing me now. this leads to… hit #4: a full kiss on the lips. the first one was a complete shot in the dark. i thought to myself “well, she’s turning her head in my direction. i’ll just do it. if she likes it, we’ll continue. if she doesn’t, i’m sure she’ll turn her head the other way and i’ll go back to kissing her neck or something.” she liked it. the second kiss was a real one and was met with an open mouth. the third and beyond were met with tongue. we go at this for a while. if i remember correctly, **she was literally bucking her hips up and down while my hand was near the top of her shorts, _but i wasn’t going to push it._** i needed one last bit of confirmation on her part to proceed, any bit of confirmation, and it never came at any point in the night, so i didn’t touch her sexually (open to interpretation). at least i knew my kissing was making her feel good. after we stopped kissing we both kinda fell asleep. when she was on her side, my hand was on her side. when she was on her back, it rested on her stomach. when she was on her stomach, it rested on her butt; that’s why i said above that me not touching her sexually was open to interpretation. i was waiting for the confirmation to proceed that never came, and in the meantime, i just couldn’t resist going with the flow. resting my hand on her butt, giving it a light squeeze each time she wiggled into me or brushed my leg, it just felt right. she didn’t mind. in some cases, when a person drinks and then lies horizontally too quickly, the alcohol effect is increased. this what happened to A and i’m fairly certain it was the only reason we stopped kissing. she drifted off into sleep, yes, but it wasn’t as peaceful as before. eventually she awoke and said she needed some fresh air. i offered to open my window and she said “no, let’s go outside.” it was late at night and chilly and i thought she was crazy, but she said a quick walk around would help her feel better. i gathered up some jackets and shoes and off we went. hit #5: our planned walk was just around my neighborhood. as we left my house, she tucked her arm into mine and we walked like that for a while. there’s a part of the sidewalk in front of my house where it curves to match the curve of the grass, i guess to make it look cool. she didn’t see this curve and accidentally stepped into the wet grass. immediately she stepped back into me and said she got scared by that. being the altruistic guy that i am, i unlinked our arms and motioned for her hand. she thought i wanted to fix her jacket sleeve or something so she held up her hand. i grabbed it and lowered it down to our sides while lacing our fingers together. this time, she took the hint and clasped my hand. it was awkward, but it worked. we finished our walk hand in hand and softly talking. one thing i noticed was that we did a very “couple”-y thing where when i would make fun of her, she would walk a few steps away from me (while still holding hands) and then i would pull her back in and give her a hug. it was a total change in our behavior; we went from flirting to like we had been dating for a while. we head back to bed and resume talking. the fresh air and walk woke her up a bit and now she was more talkative. i was still just as fidgety as before and continued massaging her. one thing leads to another and she begins to ask for a full, real massage. my response to her was always “let’s get rid of this shirt [you’re wearing].” i wanted her to take it off herself but she said she was too comfortable to sit up and take it off. i also threw in some comments about how if she could get her top off, i would get her bra off and it would be a much nicer massage than me massaging over a shirt and bra. we compromised by her saying i should help her take it off. as she laid on her back and extended her arms, i peeled the shirt off her. it came off easily - perhaps her keeping it on when getting into bed was foreshadowing? hit #6: she rolls over and i unhook her bra. i caught her completely off guard when i reached into my nightstand and pulled out some massage oil. then i let my hands do the talking and she blasted off into cloud nine with moans, purrs, and all over relaxation. i’m not “skilled” at massages; rather, i mimicked what massage therapists do to me during sports massages. it seemed to work out well. i spent a good 20 minutes on her, if for nothing else, a blatant excuse to touch her naked soft skin. i ended with a kiss on the back of her neck. she asked me to rehook her bra. i joked and said my knowledge of bras only works one way, and that as i went to wash my hands, she could deal with it herself. i was secretly hoping she would think “it’s already unhooked and partially off, i’ll just take it off.” not the case. ☹ when i came back to bed it was snugly on. good news is that her top remained off. this allowed for much skin on skin contact throughout the night. hit #7: we go back to me whispering in her ear and again she turns her head to face me. i’m not kissing this time, i just kinda nuzzle her cheek and neck. i shift so that i end up nuzzling her nose and we’re basically talking into each others’ mouths. after a few seconds of this, i planted another kiss on her. we kissed briefly and then she turned her face away. i’m not entirely sure why she did this. at the time, i thought she was playing hard to get. looking back, maybe she was tired or kissing made her woozy. it was pretty much sleep from here until the morning. hands rested in various places and positions. at one point i gently smacked her butt and she said “who’s knocking on my door?” i didn’t know how to take this. we fell asleep cuddling but woke up separated as we shifted throughout the night to find our own comfortable positions. hit #8: in the morning, as she fixed her hair in front of the mirror, i stood behind her and massaged her shoulders. then she fumbled with the cap to the mouthwash and looked at me in the mirror to ask me to open it for her. instead of stepping to the side and grabbing it, i stayed behind her and grabbed it that way with my hands at her waist level. i took a exaggerated effort to open it (poking fun at her) and while she laughed, she leaned back into me and grabbed my wrists. quick breakfast at my place and a somewhat silent drive back to her place. it was our third night out and that takes a toll, plus with the walking and the massaging we didn’t really get much sleep. she stayed in my boxer shorts because she was too tired to fiddle with her jeans, and she walked barefoot up to her apartment while holding her heels. we had the usual kinda-awkward parting of “well that was fun, let’s do it again sometime”, no hug or kiss. **conclusion** that was a night of big steps. holding hands, kissing, touching her naked back, slight gropes. things definitely got much better after i reapplied sm, not just because of the alcohol but because i know the mix is there and accessible rather than being rubbed off on my pants. i think this also signifies a break in p96 testing (for now) as she seems comfortable enough to allow touching and kissing. since we’ve gotten to the point where we sleep together, i want to try other options on my neck: p74, 79, 83, or even sm or another sexual. also, this is a good vouch for p96 being able to escalate things quickly. A has only been exposed to it 3 times, and look how far we are. i’m not sure if a sexual / sm alone would’ve moved this quickly or efficiently. likewise, i’m not sure that p96 by itself makes for attraction. as mentioned in my p96 thread, in my tests i feel that p96 allows for comfort. that factor works in tandem with the sexual angle provided by sm resulting in A feeling comfortable with how much sex is put forth by sm. it’s hard to tell with her since she is not sexually minded yet but i think with someone who is sexually aware, this combo would lead to a rapid escalation of sex - with a similar combo with my ex, it took \< 5 dates / exposures for sex. --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/snoopys-mix-plus-p96-a-comprehensive-multi-night-report/42265)._