# So, I finally got a check card. Need Help! **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [April 8, 2009, 5:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-i-finally-got-a-check-card-need-help/27850 "2009-04-08T17:44:30Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![bakiepwnsyou](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bakiepwnsyou/32/795_2.png) [@bakiepwnsyou](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bakiepwnsyou)\ **Post date:** [April 8, 2009, 5:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-i-finally-got-a-check-card-need-help/27850/1 "2009-04-08T17:44:30Z")
I have been enquireing a lot recently about what Phero’s I should buy. I am looking at Instant Gentlemen, [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), Turn up the Heat… I am going through a rough time at the moment. I had a break up with a girl that I was terribly in love with about a month ago, and I still have yet to be able to live it down. I almost want to assume that I am starting into the cycle of depression. Since then, I have been able to attract females, but non that I want to qualify as anything more then a ONS. I am very much interested in another LTR, but I have kind of lost my touch not to mention my standards have shot up quiet a bit. I want something to help attract a girl of intellect and good looks. Church girl as well. I am very healthy, and I work out often. I want something I can spray on at the gym and get the girls attention in there as well as something I can wear to study group and attract them there as well. I am very sexual, that is why I am thinking about turn up the heat. MOST OF ALL, I want to get rid of this depression crap, the symptoms are coming and I want to stop the cycle. This will be easy once I find another girl to love, but my self worth is empty at the moment. I have never had issues that I would claim with depression, nor do I want to start claiming them now. I know something is wrong with my body, is there a pheromone out there that can help me. I won’t do perscriptions, I am an all natural type. I diet, excersise with complete presiscion. Help! ---
**Author:** ![ElectraComplex](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/electracomplex/32/1257_2.png) [@ElectraComplex](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ElectraComplex)\ **Post date:** [April 8, 2009, 6:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-i-finally-got-a-check-card-need-help/27850/2 "2009-04-08T18:56:23Z")
Probably a good idea to try one of the mood booster or communication pheros. Turn up the heat may be a bit much you might want to go with ammo or A314 for attraction although I do like the descrip of instant gentleman the two A’s consistently get high reviews.I got ammo for my guy and I’m loving it on him so far. Ammo + instant shine seems to be a good combo among the guys.Although you may be on the right track w instant gentleman. Its perfectly natural to get bummed out after a break-up.There are even theories that the human body goes through a sort of withdrawl at the end of a ltr and panic cycle.So try not to sweat it too much. I think your [pheromone](https://a314.com/) choices are on the right track in general. It sounds like you’re looking for a nicer type of girl maybe a bit of instant female magic ,instant openess or instant honesty would be a good idea as it may make a difference in the type of girl that approaches you.Ie. A more reserved or serious kind of girl might be more likely to step up if she’s getting the signal from you that you’re safe and fun to talk to. On the mood side of things instant shine is supposed to help.Your dopamine and seratonin are likely to be low right now so try to get at least your minimum of sleep (ie. whatever level of sleep you need to feel functional and ok.)Eat small meals or snacks throughout the day (helps keep your glucose stable) and grab a few warm showers when you can.The exercise is definately a mood booster. Hang in there! Breakups, well in the long run sometimes you meet someone better for you who you would have never met otherwise. Try not to rush shug give yourself time to play the field and check people out that way you don’t end up with a rebound relationship ill suited for you. ---
**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\ **Post date:** [April 8, 2009, 11:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-i-finally-got-a-check-card-need-help/27850/3 "2009-04-08T23:56:05Z")
I would re-think the TUTH choice. It’s for the getting undressed stage of a “date/relationship”, not for a general attraction. It screams “_I want sex right now_” and at your age, you’re making plenty of ~none. You might want to look into [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) and the socials. ---
**Author:** ![bakiepwnsyou](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bakiepwnsyou/32/795_2.png) [@bakiepwnsyou](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bakiepwnsyou)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2009, 12:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-i-finally-got-a-check-card-need-help/27850/4 "2009-04-09T00:24:39Z")
I went with [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), Instant Openess, Ammo, Instant gentlemen, and Steve through in a bottle of 292 for me. We will see how it goes. ---
**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2009, 12:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-i-finally-got-a-check-card-need-help/27850/5 "2009-04-09T00:26:17Z")
Good selection! The [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) is more suited for someone your age, for general wear.😃 ---
**Author:** ![bakiepwnsyou](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bakiepwnsyou/32/795_2.png) [@bakiepwnsyou](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bakiepwnsyou)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2009, 12:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-i-finally-got-a-check-card-need-help/27850/6 "2009-04-09T00:30:09Z")
Definitely, I would have preferred the instant female magic, but I suppose that is life that they are out of stock. ---
**Author:** ![ElectraComplex](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/electracomplex/32/1257_2.png) [@ElectraComplex](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ElectraComplex)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2009, 2:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-i-finally-got-a-check-card-need-help/27850/7 "2009-04-09T14:44:40Z")
> [@bakiepwnsyou](#): > > Definitely, I would have preferred the instant female magic, but I suppose that is life that they are out of stock. Yeah I’ve been very impatient on the IFM to come back in too there were some of the big bottles in the spray section left for men. You might peep there if you can afford it 🙂 Good choices. I’ve heard some good reviews of 292 as well that’s a pretty lucky gift to get 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![bakiepwnsyou](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bakiepwnsyou/32/795_2.png) [@bakiepwnsyou](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bakiepwnsyou)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2009, 2:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-i-finally-got-a-check-card-need-help/27850/8 "2009-04-09T14:47:02Z")
Unfortunately, they were out of IFM. That was the first question I asked when I got steve on the phone. I had been looking at 292 for a long while, but it was out of stock when I was looking. It was awesome when he said he was going to throw some in. I was very pleased. I can’t wait until tomorrow… I am ready for that package to arrive. 😃