# So I received my Phero's yesterday! **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [February 19, 2009, 7:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-i-received-my-pheros-yesterday/26261 "2009-02-19T07:30:59Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![AshesBlue](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ashesblue/32/895_2.png) [@AshesBlue](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AshesBlue)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2009, 7:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-i-received-my-pheros-yesterday/26261/1 "2009-02-19T07:30:59Z")
Which was great timing since I saw my bf yesterday too. I first put on one spray of instant shine, a few hours before I would see him. I had to take my son to the Dentist. Then a few hours later I put on one more spray of Instant Shine and then one spray of Instant Sexiness A (I might have done two sprays of this on accident though). I sprayed on my wrists and then tried to rub some of that onto my neck. I didnt feel any different and didnt notice anything different from my bf or anyone else. So does this mean I need more or what? The only thing my bf noticed is when he kissed my neck he said, “are you wearing perfume?” lol cuz he could taste it lol. Im really excited about trying everything to see what responses I can get from him. IE how it might affect him sexually, but I know it’s not good to try all the phero’s at once lol. So I started out w/those two basic ones. I have several to-go’s of: all original strengths Instant Shine Instant Sexiness A [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) Instant Honesty TUTH so any suggestions for the weekend would be appreciated. I am not working so I dont really have many people to practice on as far as social/work situations. We have a social thing next weekend but nothing this weekend. tia ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2009, 5:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-i-received-my-pheros-yesterday/26261/2 "2009-02-19T17:26:29Z")
> [@AshesBlue](#): > > I first put on one spray of instant shine, > Then a few hours later I put on one more spray of Instant Shine and then one spray of Instant Sexiness A (I might have done two sprays of this on accident though). > I sprayed on my wrists and then tried to rub some of that onto my neck. I think the reason you didn’t notice anything is that you only did one spray…on our wrist…and then you split that spray between wrists and rubbed some on you neck… 🙂 That’s not a lot. It’s also not the best place for self effects. The best bets for self effect is the chest/cleavage, around the neck and some even spray IS on their face 🙂 Keep trying, with a few more sprays added and in different locations, you’ll soon find your sweet spot 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Sugar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/6a8cbe/32.png) [@Sugar](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sugar)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2009, 6:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-i-received-my-pheros-yesterday/26261/3 "2009-02-19T18:11:15Z")
Xiphoid is right! The best place for self effects (and you will feel them!) is on the chest or right on face! I am tiny (5’ tall) so I get a lot of bang from a good spray to my hair. As far as the dentist goes especially when it is me in the chair I give a spray to the back of my hands and that works great too! Have fun!! ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2009, 6:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-i-received-my-pheros-yesterday/26261/4 "2009-02-19T18:51:38Z")
> [@AshesBlue](#): > > I am not working so I dont really have many people to practice on as far as social/work situations. > We have a social thing next weekend but nothing this weekend. Oh…not true! You don’t need to go work to get good opportunities to try the social (or sexy, but ideally not the sexual) phero’s 😃 - Get on the bus and ride around with it…anywhere, doeesn’t matter, just see what hits you get… - Go park your butt at table in a coffee shop, do some people watching… - Head to a store…bookstore, clothes, whatever…anywhere people are likely to be browsing for a while & not in too much of a rush to chat or follow you around…LOL - Go to an exhibition/museeum…walk around and whatever is on display is always a good excuse to use to strike up a conversation… - If you have kids, take them to a Chucky Cheese or one of those indoor playcentres… Just use your imagination 😉 ---
**Author:** ![AshesBlue](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ashesblue/32/895_2.png) [@AshesBlue](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AshesBlue)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2009, 7:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-i-received-my-pheros-yesterday/26261/5 "2009-02-19T19:45:54Z")
Thanks yall! It’s funny I asked so much about _what_ I needed but not where I should put it or how much! I was hoping to get some directions/suggestions w/my order but they were all togo bottles so there was no info on them. MFG suggested I just a tiny bit of TUTH on my upper lip. So how many sprays of IS and IS/A? two each or three each? ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2009, 7:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-i-received-my-pheros-yesterday/26261/6 "2009-02-19T19:56:47Z")
> [@AshesBlue](#): > > It’s funny I asked so much about _what_ I needed but not where I should put it or how much! > I was hoping to get some directions/suggestions w/my order but they were all togo bottles so there was no info on them. > So how many sprays of IS and IS/A? two each or three each? Well, you tried 1-2 sprays (with a few hours in between) of IS and 1 spray IS/a… Go up a bit in dosage for one or of both? How about one of these ideas; - IS 3 sprays - 1 split between wrists & 2 on cleavage/neck Or - IS/a 3 sprays - 1 split between wrists, 1 on cleavage/neck & 1 to the back of neck Or - 2 sprays IS - both to chest/cleavage - 2 sprays IS/a - to sides of neck or 1 to chest & 1 to back of the neck Just have fun with it, play around with doses, application points and different environments to try it in… As for TUTH… I haven’t tried it myself, but it’s supposed to increase sexual arousal in women, so applying it on your upper lip _I think_ will mainly affect you…but then that might work, he might reeeally like it if you get all excited 🙄 ---
**Author:** ![AshesBlue](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ashesblue/32/895_2.png) [@AshesBlue](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AshesBlue)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2009, 10:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-i-received-my-pheros-yesterday/26261/7 "2009-02-19T22:07:59Z")
Well Tisha and MFG have said that the TUTH on the upper lip can affect men, something about the man’s testosterone increasing when a _woman_ wears it. They dont have this same affect when they themselves wear it though. If it only affected me I wouldnt have gotten it, I dont really need help in that area. haha ---
**Author:** ![cancermoon](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/cancermoon/32/2064_2.png) [@cancermoon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/cancermoon)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2009, 10:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-i-received-my-pheros-yesterday/26261/8 "2009-02-19T22:14:02Z")
> [@AshesBlue](#): > > Well Tisha and MFG have said that the TUTH on the upper lip can affect men, something about the man’s testosterone increasing when a _woman_ wears it. They dont have this same affect when they themselves wear it though. I am curious about TUTH usage as well. I have read different things about it–is it meant for men or women to wear? I have seen recommended several times for a woman to put a drop above her upper lip for _her own self effects_, correct? What does it do for men if they wear it? I’m confused LOL…😕 :o ---
**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2009, 10:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-i-received-my-pheros-yesterday/26261/9 "2009-02-19T22:23:19Z")
> [@cancermoon](#): > > I am curious about TUTH usage as well. I have read different things about it–is it meant for men or women to wear? I have seen recommended several times for a woman to put a drop above her upper lip for _her own self effects_, correct? What does it do for men if they wear it? I’m confused LOL…😕 :o Right TUTH is designed to get you ladies hot, in a nightclub or the bedroom etc. Unfortunately, a lot of guys wear it at work, school etc then complain that it doesn’t work. The theory behind dabbing a little on your top lip is that it hits your nasal passage in a concentrated wallop, you get that naughty feeling and it’s all systems go. Some ofthe ladies rave about it, some, such as Diane or sometimes Lor, have little or no tolerance to androstenone and get irritable and want to punch the first guy they see. Now, someone like me, married guy, mid 30s, two kids, higher libido than wife etc. I have nicknamed it Liquid Viagra for one very ‘apparent’ reason and I will now leave before I embarrass myself further 😉 ---
**Author:** ![AshesBlue](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ashesblue/32/895_2.png) [@AshesBlue](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AshesBlue)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2009, 10:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-i-received-my-pheros-yesterday/26261/10 "2009-02-19T22:25:24Z")
Well I asked several times about it having effects on the MAN when a WOMAN wears it. I would not have bought it if it were only going to have affects on me. That would be totally pointless, and defeating my purpose entirely. Im the one w/the higher sexdrive. ---
**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2009, 10:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-i-received-my-pheros-yesterday/26261/11 "2009-02-19T22:28:18Z")
> [@AshesBlue](#): > > Well I asked several times about it having effects on the MAN when a WOMAN wears it. > I would not have bought it if it were only going to have affects on me. > That would be totally pointless, and defeating my purpose entirely. > Im the one w/the higher sexdrive. Do what I did, get the other half using [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) as well. Let’s just say that things are getting better 😉 ---
**Author:** ![AshesBlue](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ashesblue/32/895_2.png) [@AshesBlue](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AshesBlue)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2009, 10:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-i-received-my-pheros-yesterday/26261/12 "2009-02-19T22:43:22Z")
> [@diamond](#): > > Do what I did, get the other half using pheromones as well. Let’s just say that things are getting better 😉 Maybe later, I just started so Im not going to say anything until I get a feel for them on my own. If I continue to use them, I doubt Ill be able to keep it to myself. I get excited about stuff and the info just pours out of me, at least when it concerns him. ---
**Author:** ![cancermoon](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/cancermoon/32/2064_2.png) [@cancermoon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/cancermoon)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2009, 10:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-i-received-my-pheros-yesterday/26261/13 "2009-02-19T22:43:51Z")
> [@diamond](#): > > Right TUTH is designed to get you ladies hot I see! So wearing it myself wouldn’t do anything for my guy? That’s what I was wanting to know–thanks!! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2009, 10:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-i-received-my-pheros-yesterday/26261/14 "2009-02-19T22:46:04Z")
> [@cancermoon](#): > > I see! So wearing it myself wouldn’t do anything for my guy? That’s what I was wanting to know–thanks!! 😃 Well it doesn’t get me horny, if that’s what you were thinking but the little fella doesn’t want to go to sleep when he smells it 😉 ---
**Author:** ![AshesBlue](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ashesblue/32/895_2.png) [@AshesBlue](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AshesBlue)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2009, 10:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-i-received-my-pheros-yesterday/26261/15 "2009-02-19T22:49:23Z")
> [@cancermoon](#): > > I see! So wearing it myself wouldn’t do anything for my guy? That’s what I was wanting to know–thanks!! 😃 You should look at the thread I started here, > [@Help the boy is passive!](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-the-boy-is-passive/25939): > > I was trying to think of a catchy title, but uhh yeah… Well I am obviously new, you can check out my intro thread here, Im not sure if I expressed myself all that well lol but oh well, theres sure a lot to read anyway. Basically I am in a relationship of 3+, my bf and I have a really good relationship, we’ve had ups and downs, but who hasnt? I love him more than he will ever know. We have a sex life, it’s pretty good but not great. Part of it is I always the have to be the aggressor, and … Tisha says that TUTH w/addition of cops _can_ affect men. I have TUTH but just got it yesterday and havent tried it yet. I ordered EoW on lovescent but havent received it yet. Im going to try TUTH this weekend w/o cops and see what happens. ---
**Author:** ![cancermoon](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/cancermoon/32/2064_2.png) [@cancermoon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/cancermoon)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2009, 11:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-i-received-my-pheros-yesterday/26261/16 "2009-02-19T23:01:56Z")
> [@diamond](#): > > Well it doesn’t get me horny, if that’s what you were thinking but the little fella doesn’t want to go to sleep when he smells it 😉 LOL…that could work! 😉 > [@AshesBlue](#): > > You should look at the thread I started here, > [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-the-boy-is-passive/25939](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-the-boy-is-passive/25939) > > Tisha says that TUTH w/addition of cops _can_ affect men. > I have TUTH but just got it yesterday and havent tried it yet. > I ordered EoW on lovescent but havent received it yet. > Im going to try TUTH this weekend w/o cops and see what happens. Thanks! I’ll check out that thread! I just ordered EoW, too, so maybe if combining the two works out, I’ll have to try it. ---
**Author:** ![AshesBlue](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ashesblue/32/895_2.png) [@AshesBlue](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AshesBlue)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2009, 11:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-i-received-my-pheros-yesterday/26261/17 "2009-02-19T23:05:54Z")
Im trying not to get to excited about it, so it’s hard to remain hopeful but not get my hopes up at the same time lol. How does one do that!?! I sprayed IS on my chest, and wrists to see if I could get some effects from it. So far Im really not sure honestly. I think the smell of it is a bit too strong. I wish it had a lighter scent or at least something that didnt smell like a men’s cologne, bleh. I was glad my bf didnt say I smelled like a dude! ---
**Author:** ![Tigerlilly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tigerlilly/32/2257_2.png) [@Tigerlilly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tigerlilly)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2009, 12:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-i-received-my-pheros-yesterday/26261/18 "2009-02-20T00:03:22Z")
I combined EoW (5 drops split between forearms) and one spray of TUTH to my chest/neck area. The coffee dude messed up my order, then fell all over himself to remake it, twice. He also went from totally disinterested to DIHL, then lusting/sexually flirting/hitting on me. I really think combining them is the female version of [Instant Jerk](https://a314.com/product/instant-jerk/). We seem to be “freshly f’ed” and totally irresistible to men. (maybe not your tg…) I also had a guy get a total hard-on just by being next to me with this. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Tigerlilly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tigerlilly/32/2257_2.png) [@Tigerlilly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tigerlilly)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2009, 12:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-i-received-my-pheros-yesterday/26261/19 "2009-02-20T00:09:14Z")
> [@AshesBlue](#): > > Im trying not to get to excited about it, so it’s hard to remain hopeful but not get my hopes up at the same time lol. > How does one do that!?! > > I sprayed IS on my chest, and wrists to see if I could get some effects from it. > So far Im really not sure honestly. > I think the smell of it is a bit too strong. I wish it had a lighter scent or at least something that didnt smell like a men’s cologne, bleh. > I was glad my bf didnt say I smelled like a dude! DONT try to look too hard for effects. You will ruin them all. 🙂 I put it on, then vibe myself into the mood. I relax into the IS’s (a or b), and ramp up with the Shine. Next time you spray the shine, take a big inhale, then smile, laugh, do something fun/happy right then when you put it on. Keep thinking happy - don’t watch for any sign or signal. A half hour later, you will be happy, upbeat and fun to be around, and not watching for signs - you just will BE the “sign” you are looking for. I’ve found that I can match my body to the pheros and take them into overdrive in concert with how I am acting, or turn their signal off completely. I was wearing (according to Xiphoid 🙂 ) an ungodly amount of EoW for my age in a social setting that turned into an academic one, and was able to “cancel” the EoW effects to others (who had previously been affected that day, that hour), then ramp it back up later that same day, with the same people. Don’t over think it. It’s not a “mind over matter” thing, nor is it a “brain/body/mind control” thing. It just _ **is** _ - the more you can relax into the pheros, the more you will see. ---
**Author:** ![AshesBlue](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ashesblue/32/895_2.png) [@AshesBlue](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AshesBlue)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2009, 12:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-i-received-my-pheros-yesterday/26261/20 "2009-02-20T00:31:33Z")
Ok then, my question is how much of it is a person “faking it till they make it” or smiling or “being” what they think the phero should do vs the phero actually affecting them? Is it more placebo or outlook or the phero actually doing something? Im not saying phero’s dont have an affect, I wanted to see it’s actual affect and not the combo of my acting and the phero enhancing that. I wanted to just be “normal” and then see what happens. So behaving as “normal” wont allow the phero to take full affect? That is kinda a bummer. heh Confusing. I was tryin to balance myself to not focus on every detail of what happened or didnt happen but compare how I am or my bf is normally w/o the phero’s. gauging how our relationship is going and our progress, I dont see that the phero’s had much or any affect. Meaning that our relationship is having progress but because of the fact we have been doing that on our own, w/communicating and such, so nothing happened out of the ordinary that I could contribute to something outside or relationship, ie the phero’s. But there could be several factors for this. So Ill just keep trying and see what happens. I just read so many other people’s “adventures” and what not w/just these amazing results, only to leave me feeling amiss. [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-i-received-my-pheros-yesterday/26261.md?page=2)