# So I'm Just Wondering

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**Category:** Pheromone Theory & Molecules\
**Created:** [July 22, 2009, 11:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-im-just-wondering/30921 "2009-07-22T23:42:47Z")\
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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2009, 6:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-im-just-wondering/30921/5 "2009-07-23T06:09:47Z")

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This has been covered quite a bit and its a good question.

Here is one of the threads

> [@Question about pheros](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/question-about-pheros/20066):
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> I had a question, but I am not sure how to phrase it. Here goes… If you are around other people while using pheros, how do people discern who is actually wearing the pheros? Example if I don’t make sense: A man and his friend walk into a club. Man A is wearing pheros and Man B is not. Some women nearby realize the pheros and approach them both. Will the women be able to tell who is actually wearing the pheros?

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> Pheromones effect the subconscious mind by sending signals about ourselves to others. Its built in for us to be able to pinpoint where that message is coming from. Its part of the neuro sensory processing. Sometimes it happens instantly and sometimes it takes a few minutes but it happens.
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> Our sense of smell works much like our other senses.
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> Suppose you hear a scream, you can automatically pinpoint where it is coming from if the signal keeps coming
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> Suppose you see a flash of light, again if it reoccurs you can pin point where its coming from without giving it much thought.
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> Its something we have been doing since birth and while we dont really consciously think about it we automatically do it.
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> There is one difference with synthetic pheromones though. If your acting totally in congruent to that signal your sending people may not pick up on it. Or the subconscious rules you out as the source of the signal and moves on.
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> Congruency helps for people to pinpoint better.
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> So say your wearing [A314](https://a314.com/product/a314-classic/) which is a Alpha male mix. You need to take the lead like a Alpha would do.
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> Or you wear [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) but look totally unapproachable and unfriendly. It just doesn’t match so they may have the urge to speak to you and be friendly but there other senses like sight kick in and tell them “cant be coming from him he looks mean”
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> Remember its not a conscious thought, you just automatically react.

Sillage is another way people react to mones. This means the “vapor trail” our body scent leaves. You could walk around a room and leave this vapor trail. Suppose you do this in a restaurant then go sit down at a table. People wont assume its a signal coming from another person who is standing in the same vicinity as the scent. While your conscious mind is busy thinking about what your gonna have as a appetizer the subconscious mind is processing all sorts of other things that we never even think about. Like reminding you to breath or making you walk etc etc. It also processes the environment around you. It all happens so very rapidly that it never becomes a conscious thought. You just do it. Same with mones. It never really becomes a conscious thought people just read the signal and narrow done the source.

Tisha

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