# So I've got a pheromone conundrum **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [June 30, 2007, 10:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-ive-got-a-pheromone-conundrum/4404 "2007-06-30T22:59:58Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Nunya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/ac8455/32.png) [@Nunya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nunya)\ **Post date:** [June 30, 2007, 10:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-ive-got-a-pheromone-conundrum/4404/1 "2007-06-30T22:59:58Z")
So I’ve got two different target guys, and we socialize with a bunch of other people on a pretty regular basis. the problem is this - If i wear 60mg of TAL in combination with androstenol and cops, then guy #1 goes all gaga and starry-eyed. But guy #2 treats me like his favorite sister. If i skip TAL and just go with androstenol and cops, guy #2 gets super duper affectionate, and we drop back into a sexual attraction zone. The attraction with guy #1 is still there, but it isn’t that “i’m the queen of his universe” kind of attraction. But i’m the Queen of Guy #2s Universe. add to this that there are several other guys that are really into me when I’m all TAL’d up. Some of there attraction cools down and we don’t have such great conversations when I’m not wearing TAL. However - I talk with other guys, who won’t talk to me when i’m wearign TAL. So since all of these “possibilities” as it were, including my 2 target guys, are in the same area, how do y’all propose that I sort this out? I wanna be the Belle of the Ball with as many of these guys as possible. When I wear 30mgs of TAL, it’s like I’m not wearing any. If i wear 60mg - i go into sister zone with TG#2, QoTU with TG#1. any ideas would be helpful. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [June 30, 2007, 11:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-ive-got-a-pheromone-conundrum/4404/2 "2007-06-30T23:33:10Z")
Oh my that is a conumdrum. Have you ever wore more then 60mg around them to see what happens? I am pretty sure dolly wears more then 60mg without a problem. Maybe that will amp it up enough to grab both there attention at the same time. Or how about adding some TAH to the first mix and seeing if that stirs guy 2. It seems the tah is the culprit and I always use both TAH and TAL at the same time with good results. Its worth a try. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![dolly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dolly/32/1591_2.png) [@dolly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dolly)\ **Post date:** [June 30, 2007, 11:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-ive-got-a-pheromone-conundrum/4404/3 "2007-06-30T23:41:40Z")
Well, if there isn’t one of the guys that you like more than the other, I would go with which combo makes YOU feel better. ---
**Author:** ![Nunya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/ac8455/32.png) [@Nunya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nunya)\ **Post date:** [July 1, 2007, 12:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-ive-got-a-pheromone-conundrum/4404/4 "2007-07-01T00:54:00Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > Oh my that is a conumdrum. > > Have you ever wore more then 60mg around them to see what happens? I am pretty sure dolly wears more then 60mg without a problem. Maybe that will amp it up enough to grab both there attention at the same time. > > Or how about adding some TAH to the first mix and seeing if that stirs guy 2. It seems the tah is the culprit and I always use both TAH and TAL at the same time with good results. Its worth a try. > > Tisha hmmm..i didn’t think of adding TAH to soften things a bit. I have gone up to 80mg, and TG #2 still treats like his favorite sister. I wonder if TAH is mor ehis speed. I’ll have to give that a shot and see what happens. I haven’t been using TAH too much, because I felt like I disappeared wearing it, but I can’t recall ever pairing it with TAL. > [@dolly](#): > > Well, if there isn’t one of the guys that you like more than the other, I would go with which combo makes YOU feel better. well that’s just it i feel good wearing both combinations - I can’t say one does more for me than the other. ---
**Author:** ![Gegogi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gegogi/32/1536_2.png) [@Gegogi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gegogi)\ **Post date:** [July 1, 2007, 3:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-ive-got-a-pheromone-conundrum/4404/5 "2007-07-01T03:10:25Z")
I’ve run up against a similar situation–a particular mix works great for one target but not for the other–and decided to make the hard choice. That is, I’d apply the mix that works best for the individual I like most or I have the most chance of success with. If you can’t choose–you want it all or it’s too early in the game–you should alternate mixes, e.g., please one target on Monday while teasing the other on Tuesday. Hmm, I just realized the posts in the women’s forum tend to be a lot more sophisticated compared to the men’s forum… ---
**Author:** ![jpballerina](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jpballerina/32/1004_2.png) [@jpballerina](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jpballerina)\ **Post date:** [July 1, 2007, 3:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-ive-got-a-pheromone-conundrum/4404/6 "2007-07-01T03:19:03Z")
I would go with Tisha’s recommendation, and if that doesn’t go over well, I’d stick with the TAL, as that seems to get more guy’s attention (which, if I recall correctly, is your goal). Hopefully if enough guys are swooning over you, guy #2 will feel slightly envious and quickly follow suit. 😉 xoxo jp ---
**Author:** ![Nunya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/ac8455/32.png) [@Nunya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nunya)\ **Post date:** [July 1, 2007, 4:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-ive-got-a-pheromone-conundrum/4404/7 "2007-07-01T04:44:42Z")
> [@Gegogi](#): > > I’ve run up against a similar situation–a particular mix works great for one target but not for the other–and decided to make the hard choice. That is, I’d apply the mix that works best for the individual I like most or I have the most chance of success with. If you can’t choose–you want it all or it’s too early in the game–you should alternate mixes, e.g., please one target on Monday while teasing the other on Tuesday. > > Hmm, I just realized the posts in the women’s forum tend to be a lot more sophisticated compared to the men’s forum… haha - perhaps alternating mixes might be the path i wind up on. it is too early in the game. well not really. I like them both equally but for different reasons. I really am having a tough time choosing. 🙄 > [@jpballerina](#): > > I would go with Tisha’s recommendation, and if that doesn’t go over well, I’d stick with the TAL, as that seems to get more guy’s attention (which, if I recall correctly, is your goal). Hopefully if enough guys are swooning over you, guy #2 will feel slightly envious and quickly follow suit. 😉 > > xoxo > jp ha! that’s the thing guy #2 doesn’t swoon. He always takes the attention he needs from me, it’s just the qualities are different. When I’m TAL’d we’ll spend tons of time talking, but i feel like his sister or his non-sexual friend. he’s doting, and actively interested, but he keeps more personal space between us. When I’m not wearing TAL, i get the same emotional attentiveness, but it’s coupled with much more physical attention as well. a lot more hugging, touching, cuddling etc. But TAL doesn’t get me more attention from guys in general. It just gets me attention from a different set of guys than a non-TAL mix does. but I do have to say the TAL group is far more ardent and physically complimentary when under the influence, whilst the non-TAL group style is more chatty, and mentally appreciative, with the exception of TG#2 - he gets ardent if TAL isn’t there. _lol_ i’m gonna have to play with alternating these mixes more. It’s actually pretty fascinating considering the clear delineation that seems to exist, between TAL responders and non-responders. ---
**Author:** ![dolly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dolly/32/1591_2.png) [@dolly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dolly)\ **Post date:** [July 1, 2007, 12:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-ive-got-a-pheromone-conundrum/4404/8 "2007-07-01T12:54:01Z")
I made some posts several months ago regarding this same subject…Tisha linked them in her Women’s Guide…I called it tailoring your usage to your subject’s personality. Some men react to TAL and some to TAH, and in very different ways…one was very aloof and indifferent when I wore TAL, while the other one would just literally swoon over me when I wore it (he is the man I am still with today, as a matter of fact). And the reactions were almost at the opposite end of the spectrum when I wore TAH. ---
**Author:** ![Nunya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/ac8455/32.png) [@Nunya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nunya)\ **Post date:** [July 1, 2007, 1:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-ive-got-a-pheromone-conundrum/4404/9 "2007-07-01T13:31:50Z")
yeah i remember reading those. i’ve got an opportunity to experiment with it now, since i’ve got both types in the same environment. makes it easier to compare and contrast. _lol_ ---
**Author:** ![EnchantedApril](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/enchantedapril/32/2385_2.png) [@EnchantedApril](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/EnchantedApril)\ **Post date:** [July 1, 2007, 5:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-ive-got-a-pheromone-conundrum/4404/10 "2007-07-01T17:36:29Z")
I still like the idea of what makes YOU the happiest when you wear them and go PLAY and have fun. Hmm, and keep the convos shorter anyway so they have to pursue you a little. Fewer hugs. Oyes, or what’s the point. I KNOW you want to ramp it up a bit. If they’re happy with hugs, harumph, how frustrating for you! lol! Are you wearing anything like Instant Shine or Instant Honesty along with them? Or [Turn Up the Heat](https://a314.com/product/turn-up-the-heat-tuth/)? 😃 Enjoy! April ---
**Author:** ![Nunya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/ac8455/32.png) [@Nunya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nunya)\ **Post date:** [July 1, 2007, 6:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-ive-got-a-pheromone-conundrum/4404/11 "2007-07-01T18:07:38Z")
> [@EnchantedApril](#): > > I still like the idea of what makes YOU the happiest when you wear them and go PLAY and have fun. Hmm, and keep the convos shorter anyway so they have to pursue you a little. Fewer hugs. Oyes, or what’s the point. I KNOW you want to ramp it up a bit. If they’re happy with hugs, harumph, how frustrating for you! lol! > > Are you wearing anything like Instant Shine or Instant Honesty along with them? Or Turn Up the Heat? 😃 > > Enjoy! > > April _lol_ my secret to being pursued is not putting out. They’ll have to settle for hugs and chitchat, until such time as I feel I might want to make more personal acquaintance. I were cops and androstenol - sometimes alpha, sometimes beta, sometimes i’ll add a smidge of edge gel. Just a little tho. With this many boys to choose from, anything more than a hint of -none, and i’d be setting myself for too much drama. learned that lesson a few months back. 😮 and really i guess i do tailor for what I’m in the mood for that night. both mixes make me feel good, but it’s always knowing i’ll have to make a trade-off. So I guess - who am i most in the mood to be adored by? this one or that one? i guess not a bad position to be in. But i’m greedy. 😛