# So many questions, so little time... **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [December 19, 2006, 5:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-many-questions-so-little-time/1200 "2006-12-19T05:31:35Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![HotMama](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hotmama/32/1786_2.png) [@HotMama](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HotMama)\ **Post date:** [December 19, 2006, 5:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-many-questions-so-little-time/1200/1 "2006-12-19T05:31:35Z")
Hi Everyone, As I am awaiting my 3 orders (can you tell, a phero addict in the making, without even trying it first…), I just have so many questions.. Could you please help me with any or all 😃 ? 1. Which products do you wear to affect yourself vs. to affect someone else? I’ve been reading a lot on this subject on the forum, but would like to hear an answer directly to that question. In other words, which products you “feel” a reaction to, and which you “observe” a reaction from someone else. 2. Is “[Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) for Men” different than “Instant Shine for Women”? Because I ordered the one for Men, as I read so many great things about it. Please enlighten me more!! 3. Is Spaceland a fun product to use at a party? On a shitty rainy day? What is your experience with it? How much? On myself or sprayed around? Will people feel weird? What kind of weird? Can kids be around it? Can one DRIVE on it (in case someone has to leave)? I am so responsible, aren’t I 😛 ? 4. Can you apply too much TaH? What is the Mcg of TaH that you’ve used with the greatest effect? 5. If I am normally a pretty bitchy person (I can’t help but be honest with what I see, and what I see can be either comical or grim, which pisses people off on both ends of the stick), will a “business” application of anything with TaL make me even more of a bitchy person? I cannot wait to try the products out, and appreciate any insight you guys can have on this!! Thanks, SG ---
**Author:** ![Carrie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/carrie/32/1537_2.png) [@Carrie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Carrie)\ **Post date:** [December 19, 2006, 12:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-many-questions-so-little-time/1200/2 "2006-12-19T12:58:42Z")
To answer #5, I think IH could make me more of a bitchy person, if I’m inclined that way already. It brings whatever’s bugging me to the surface. About #1 … hmm. The more I use them, the more it seems that most of products will affect both the wearer and others exposed, in some way - except for “nonresponders” of course - Ail has described how none of them affect her, generally speaking and cops excepted. I’ve read that some people simply don’t respond to [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), or IFM. Cops affect me, but in a different way than they affect my husband! I feel a tugging in my ovaries and it’s not entirely pleasant - but they get the job done! ---
**Author:** ![HotMama](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hotmama/32/1786_2.png) [@HotMama](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HotMama)\ **Post date:** [December 19, 2006, 4:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-many-questions-so-little-time/1200/3 "2006-12-19T16:57:31Z")
Thanks, Carrie! I appreciate the help from experienced users!! I just spoke with Jasmin on the phone, and what an amazing person she is! So knowledgable and personable, and helpful. I just cannot wait to try all this stuff. I got a lot of my questions answered, but it’s always great to hear from others, too.. SG ---
**Author:** ![dolly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dolly/32/1591_2.png) [@dolly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dolly)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2006, 7:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-many-questions-so-little-time/1200/4 "2006-12-20T19:54:35Z")
> [@supernovagirly](#): > > Hi Everyone, > > As I am awaiting my 3 orders (can you tell, a phero addict in the making, without even trying it first…), I just have so many questions.. Could you please help me with any or all 😃 ? > > 1. Which products do you wear to affect yourself vs. to affect someone else? I’ve been reading a lot on this subject on the forum, but would like to hear an answer directly to that question. In other words, which products you “feel” a reaction to, and which you “observe” a reaction from someone else. > > 2. Is “Instant Shine for Men” different than “Instant Shine for Women”? Because I ordered the one for Men, as I read so many great things about it. Please enlighten me more!! > > 3. Is Spaceland a fun product to use at a party? On a shitty rainy day? What is your experience with it? How much? On myself or sprayed around? Will people feel weird? What kind of weird? Can kids be around it? Can one DRIVE on it (in case someone has to leave)? I am so responsible, aren’t I 😛 ? > > 4. Can you apply too much TaH? What is the Mcg of TaH that you’ve used with the greatest effect? > > 5. If I am normally a pretty bitchy person (I can’t help but be honest with what I see, and what I see can be either comical or grim, which pisses people off on both ends of the stick), will a “business” application of anything with TaL make me even more of a bitchy person? > > I cannot wait to try the products out, and appreciate any insight you guys can have on this!! > > Thanks, > SG Well, maybe I can shed a little light, but obviously only from my own personal experience. Nearly every pheromone combo I wear affects me in some way or another. You will love [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/)…I think that there is only one version of this, and can be used by men or women. If you are having a “down” day, spray some of it on you, and it will give you a little lift. I love it. About TAH/TAL…I wouldn’t describe the TAL reaction as “bitchy”…it is more of a strong, put your foot down type female vibe. TAH is softer, and will soften up an edgy personality…I have never heard of anyone overdosing on TAH…you can practically bathe in the stuff, without worry… Hope I was able to help! ---
**Author:** ![Carrie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/carrie/32/1537_2.png) [@Carrie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Carrie)\ **Post date:** [December 22, 2006, 5:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-many-questions-so-little-time/1200/5 "2006-12-22T17:46:42Z")
Hey, supernovagirly, when you spoke with Jasmin, did you ask your question about [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/)? I think that the men’s and women’s versions of Shine are currently the same formula, but if you found out differently I’d love to hear about it. edit: oops, I see dolly already answered this - good to know, thanks!