# So my mother found my pheromones. **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [August 11, 2010, 11:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-my-mother-found-my-pheromones/40744 "2010-08-11T23:15:38Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![thegentleman](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/thegentleman/32/1770_2.png) [@thegentleman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thegentleman)\ **Post date:** [August 12, 2010, 6:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-my-mother-found-my-pheromones/40744/21 "2010-08-12T06:15:57Z")
> [@cthulhuone](#): > > You grow up Catholic by any chance, gentleman? šŸ˜‰ > > Sounds like the classic reverse-guilt trip only a man growing up under the veil of relentless Catholic guilt would conjure up! lol and just my style, too! > > To take that a step further, you can always do the, ā€œIā€™m just doing what I can to improve my life because thatā€™s all I know how! Why canā€™t you be happy for me?! Itā€™s not like Iā€™m taking DRUGS!ā€ routine! hahaā€¦ I actually didnā€™t only because my 2 catholic parents decided to quit the church. But yeah, everyone in my entire family on both sides, except for me and my siblings grew up in the Church. But, we still had that whole Catholic air around the house with the parents, grand parents etc. Good call LOL ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [August 12, 2010, 8:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-my-mother-found-my-pheromones/40744/22 "2010-08-12T08:10:24Z")
Does she happen to do your laundry for you ? That may be why she was in your draws LOL (no pun intended) OK you need to turn it around on her. Dont yellā€¦ Calmly tell her thatā€¦ You are very disappointed in her and that the only place that she went wrong is in her assumption that you would take advantage of women. Sayā€¦ Your my mother, you should know me better then anyone and it hurts me to think you could believe something so horrible about me simply because I use cologne with a flashy name. Ask her if she wears makeup ? Does she have perfume ? Then point out that you dont think badly of her for trying to improve herself or to appear attractive because you know the person she is. Then tell her your 20 years old and while you respect her home and her you would appreciate some respect and faith in return. Then leave it at that. She may not respond right away but she will start to feel guilty and it will blow over. This to shall pass. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [August 12, 2010, 9:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-my-mother-found-my-pheromones/40744/23 "2010-08-12T09:21:05Z")
> [@RADMAN513](#): > > Tell her itā€™s insurance for if she wants grandkids someday. Brilliant! šŸ˜ƒ šŸ˜ƒ šŸ˜ƒ ---
**Author:** ![Aghor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/aghor/32/1558_2.png) [@Aghor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Aghor)\ **Post date:** [August 12, 2010, 9:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-my-mother-found-my-pheromones/40744/24 "2010-08-12T09:58:45Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > Does she happen to do your laundry for you ? That may be why she was in your draws LOL (no pun intended) > > OK you need to turn it around on her. > > Dont yellā€¦ Calmly tell her thatā€¦ > > You are very disappointed in her and that the only place that she went wrong is in her assumption that you would take advantage of women. > > Sayā€¦ Your my mother, you should know me better then anyone and it hurts me to think you could believe something so horrible about me simply because I use cologne with a flashy name. > > Ask her if she wears makeup ? Does she have perfume ? Then point out that you dont think badly of her for trying to improve herself or to appear attractive because you know the person she is. > > Then tell her your 20 years old and while you respect her home and her you would appreciate some respect and faith in return. > > Then leave it at that. She may not respond right away but she will start to feel guilty and it will blow over. > > This to shall pass. > > Tisha Stick this this story broā€¦ Iā€™m sure this will workā€¦ ---
**Author:** ![PheroJack](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherojack/32/527_2.png) [@PheroJack](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroJack)\ **Post date:** [August 12, 2010, 10:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-my-mother-found-my-pheromones/40744/25 "2010-08-12T10:56:53Z")
Tell her :" Iā€™m going to start working, since money is a problem" trust me, that always work with my family (they are egyptians).. or just come up with anything that your parents ashamed to beā€¦ or ashamed to be the name-off. and tell her last thing :ā€œthose Pheromones are for my job, and not for womenā€ šŸ˜› yeah, this is my best to tell you bro!.. Im kinda right with Tisha, but there is something wrong NEVER TELL YOUR PARENTS OR TALK ABOUT THEIR PAST, YOU ARE JUST TELLING THEM :ā€œ#$%@ OFF MY LIFE!ā€ ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [August 12, 2010, 1:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-my-mother-found-my-pheromones/40744/26 "2010-08-12T13:46:19Z")
> [@PheroJack](#): > > Tell her :" Iā€™m going to start working, since money is a problem" > trust me, that always work with my family (they are egyptians).. What if they donā€™t have money problems?? ---
**Author:** ![fishdude](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/4bbf92/32.png) [@fishdude](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/fishdude)\ **Post date:** [August 12, 2010, 2:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-my-mother-found-my-pheromones/40744/27 "2010-08-12T14:19:22Z")
Yet women wear makeup ---
**Author:** ![Scipio](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/3ec8ea/32.png) [@Scipio](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Scipio)\ **Post date:** [August 12, 2010, 3:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-my-mother-found-my-pheromones/40744/28 "2010-08-12T15:31:41Z")
My parents do alright. They dont really pay for anything aside from me living at home and electric/water. Everything else, my food, car payment, community college, etc etc I pay for. So its not like Iā€™m mooching and wanting to tell my mom to fuck off. But I dont really have a close relationship with my mom, or any of my family as a matter of fact. Iā€™ll just end up explaining if it comes up. From reading what people suggested, I could make my mom feel guilty. That is my normal style anyways since Iā€™m quite a manipulative person. However, a pretty basic thing I could tell her is that Iā€™m testing these pheros to gain some more experience studying human behavior, since it is a psychology related thing. ---
**Author:** ![stealthmones](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f08c70/32.png) [@stealthmones](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/stealthmones)\ **Post date:** [August 12, 2010, 4:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-my-mother-found-my-pheromones/40744/29 "2010-08-12T16:13:48Z")
just tell her the truth. women are all complete lies. they cover their faces up with glitter and soft colors to fool us men into thinking they are something they are not. there is NO difference. Period. Hit her with that and see what she thinks. ---
**Author:** ![SyraBrian](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/5daacb/32.png) [@SyraBrian](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SyraBrian)\ **Post date:** [August 12, 2010, 5:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-my-mother-found-my-pheromones/40744/30 "2010-08-12T17:01:03Z")
Tell her that you totally agree with her and that you were merely trying to take as much as you could off the market and out of the hands of those who would use it for nefarious reasons. Point out all the products you have that are currently ā€œout of stockā€. ---
**Author:** ![M\_M](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9fc29f/32.png) [@M\_M](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/M_M)\ **Post date:** [August 12, 2010, 5:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-my-mother-found-my-pheromones/40744/31 "2010-08-12T17:04:22Z")
> [@Scipio](#): > > However, a pretty basic thing I could tell her is that Iā€™m testing these pheros to gain some more experience studying human behavior, since it is a psychology related thing. On this planet, you have all types of kids ā€¦ Those that respect their parent/parents Those that donā€™t Those that donā€™t know what respect is And those that are just lost **THE LIE RULE** according to the M to the M: One lie leads to another and another and another. That should tell you something about yourself. Annnnnnnnd the more lies you tell ā€¦ the farther from the truth you get. NOT good practice. There are all different attitudes in most of these suggestions ā€¦ the truth is, she shouldnā€™t have peeped, BUT itā€™s her house. šŸ†’ You letting it blow over, and coming up with something thatā€™s respectful and honest to say in case it comes up again ā€¦ IS A GOOD IDEA. I wouldnā€™t look through my kids stuff UNLESS I felt something was seriously wrong or illegal going on. If they were in my house, and disrespected me verbally or physically, youā€™d see me on the evening news getting cuffed, 'cause, depending on how I was feeling at the moment ā€¦ theyā€™d be missing their lips, or theyā€™d be missing a limb. šŸ†’ Still ā€¦ you know how much you can get away with, so ā€¦ ---
**Author:** ![Scipio](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/3ec8ea/32.png) [@Scipio](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Scipio)\ **Post date:** [August 13, 2010, 3:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-my-mother-found-my-pheromones/40744/32 "2010-08-13T03:21:55Z")
I told her the truth pretty much without mentioning a few instances revolving tuth. Just said ā€œyeah, Iā€™m testing these out and noting how body language changes in response to certain pheromonesā€ leads to her asking why, and why was one called turn up the heat. I explained what was in it and it could be used for what she thinks it could do. It ended with ā€œI was bored and have some cash to throw around, so why not?ā€ awkward none the less. ---
**Author:** ![M\_M](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9fc29f/32.png) [@M\_M](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/M_M)\ **Post date:** [August 13, 2010, 4:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-my-mother-found-my-pheromones/40744/33 "2010-08-13T04:17:49Z")
> [@Scipio](#): > > I told her the truth pretty much without mentioning a few instances revolving tuth. > > Just said ā€œyeah, Iā€™m testing these out and noting how body language changes in response to certain pheromonesā€ > > leads to her asking why, and why was one called turn up the heat. I explained what was in it and it could be used for what she thinks it could do. > > It ended with ā€œI was bored and have some cash to throw around, so why not?ā€ > > awkward none the less. Well, I hope she didnā€™t sniff TUTH, and got ā€¦ ah ā€¦ er ā€¦ um ā€¦ a little bothered. šŸ˜® That may have been what happened, you nawtee boi! šŸ˜ƒ Still ā€¦ there are all kinds of lockable containers to lock up your Playboys, Hustlers, vibrating dolls and mones in ā€¦ invest. šŸ˜‰ A book bag with a key or combination lock, perhaps? There are stories about girlfriends finding their stash on the forum. As I tell my son ā€¦ **ā€œLearn from other peopleā€™s mistakes ā€¦ there are examples all around you.ā€** ---
**Author:** ![thegentleman](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/thegentleman/32/1770_2.png) [@thegentleman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thegentleman)\ **Post date:** [August 13, 2010, 4:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-my-mother-found-my-pheromones/40744/34 "2010-08-13T04:19:12Z")
If my mom found my stash Iā€™d be scared shit less, mainly because sheā€™s been dead since 2003. ---
**Author:** ![Scipio](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/3ec8ea/32.png) [@Scipio](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Scipio)\ **Post date:** [August 13, 2010, 5:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-my-mother-found-my-pheromones/40744/35 "2010-08-13T05:25:29Z")
> [@thegentleman](#): > > If my mom found my stash Iā€™d be scared shit less, mainly because sheā€™s been dead since 2003. Not sure if I should laugh, or say sorry. But I may lock them up. Doing so will make me feel cooler and more secret agent like. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [August 13, 2010, 9:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-my-mother-found-my-pheromones/40744/36 "2010-08-13T09:48:54Z")
> [@thegentleman](#): > > If my mom found my stash Iā€™d be scared shit less, mainly because sheā€™s been dead since 2003. Well then she already knows all about it. LOL šŸ˜‰ Tisha ---
**Author:** ![empath](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/empath/32/2351_2.png) [@empath](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/empath)\ **Post date:** [August 13, 2010, 12:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-my-mother-found-my-pheromones/40744/37 "2010-08-13T12:57:47Z")
Seriously you should be able to explain to her that itā€™s not ā€˜love potion #9ā€™ā€¦ itā€™s not going to get anyone to like you or be attracted to you that isnā€™t alreadyā€¦ just wear a whole bottle of A314 and IH when you do it šŸ™‚ ---
**Author:** ![TheBoogieMan](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/theboogieman/32/1136_2.png) [@TheBoogieMan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TheBoogieMan)\ **Post date:** [August 14, 2010, 6:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-my-mother-found-my-pheromones/40744/38 "2010-08-14T06:47:57Z")
> [@M\_M](#): > > **ā€œLearn from other peopleā€™s mistakes ā€¦ there are examples all around you.ā€** Great quote. ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [August 14, 2010, 10:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-my-mother-found-my-pheromones/40744/39 "2010-08-14T22:02:10Z")
I think the best thing to do is be honest, own it, and refuse to be cowed. It should be pointed out that pheromones have a variety of uses, and that even [sexual pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/sensual-pheromones/) have non-sexual uses. TUTH, for instance, can be very useful for self confidence and better body language. Soā€¦ avoid lies and guilt (which you seem to have done) and just keep going. ---
**Author:** ![MVKBUGATTI](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/50afbb/32.png) [@MVKBUGATTI](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MVKBUGATTI)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2010, 1:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-my-mother-found-my-pheromones/40744/40 "2010-08-15T13:14:54Z")
> [@Scipio](#): > > Accused me of using them to take advantage of women, is really disappointed in me, doesnt know where she went wrong, etc, etc. > > I know where she went wrong, going through my underwear drawer and finding them. > > Thatā€™s like spying on someone while they pee and telling them they have a small penis. > > Yes, I live with my parents. It sucks, but hey I do have 7,000 saved in my bank account. After one more year I plan on having 12,000 saved up. Then its off to finish my education. > > Knowing my mom, explaining to her will just convince her even more of my ā€œunethicalā€ behavior. > > Looks like Iā€™ll now be known to my mother for the next year as Scipio the rapist. Always remember to respect your parents; and know that this event shall soon pass. [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-my-mother-found-my-pheromones/40744.md?page=1) [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-my-mother-found-my-pheromones/40744.md?page=3)