# So, what to try first? **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [May 9, 2007, 8:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-what-to-try-first/3584 "2007-05-09T20:17:13Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 15\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![May](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/may/32/1909_2.png) [@May](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/May)\ **Post date:** [May 9, 2007, 8:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-what-to-try-first/3584/1 "2007-05-09T20:17:13Z")
Hiya šŸ™‚ I have yet another question for you. As I have just got my newbieā€™s gift voucher from Jasmin (thanks Jasmin! šŸ™‚) I find myself drooling over the selection of available goodies on the site. Iā€™ve already slipped off and ordered a bottle of EW - as that has had rave reviews, as you may have read elsewhere I have my ā€œunknownā€ pheromones which I quite like. So, in the absence of a gal-pack (which I would love!) here is the dilemma, Iā€™ve heard everyone rave about the combination of EW with Instant Sexiness, but I am wondering if [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) might be more useful for me at the moment. My direct boss at work is , shall we say, difficult to manage at times. He admits he finds it hard to open up and express himself to people and this means he makes the most horrendous social and conversational gaffs with me. Which can make our working relationship tense. Because frankly he can be an awkward git at times. Iā€™ve read Instant Honesty helps communication and gives a ā€œbest friendā€ kind of energy. I canā€™t afford full sizes of both right now and donā€™t want to order just two sizes of to-go at the moment. Any advice ladies? šŸ˜ƒ What have been your experiences with both and what do you think I should experiment with first. LOL! I feel like a kid in a toyshop! May ---
**Author:** ![Jasmin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasmin/32/287_2.png) [@Jasmin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasmin)\ **Post date:** [May 9, 2007, 8:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-what-to-try-first/3584/2 "2007-05-09T20:31:48Z")
Ooooh ooh, for your boss Iā€™d also recommend [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/)!! Thatā€™ll buff him up to feel real good around you. Then heā€™ll notice thatā€¦ you knowā€¦ ā€œWhy do I always feel good when youā€™re around, Miss May?ā€ Instant Sexi on the other hand.. Hmmā€¦ Does your boss like a more dominant woman? (Take a look at your female coworkers ā€” what kind of personalty do his ā€œpreferencesā€ have?). If he tends _not_ to lke dominant women, Sexi mght put off too strong a vibe, and you might get some heads clashing. Iā€™ve heard this happen with female superiors who gets catty if they sense someone is invading their ā€œturfā€. ---
**Author:** ![Jasmin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasmin/32/287_2.png) [@Jasmin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasmin)\ **Post date:** [May 9, 2007, 8:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-what-to-try-first/3584/3 "2007-05-09T20:32:33Z")
Then again, something like Sexi (or better yet, MX134) can get you into powergrl mode, and the boss mght be very pleased with your newfound vigor. Hmm! Things to decide. Hahahaā€¦ sorry to mention so many things at once. šŸ™‚šŸ™‚ ---
**Author:** ![May](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/may/32/1909_2.png) [@May](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/May)\ **Post date:** [May 9, 2007, 8:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-what-to-try-first/3584/4 "2007-05-09T20:37:15Z")
Arghh, help me Jasmin I canā€™t decide! šŸ™‚ Iā€™m even looking at the 4x version May ---
**Author:** ![May](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/may/32/1909_2.png) [@May](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/May)\ **Post date:** [May 9, 2007, 8:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-what-to-try-first/3584/5 "2007-05-09T20:39:06Z")
Iā€™m quite a ā€œstrongā€ character anyway so sexi might be a bit too er.. dominatrix šŸ™‚ May ---
**Author:** ![dolly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dolly/32/1591_2.png) [@dolly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dolly)\ **Post date:** [May 9, 2007, 8:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-what-to-try-first/3584/6 "2007-05-09T20:41:21Z")
I would suggest that, rather than get the full sizes of anything, try some of the to-go sizes. The following would all be good to start: MX134 Instant Sexiness [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) MX135 MX140 Instant Shine That way, youā€™ll have more to try and play withā€¦The first two on the list are more ā€œdominatingā€ā€¦the last 4 are more social, easy goingā€¦ ---
**Author:** ![May](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/may/32/1909_2.png) [@May](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/May)\ **Post date:** [May 9, 2007, 9:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-what-to-try-first/3584/7 "2007-05-09T21:28:08Z")
Thanks Dolly Iā€™ve ordered a few to-go sizes based on your recommendations. I did steer clear of the one some people say can make them grumpy - as I can get a bit moody to start with, so it might not be the best for me. In case anyone is interested Iā€™ve ordered: [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) Instant shine 2x Instant openess 2x Instant honesty 2x MX140 to go Iā€™ve also ordered EW. Hopefully that lot will keep me busy for a while šŸ™‚ Iā€™ll let you all know if it chills the boss out a bit! May ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [May 9, 2007, 9:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-what-to-try-first/3584/8 "2007-05-09T21:58:29Z")
> [@May](#): > > Iā€™m quite a ā€œstrongā€ character anyway so sexi might be a bit too er.. dominatrix šŸ™‚ > > May well Dolly and i are definately strong personalities and [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) is one of our favesā€¦ no dominatrix here, although you will definately feel more in control. there is a difference between ā€œim the boss of youā€ and _you want me to__be the boss of you_ [http://www.smilieshq.com/smilies/evilgrin0007.gif](http://www.smilieshq.com/smilies/evilgrin0007.gif) _nothing_ like a guy looking at you as if it would please _him_ to please _you_ šŸ˜‰ ---
**Author:** ![May](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/may/32/1909_2.png) [@May](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/May)\ **Post date:** [May 9, 2007, 10:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-what-to-try-first/3584/9 "2007-05-09T22:11:45Z")
Hi Lor ā€œSticks and stones may break my bones but whips and chains excite meā€ LOL! I donā€™t know what it is about me, but a lot of guys SERIOUSLY believe that I am into S and M. On the dom side. Iā€™m not. However, for some obscure reason I seem to attract men who want to be dominated. I have ordered a to go of [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/), and Iā€™m not ruling out MX134 at the moment - but I can only buy so much on my first order, so I went with what I thought I could play around with a bit and stuff I thought might be most immediately useful, hence the sexiness, shine, openness, honesty and MX140. Double-strength where I could šŸ™‚ On the copulin front, Iā€™m kind of hoping the eow i ordered earlier will take care of that, and I have the perfume that started all this. Doubtless the collections will grow though, then I will try the 134 and the LAM, and probably just about everything else. By the way is Turn up the heat at all suitable for the gals? May ---
**Author:** ![dolly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dolly/32/1591_2.png) [@dolly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dolly)\ **Post date:** [May 9, 2007, 10:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-what-to-try-first/3584/10 "2007-05-09T22:19:05Z")
> [@Lor](#): > > there is a difference between ā€œim the boss of youā€ > > and > > _you want me to_ _be the boss of you_ > > [http://www.smilieshq.com/smilies/evilgrin0007.gif](http://www.smilieshq.com/smilies/evilgrin0007.gif) I love it! šŸ˜ƒ > [@lor](#): > > _nothing_ like a guy looking at you as if it would please _him_ to please _you_ šŸ˜‰ This is the way my man acts around me all the timeā€¦he does whatever it takes to make SURE that I am happyā€¦šŸ˜‰ ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [May 9, 2007, 11:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-what-to-try-first/3584/11 "2007-05-09T23:10:10Z")
> [@dolly](#): > > I love it! šŸ˜ƒ > > This is the way my man acts around me all the timeā€¦he does whatever it takes to make SURE that I am happyā€¦šŸ˜‰ i never get tired of hearing that. gives me hope šŸ˜‰ ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [May 10, 2007, 9:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-what-to-try-first/3584/12 "2007-05-10T09:16:08Z")
Hi May If you tend to get grumpy dont use Turn Up The Heat but it can be used by women in very very low doses. I made the mistake of spraying it on me and became a real bitch Instant Shine is perfect for your boss. My Boss is a pain in the butt but when ever I wear it he hangs out around my desk happily yapping away. People have commented ā€œwhat the hell got into himā€ lol We even snuck up and sprayed it on him when he had to make a speech for a lady who was about to retire. He hates her and stated it to me and my friend more than once. They have never gotten along and the whole office knows it. He gets up there and started out kind of slow then all of a sudden he cant say enough good things about her. At the end of the speech he gave her a huge hug and said we are all going to miss you. Everyone was in shock including the lady. Great order My suggestions would have been Getā€¦ Instant shine [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) or IH MX140 Mx135 Instant sexiness. MX135 is my all time favorite. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![LaurieNY](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/bbce88/32.png) [@LaurieNY](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LaurieNY)\ **Post date:** [May 10, 2007, 5:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-what-to-try-first/3584/13 "2007-05-10T17:17:51Z")
> [@](#): > > However, for some obscure reason I seem to attract men who want to be dominated. That would drive me nuts; I HATE being the guy. Take care of me, dammit!! šŸ˜  Anyway, you made excellent choices. Tisha is right, MX135 is fantastic and might be the perfect antidote to that specific dilemmaā€“itā€™s TAH heavy and Jasmin has specifically reported that men of all ages tend to become her protector when she wears it, even strangers. I have noticed a lot of attention and some happy peppy people when I wear it, as well. Itā€™ll definitely up your ā€œgirlyā€ factor. šŸ˜‰ ---
**Author:** ![May](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/may/32/1909_2.png) [@May](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/May)\ **Post date:** [May 10, 2007, 10:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-what-to-try-first/3584/14 "2007-05-10T22:25:37Z")
Rightio I think I will definitely have to stick MX135 on the next shopping list šŸ™‚ I want to up my girly factor a bit (well, quite a lot actually). šŸ˜› May ---
**Author:** ![Rbt](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rbt/32/2066_2.png) [@Rbt](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rbt)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2007, 12:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/so-what-to-try-first/3584/15 "2007-05-30T00:42:46Z")
If the boss already sputters when talking to you (making gaffs etc) then Iā€™m not so sure IHonesty would be a good idea. May make ā€œtoo much inner thoughtsā€ come out and make things even worse. And IOpenness may not be neeed either if he (or others) already seem to have no trouble opening up a conversation with you. I canā€™t speak for the more ā€œwoman specificā€ products, but IShine as Jasmin mentioned may be a good selection from the ā€œunisexā€ catagory. My opinion.