# Solid Confidence and Sexy Mix **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [April 22, 2011, 11:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/solid-confidence-and-sexy-mix/50002 "2011-04-22T23:19:55Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![unknown0001](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/unknown0001/32/559_2.png) [@unknown0001](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/unknown0001)\ **Post date:** [April 22, 2011, 11:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/solid-confidence-and-sexy-mix/50002/1 "2011-04-22T23:19:55Z")
A314 (3 drops) p86 (30mcgs) p75 (5mcgs) TUTH 2.5 mcgs ISx4 (2 sprays) I sorta took this from Mustangs Idea but I don’t have IJ anymore so I used 2.5 of TUTH. Did I ever tell you I love p75? I LOVE IT. 10 min after putting this on I was heading to a musical benefit. I run into someone I havent seen in a while on the street. Now I haven’t worn p75 in months, so self effects were high. sorta like nothing can faze or trip me up. Once I got to the bar, not only did I not have any social anxiety, EDIT. I seeked out people to talk to, women mostly. EDIT: I went to see an “up and coming” singer who’d going to be opening for Carlos Santana soon so I could pick her brain about the music business. During the show she kept singing to a women in the audience. After the show, I went up to that women and asked “How do you know \_\_\_\_\_\_” She was kind “on guard” and said defensivly" I’m her girlfriend. …Okay, I say, good for you. Normally I might, subtly with body language shift at that mention, i think she thought I was “trying to get with” the singer…i really wasn’t…then i thought of something I read in Tao of Dating…if you go up to a women who’s about to get hit by a bicycle behind her, you have to issue with talking to her, it’s your mind set that matters (Pause) something about this was like a social zen mental state. Things are “just happening” and you don’t really care. (Play) I finish picking the girls brain and head out. I gotta say i actually learned a bit about my self. If I “go out alone” and have a target in mind. like "I’m going to this benfit gonna give $20 to help autism, find the head liner so I can get some questions answered about the music business, and then leave. It’s as if the entire time, I never feel “out of place” …on the flip side just going out with no goal per say and just showing up somewhere to maybe socialze or “get a drink” …i don’t feel comfortable or at ease. I need a specific purpose to remain relaxed while I’m out…it also helps is that purpose is “giving” in nature and NOT sexual. Now I’m gonna get this exact same mix and try it a few more times to be sure, but it did seem to help move along, what was already a good idea. Go to Benefit, watch show, talk with Singer, to get there “expertise”, and along the way, socilize, talk with women, flirt etc…but that’s all secondary to \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ whatever the agenda is for the night. I’m gonna do this a few more times…but try to talk to some bigger musicians, if I can gain access. Peace. Happytaps. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![thegentleman](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/thegentleman/32/1770_2.png) [@thegentleman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thegentleman)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2011, 7:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/solid-confidence-and-sexy-mix/50002/2 "2011-04-23T07:33:56Z")
I hope this doesn’t come off wrong, but how soon after all this occurred did you write this up? The reason I ask, is this does not seem like your writing style at all, or the style I am accustomed to. Quite honestly it just seems out of sorts, there are a few instances where I was kinda lost and had to read it over a few times to make sure I understood you. I’m gonna have to go read some more of your posts and compare…LOL I don’t know how to explain it, but its almost as if you didn’t write it and someone else did. ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2011, 8:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/solid-confidence-and-sexy-mix/50002/3 "2011-04-23T08:13:36Z")
> [@thegentleman](#): > > I hope this doesn’t come off wrong, but how soon after all this occurred did you write this up? > The reason I ask, is this does not seem like your writing style at all, or the style I am accustomed to. Quite honestly it just seems out of sorts, there are a few instances where I was kinda lost and had to read it over a few times to make sure I understood you. > > I’m gonna have to go read some more of your posts and compare…LOL I don’t know how to explain it, but its almost as if you didn’t write it and someone else did. hap tap is drunk lol ---
**Author:** ![unknown0001](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/unknown0001/32/559_2.png) [@unknown0001](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/unknown0001)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2011, 4:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/solid-confidence-and-sexy-mix/50002/4 "2011-04-23T16:22:55Z")
> [@thegentleman](#): > > I hope this doesn’t come off wrong, but how soon after all this occurred did you write this up? > The reason I ask, is this does not seem like your writing style at all, or the style I am accustomed to. Quite honestly it just seems out of sorts, there are a few instances where I was kinda lost and had to read it over a few times to make sure I understood you. > > I’m gonna have to go read some more of your posts and compare…LOL I don’t know how to explain it, but its almost as if you didn’t write it and someone else did. Huh? I don’t understand how you would come to that conclusion. I wrote this on Sat and it all happened the night before. …??😕 ---
**Author:** ![unknown0001](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/unknown0001/32/559_2.png) [@unknown0001](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/unknown0001)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2011, 4:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/solid-confidence-and-sexy-mix/50002/5 "2011-04-23T16:23:52Z")
> [@P51Mustang](#): > > hap tap is drunk lol hahah, actually, yes I had a few glasses of wine 😃😃 ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2011, 5:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/solid-confidence-and-sexy-mix/50002/6 "2011-04-23T17:32:00Z")
> [@happytappin](#): > > I gotta say i actually learned a bit about my self. If I “go out alone” and have a target in mind. like "I’m going to this benfit gonna give $20 to help autism, find the head liner so I can get some questions answered about the music business, and then leave. It’s as if the entire time, I never feel “out of place” …on the flip side just going out with no goal per say and just showing up somewhere to maybe socialze or “get a drink” …i don’t feel comfortable or at ease. I need a specific purpose to remain relaxed while I’m out…it also helps is that purpose is “giving” in nature and NOT sexual. > > Go to Benefit, watch show, talk with Singer, to get there “expertise”, and along the way, socilize, talk with women, flirt etc…but that’s all secondary to \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ whatever the agenda is for the night. > > 😃 This is a key point in a lot of what I try to teach to guys. Short or long term, having a specific goal and plan for virtually anything seems to communicate something to people that see you. It is, imo one of, if not the key element of charisma. Your expression, voice, body language all seem to subtly communicate that you are a man on a mission. Your actions are deliberate and purposeful. You come across as a man on a mission, the man with a plan. This really can’t be faked. Sure you can try to consciously control your posture and body language etc. But actually having something you want to do…that’s hard, having places to go, things to do, people to meet and topics to discuss can’t really be faked in a believable way, at least not for long. Kinda like in the show the pickup artist, Mystery taught the guys to use false time constraints to put the girls in set at ease and alleviate any concerns that the guy might just “hang around” and not leave when things get boring. The guy went into set using the “I can only stay a minute, I have to get back to my friends soon” FTC. Well after a couple of minutes, one of the girls in set asked where these “friends are” that he mentioned…the poor shlub went into the club alone, ouch! Actually having a purpose or agenda, especially one that as you said is coming from a giving place rather than a taking place gives you what I call a conditional time constraint, rather than a false one. Conditional means you actually DO have other things to do, but they can be put on hold for a short time if you happen to find a woman that is interesting enough to deserve a little more of your time. This way if a woman, or anyone for that matter tries to call you out on it. You can simply thank them for reminding you and leave the set and go to doing what you actually planned on doing in the first place, or even invite the target to come along. Now you’re a genuine guy and not somebody who threw out a bullshit line to try and buy time/impress her. The self effect this has, you have already discovered. The absence of outcome expectations and attachments to other peoples opinions of you put you at ease. You had a purpose unrelated to sex, if an opportunity for an interaction had come up, you would likely have accepted it as a welcome surprise but you were not actively seeking it, and would not have put your agenda on hold for it either. This is about as high value a communication as you can get. Trump will take an opportunity to have sex if it comes up but he would never miss a meeting over a billion dollar deal for it. Kudo’s on the discovery. And I look forward to scoring some [P75](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p75/) myself. ---
**Author:** ![unknown0001](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/unknown0001/32/559_2.png) [@unknown0001](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/unknown0001)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2011, 5:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/solid-confidence-and-sexy-mix/50002/7 "2011-04-23T17:39:31Z")
> [@RADMAN513](#): > > This is a key point in a lot of what I try to teach to guys. Short or long term, having a specific goal and plan for virtually anything seems to communicate something to people that see you. It is, imo one of, if not the key element of charisma. Your expression, voice, body language all seem to subtly communicate that you are a man on a mission. Your actions are deliberate and purposeful. You come across as a man on a mission, the man with a plan. This really can’t be faked. Sure you can try to consciously control your posture and body language etc. But actually having something you want to do…that’s hard, having places to go, things to do, people to meet and topics to discuss can’t really be faked in a believable way, at least not for long. > Kinda like in the show the pickup artist, Mystery taught the guys to use false time constraints to put the girls in set at ease and alleviate any concerns that the guy might just “hang around” and not leave when things get boring. > The guy went into set using the “I can only stay a minute, I have to get back to my friends soon” FTC. Well after a couple of minutes, one of the girls in set asked where these “friends are” that he mentioned…the poor shlub went into the club alone, ouch! > > Actually having a purpose or agenda, especially one that as you said is coming from a giving place rather than a taking place gives you what I call a conditional time constraint, rather than a false one. Conditional means you actually DO have other things to do, but they can be put on hold for a short time if you happen to find a woman that is interesting enough to deserve a little more of your time. This way if a woman, or anyone for that matter tries to call you out on it. You can simply thank them for reminding you and leave the set and go to doing what you actually planned on doing in the first place, or even invite the target to come along. Now you’re a genuine guy and not somebody who threw out a bullshit line to try and buy time/impress her. > > The self effect this has, you have already discovered. The absence of outcome expectations and attachments to other peoples opinions of you put you at ease. You had a purpose unrelated to sex, if an opportunity for an interaction had come up, you would likely have accepted it as a welcome surprise but you were not actively seeking it, and would not have put your agenda on hold for it either. This is about as high value a communication as you can get. > Trump will take an opportunity to have sex if it comes up but he would never miss a meeting over a billion dollar deal for it. > > Kudo’s on the discovery. And I look forward to scoring some P75 myself. Thanks RAD, yeah, as always very eloquent. I have pretty much a full 30ml bottle I could make a 5ml, maybe trade it for a 5ml of IJ or TAC or something you have extra of. And as I look back at my past reports where I actually got laid, everytime it was when I was there to do “something else.” So the old adage “get a life” prolly the best advice to picking up women. ---
**Author:** ![unknown0001](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/unknown0001/32/559_2.png) [@unknown0001](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/unknown0001)\ **Post date:** [April 24, 2011, 3:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/solid-confidence-and-sexy-mix/50002/8 "2011-04-24T03:22:11Z")
Hey Gentleman and Pherojack…did you guys get to the bottom of it? ---
**Author:** ![lifeisgood7](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lifeisgood7/32/1834_2.png) [@lifeisgood7](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lifeisgood7)\ **Post date:** [April 27, 2011, 5:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/solid-confidence-and-sexy-mix/50002/9 "2011-04-27T05:20:00Z")
hey tappin what are your experiences with p75? ---
**Author:** ![unknown0001](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/unknown0001/32/559_2.png) [@unknown0001](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/unknown0001)\ **Post date:** [April 27, 2011, 5:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/solid-confidence-and-sexy-mix/50002/10 "2011-04-27T05:26:50Z")
> [@lifeisgood7](#): > > hey tappin > what are your experiences with p75? if you search through my posts i have a good many with p75. I LOOOOVE p75. I put it in my top 5 Putatives for sure.😃 I don’t wanna say much…get it and test it!..i will say start with 2.5 mcgs…I’ve never gone above 5mcgs…doesn’t mean you can’t…but i’ve had great results with 2.5 to 5 mcgs