# Some girls think I'm ugly...will Ammunition attract these girls to me???????????????? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [June 9, 2008, 9:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-girls-think-im-ugly-will-ammunition-attract-these-girls-to-me/13725 "2008-06-09T21:24:21Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![dafb](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dafb/32/2021_2.png) [@dafb](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dafb)\ **Post date:** [January 6, 2009, 12:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-girls-think-im-ugly-will-ammunition-attract-these-girls-to-me/13725/21 "2009-01-06T12:36:43Z")
And also some people could be the average guy and don´t be atractive at all for any woman, I guess that´s me ,I feel sometimes like invisible,(and I know I´m not the only one) ,so I´m agree with Merrydew. ---
**Author:** ![stud](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/4af34b/32.png) [@stud](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/stud)\ **Post date:** [January 6, 2009, 3:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-girls-think-im-ugly-will-ammunition-attract-these-girls-to-me/13725/22 "2009-01-06T15:01:57Z")
So you’re ugly----FANTASTIC! Some of the ugliest guys in the world date the most beautiful woman! I see it everyday. You see it everyday. We all see it everyday. Embrace ugly----UGLY IS GOOD! f\*\*K UGLY! Ugly can’t hold you back just be the next million ugly guy with the most beautiful woman. Ugly never stopped nobody that didn’t buy into it. ---
**Author:** ![Empress](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/empress/32/1593_2.png) [@Empress](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Empress)\ **Post date:** [January 6, 2009, 3:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-girls-think-im-ugly-will-ammunition-attract-these-girls-to-me/13725/23 "2009-01-06T15:28:37Z")
My current BF has this same issue. HE thinks that he is ugly/quasimoto (he and his friends joke about this due to an accident that resulted in minor reconstructive surgery to his face), meanwhile I think that he is absolutly goregous! 😃 He is your typical introverted / shy male, in his 40’s, owns his own buisness, etc. However, he is definitly not a highly social creature. He says similar things to what you have… “how come this person didn’t like me the way I liked her” (he chased one specific girl for 2 years before he met me and we started our relationship)… nor does he ‘get’ the concept of personal chemestry, although he is beginning to. We’ve been together for 5 months and we have constant conversations about the “other girl” and why things never materialized. I am confident enough in his feelings for me and us that I don’t feel threatened by this, and he knows this. Pheros will NOT make someone change their opinion about you. They will only serve to enhance what is already there. The 90/10 rule that others have mentioned is very true. Example: When he and I met, I didn’t use pheros - I use them now to enhance what is already there (help to make sex even hotter, help to make communication a little easier)… but honestly it is the additional personal boost that I like from particular products. If I feel down or low… I spray a bit of [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) and it **helps** to bring my mood around to a more positive one. 🙂 Maybe you should try this… don’t chase the girls. Work on yourself. Find out what it is about yourself that YOU aren’t happy about. Change your image if you’re not happy about it. Positive thinking breeds positive reactions!! Don’t be so concerned about what/why a particular girl doesn’t like about you… because ~ HONESTLY ~ IF A WOMAN IS ONLY LOOKING AT YOU IN A PHYSICAL SENSE AND NOT TAKING THE TIME TO GET TO KNOW WHO YOU **REALLY** ARE, YOUR TRUE SELF AND PERSONALITY… THEN THEY AREN’T WORTH **YOUR** TIME AND ARE DEFINITLY NOT THE RIGHT WOMAN FOR YOU!! You WILL find the right one for you. When you least expect it! But it will happen!! Just remember to be yourself… 😃 (Yeah - I’m a bit of an optimist, ya think??) ---
**Author:** ![wiseowlk12](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/d2c977/32.png) [@wiseowlk12](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/wiseowlk12)\ **Post date:** [January 6, 2009, 5:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-girls-think-im-ugly-will-ammunition-attract-these-girls-to-me/13725/24 "2009-01-06T17:52:27Z")
Hear Hear!! Let me add my two cents to this topic at hand. first let me say Lyle Lovett is not the best looking guy (actually he’s down right not attractive) but he gets some decent/hot looking girls. Now one could say oh it’s because of his talent or fame and yea that’s partly true but I can guarantee you he’s not feeling bad for himself and telling himself geezes I’m ugly I’m not going to end up with anyone. This guy is out there doing his thing and making/playing music, something I gather he really enjoys. In this enjoyment comes passion/or a driven character and that there is something women are extremely attracted to, a guy who has passion or a drive for something. Now I’m a firm believer that you appear to the world an image of what you yourself feel about you. For example if you think and feel like your shitty and of course the world is going to see that and take your word for it, no questions asked. As for pheromones…this is like putting a band-aid on a broken leg…just won’t do much and if it does it’s superficial and not long-lasting at all. I guess I’m pounding the drum on this one but the true beauty comes from character…so work on your character first and foremost and if you think pheromones will help you in this be my guest but by god please do more than just pheromones. Do more activities, dress better, act more social, take better care of yourself etc… ---
**Author:** ![MaChMa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c6cbf5/32.png) [@MaChMa](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MaChMa)\ **Post date:** [January 6, 2009, 5:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-girls-think-im-ugly-will-ammunition-attract-these-girls-to-me/13725/25 "2009-01-06T17:55:20Z")
Theres a fine line between ugly and average. Ugly is so damn hideous you cant even look at them. For most any girl, your stock is going to rise and fall heavily on your personality. Hell I have found the some of the most average girls beautiful because of how real and down to earth they are, and not the ones striving for all the attention by any means necessary. ---
**Author:** ![Butterfly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/butterfly/32/1942_2.png) [@Butterfly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Butterfly)\ **Post date:** [January 6, 2009, 9:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-girls-think-im-ugly-will-ammunition-attract-these-girls-to-me/13725/26 "2009-01-06T21:04:39Z")
> [@woofie2](#): > > Post a picture of yourself! > > I suspect that you may find a nice homely girl who will think you are king. > but unless you are obscenely rich, picking up a supermodel, cheerleader or beauty queen will be out of your league. > They may act nicer to you in public, but getting one home long enough to turn out the lights will likely not be possible. > > There is a lot more to a healthy relationship than looks. > > I saw a special on human attraction, (I think it was Inside the human sexes, or The Human Body?, either way it was a Study by Desmond Morris) Where they had subjects rate computer pictures, by their attractiveness, then they had pictures of the subjects, and they found that people were most likely to pick people who they had rated as having a smilar score as they rated their own picture as potential mates, dates or partners. > So unless you are Ken look alike, getting with Barbie will not likely be in your future, but there is someone somewhere for you. Woofie has it right! I love Morris’ work and there are many couples who look bad to me but are happy together. I’d like to add that there are very few people who cannot attract the opposite sex while in optimal health. When you work out often, and live very healthy your sperm or eggs will be in great shape and nature will start advertising for you. But looks will only get you dates, what happens after that depends on your character, brainpower and personality. Still, if you are not getting dates, the next level is closed off to you. Keep in mind that if you only have money going for you, you will only win prostitutes. ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [January 6, 2009, 10:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-girls-think-im-ugly-will-ammunition-attract-these-girls-to-me/13725/27 "2009-01-06T22:53:53Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > [If Im not physically attractive, will Ammunition help me attract girls?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/if-im-not-physically-attractive-will-ammunition-help-me-attract-girls/13205) > > [If I wear Ammo, girls are going to be after me?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/if-i-wear-ammo-girls-are-going-to-be-after-me/12645) > > [I´m not physical attractive...are pheromones going to work anyway?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-m-not-physical-attractive-are-pheromones-going-to-work-anyway/12585) > > The answers are no different now then they were the last three times you asked them. > > Obviously AMMO will not change the way you look to other people. Mones enhance the good traits you already have. They cause interest and attraction not because of the way you look but because of the vibe your sending out. > > As for ugly, no one is attractive looking to every person. Everyone has different tastes. Its impossible for every person you meet to think your good looking. Stop worrying about these girls who think your ugly and get out there and meet the ones that don’t think your ugly. But to be successful you need to let go of this worry about being ugly and just be who you are and be the best you, you can be. Whether you use mones to do that or not. > > Tisha This is the best advice and I agree. EVERYONE has different tastes, plus I don’t believe anyone is ugly. People just have different tastes and there IS someone for EVERYONE if you look. Sometimes people don’t come to you, you have to go to them. ---
**Author:** ![PheroQuirk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/9e8a1a/32.png) [@PheroQuirk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroQuirk)\ **Post date:** [January 6, 2009, 11:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-girls-think-im-ugly-will-ammunition-attract-these-girls-to-me/13725/28 "2009-01-06T23:46:54Z")
a) beauty is basically not in the eye of the beholder. there is a remarkable degree of agreement across cultures about who is beautiful and who is not. so advice to the contrary is meant to make you feel better, but isn’t necessarily helpful in making the most of what you have. b) whatever you are born with, you can do a lot to build on it. I don’t mean plastic surgery, but gym, voice training, bodywork (yoga, pilates, alexander technique, feldenkrais) for posture, poise and body consciousness. it doesn’t need to cost a fortune to dress much better but it will take creativity, time and a fair degree of effort over some years. believe me - it is worth the investment. c) emotionally and physiologically looks do matter to women, but they don’t matter nearly as much as you think they do. who you are as a man matters much more (after the first few minutes) than how you look. fake it till you make it has some merit, but don’t forget to work on achieving genuine accomplishments d) practice makes perfect. have a look at [approachanxiety.com](http://approachanxiety.com) and [fastseduction.com](http://fastseduction.com) and go out and practice some of the exercises suggested ---
**Author:** ![Jasmin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasmin/32/287_2.png) [@Jasmin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasmin)\ **Post date:** [January 7, 2009, 12:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-girls-think-im-ugly-will-ammunition-attract-these-girls-to-me/13725/29 "2009-01-07T00:14:17Z")
A lot of women think so-called “ugly” guys are the most attractive ones. Tough and rugged. Real men! If you play the part – dress around that and act the role that tough is beautiful, just like a big truck – then you’ll probably have more of an advantage than any “pretty boy” could ever have. ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [January 7, 2009, 1:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-girls-think-im-ugly-will-ammunition-attract-these-girls-to-me/13725/30 "2009-01-07T01:12:01Z")
I was just like you, thinking I was ugly and all and I won’t lie… I still think that way sometimes. However, I have learned that EVERYONE has a specific type and NO ONE no matter how “hot” they are will ever be able to attract a girl who thinks you’re not her type. No one is perfect, and that’s the beauty of it! Heck, you know how many “hot” guys there are with ugly flaws? Be it ugly feet, with jagged yellow toenails but a “hot” face. Or a “hot” guy with bad breath? Ha, ha really, no one is perfect! Use this knowledge to your advantage, and just try to improve your REGULAR self, by using good grooming habits and just maintaining your regular looks. A simple little makeover can also do wonders, but the most important part is having confidence in yourself and being OK with the way you naturally look. Always remember, men were meant to be ugly anyway! After all WE WERE stinky cavemen at some point, no? ---
**Author:** ![TheAttractor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/theattractor/32/575_2.png) [@TheAttractor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TheAttractor)\ **Post date:** [February 10, 2009, 6:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-girls-think-im-ugly-will-ammunition-attract-these-girls-to-me/13725/31 "2009-02-10T06:57:11Z")
Merridew87, I just ordered a bunch of pheros, and Ammo is one of them. I’m not that great-looking myself, so I can relate to your first post in this thread. But Ammo isn’t a magic bullet either; it’s a tool, like the jumper cables for your car. It will certainly help you, but it won’t work unless you take action. Let’s follow through on the analogy. Let’s say your car won’t start because the battery is dead. So you connect the jumper cables to a good battery on another car and turn your ignition. Since your battery is getting an extra boost from an external source, your car is able to start. Sure, the cables helped you do the job, but you were the one who followed the instructions in connecting them and turned the ignition. _You_ did the job; the cables were just a tool you used. So what advice can I offer? Pretty much the usual “take care of your personal hygene and be confident”. Now, I’m sure you’ll say: “That’s what everyone says. But I can’t just ‘be confident’ on command!” And you’re right; being confident on command is like farting on command. I found this piece of information on an IMDB discussion thread about the movie _40-year-old Virgin_. I’m sure it’ll make everything clear. > [@Someone on IMDB](#): > > If you think you’re ugly, whatever. That doesn’t mean you won’t attract a woman, it means you won’t attract a model. Get over it. Women on your level will find you attractive, and will make themselves available to you. > Be confident in what you do and say. Sounds like BS advice, right? How can you just be magically confident? You can’t. But what you can do is NOT say something you are not confident about, and NOT do something you are not confident about. Whatever’s left, you’re confident about. Are you involuntarily celibate (a.k.a. incel)? If so, I’m 99% sure that this is what’s giving you the idea that you’re ugly. Find a way to break the cycle of involuntary celibacy. Date a plain-looking woman you can handle being around, go to a bar where it’s easy to pick someone up, or heck, even take a trip to Nevada or Canada (any province, but Quebec is best). After all, nothing damages a man’s self-esteem more than being incel for a long time. Even one sexual encounter, good or bad, free or otherwise, will help break that cycle and set you on the right track. I’m sure having sex affects one’s pheromone signature, and well… this site is centered around pheromones. Still think you’re too ugly to get women? I’m going to against the popular opinion and say “only you know what’s it’s like to have your looks, so you might be right”. But like the guy on IMDB said, it’s not the end of the world for your dating life. Go for the women within or slightly above what you consider your league. Don’t do or say anything you’re not confident about, use the right dose of Ammo, and next thing you know, you’ll have a great relationship (or a wild one-night stand you’ve been wanting). ---
**Author:** ![5alphareductase](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/5/54ee81/32.png) [@5alphareductase](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/5alphareductase)\ **Post date:** [February 10, 2009, 8:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-girls-think-im-ugly-will-ammunition-attract-these-girls-to-me/13725/32 "2009-02-10T08:13:55Z")
i’m not ugly, but i sure as hell feel that way sometimes, so i guess i can relate to this post. girls must be scared of me or think that i’m some serial killer rapist because i never had a girl friend all through high school, i’ve never been approached by a female, i’m always the one doing the damn approaching and the vibe that i get is no, get the hell away from me. to top it all off, i’ve even had a girl laugh in my face when all i said was, “hi, my name’s heath”. i have a nice build, six pack and everything else, but all i get is nothing, shame and heartache.😠 anyway, on a much brighter note, sorry about all that deppressing BS, i just had to throw it out there. like what’s been said several times before, pheromones may enhance who you are already, they wont turn you into brad pitt over night, but they can give you an edge. i wear pheromones daily and i find that it dramatically helps me with interpersonal communication, good mood and i generally have a great day when i’m wearing pheromones. if you think you’re ugly, it’s probably a result of low self esteem, get into a workout routine, take vitamins, practice good hygiene and get some therapy if necassary. ---
**Author:** ![dafb](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dafb/32/2021_2.png) [@dafb](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dafb)\ **Post date:** [February 10, 2009, 8:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-girls-think-im-ugly-will-ammunition-attract-these-girls-to-me/13725/33 "2009-02-10T08:14:40Z")
> [@TheAttractor](#): > > Merridew87, > > I just ordered a bunch of pheros, and Ammo is one of them. I’m not that great-looking myself, so I can relate to your first post in this thread. But Ammo isn’t a magic bullet either; it’s a tool, like the jumper cables for your car. It will certainly help you, but it won’t work unless you take action. Let’s follow through on the analogy. Let’s say your car won’t start because the battery is dead. So you connect the jumper cables to a good battery on another car and turn your ignition. Since your battery is getting an extra boost from an external source, your car is able to start. Sure, the cables helped you do the job, but you were the one who followed the instructions in connecting them and turned the ignition. _You_ did the job; the cables were just a tool you used. > > So what advice can I offer? Pretty much the usual “take care of your personal hygene and be confident”. Now, I’m sure you’ll say: “That’s what everyone says. But I can’t just ‘be confident’ on command!” And you’re right; being confident on command is like farting on command. I found this piece of information on an IMDB discussion thread about the movie _40-year-old Virgin_. I’m sure it’ll make everything clear. > > Are you involuntarily celibate (a.k.a. incel)? If so, I’m 99% sure that this is what’s giving you the idea that you’re ugly. Find a way to break the cycle of involuntary celibacy. Date a plain-looking woman you can handle being around, go to a bar where it’s easy to pick someone up, or heck, even take a trip to Nevada or Canada (any province, but Quebec is best). After all, nothing damages a man’s self-esteem more than being incel for a long time. Even one sexual encounter, good or bad, free or otherwise, will help break that cycle and set you on the right track. I’m sure having sex affects one’s pheromone signature, and well… this site is centered around pheromones. > > Still think you’re too ugly to get women? I’m going to against the popular opinion and say “only you know what’s it’s like to have your looks, so you might be right”. But like the guy on IMDB said, it’s not the end of the world for your dating life. Go for the women within or slightly above what you consider your league. Don’t do or say anything you’re not confident about, use the right dose of Ammo, and next thing you know, you’ll have a great relationship (or a wild one-night stand you’ve been wanting). So that´s me , I didn´t fell the ignition , didn´t notice any positive changes with anmo and instant shine . It´s true that didn´t try to change the places I usually go , the things I do … but what I was looking for , was something to change the chances I have, unfortunately they still the same.Plus I got the undesirable effect of bad B.O. no matter how many times I shower a day .Usually never have B.O. even not using deodorant. So after 20 or 25 days using pheromones I quit. Maybe I´ll try in the future , but I guess it´s better to choose carefully the situation where you´re going to wear pheros. Anyway , this: ( Date a plain-looking woman you can handle being around, go to a bar where it’s easy to pick someone up) is that many of us can´t usually do , we need the help pheromones are suposed to give. so if they don´t work we still the same. ---
**Author:** ![renny](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/renny/32/2104_2.png) [@renny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/renny)\ **Post date:** [February 10, 2009, 5:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-girls-think-im-ugly-will-ammunition-attract-these-girls-to-me/13725/34 "2009-02-10T17:34:00Z")
> [@dafb](#): > > So that´s me , I didn´t fell the ignition , didn´t notice any positive changes with anmo and instant shine . > It´s true that didn´t try to change the places I usually go , the things I do … but what I was looking for , was something to change the chances I have, unfortunately they still the same.Plus I got the undesirable effect of bad B.O. no matter how many times I shower a day .Usually never have B.O. even not using deodorant. So after 20 or 25 days using pheromones I quit. > Maybe I´ll try in the future , but I guess it´s better to choose carefully the situation where you´re going to wear pheros. > Anyway , this: ( Date a plain-looking woman you can handle being around, go to a bar where it’s easy to pick someone up) is that many of us can´t usually do , we need the help pheromones are suposed to give. so if they don´t work we still the same. Commiting the same failure over and over in the same way is futile. Why would you condemn yourself to that agony? Pheromones are a tool. They can’t change you. You have to make changes in your life if you want your life to change. If you are having trouble meeting women there is a lot of good advice scattered all over this board. If you have self esteem issues there is a lot of good advice as well. You have to take charge and make the changes. Pheromones can’t do that. I also want to remind those reading this thread that the OP recently wrote some reports saying that he was having some success. That should be an inspiration to everyone! ---
**Author:** ![Whitehall](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/whitehall/32/1087_2.png) [@Whitehall](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Whitehall)\ **Post date:** [February 10, 2009, 5:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-girls-think-im-ugly-will-ammunition-attract-these-girls-to-me/13725/35 "2009-02-10T17:45:09Z")
“Ugly is as Ugly does” or words to that effect. Women are not really that concerned about looks. Personality, drive, character, confidence are much more important to them. Hey, I’m ugly too but I’ve gotten more than my share over the years. Ever seen a picture of Hugo Chavez? [http://cache.jezebel.com/assets/resources/2008/01/naomihugo.jpg](http://cache.jezebel.com/assets/resources/2008/01/naomihugo.jpg) Wanna bet he’s porking that babe? Ever see Henry Kissinger and the women he dated? [http://www.huffingtonpost.com/eat-the-press/Julia%20Allison%20and%20Henry%20Kissinger-thumb.jpg](http://www.huffingtonpost.com/eat-the-press/Julia%20Allison%20and%20Henry%20Kissinger-thumb.jpg) ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [February 10, 2009, 5:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-girls-think-im-ugly-will-ammunition-attract-these-girls-to-me/13725/36 "2009-02-10T17:47:34Z")
The bottom line is… pheromones can’t overrule what you tell a woman to think about you. And you tell a woman what to think about you with your actions, attitude and body language. The pheromones also tell her what to think, but she’ll “believe” the other three over the pheromones every time. It’s called congruency of action. You can’t worry what others think of you. It really, truly doesn’t matter. For every person who views you and decides what THEY think of you, there is a different answer to the question of what you look like… how “cool” you are… and so on. Basing your opinion of yourself on what other people think is like asking a bunch of blind people to tell you what color an elephant is. On top of that… other people will ALSO decide what they think of you based on what you tell them about you with your actions, attitude and body language! I’ve met girls who said I was ugly, and within a few hours they wanted to sleep with me because I blew off their opinion (since it didn’t matter to me) and demonstrated through my actions, attitude and body language that I had more confidence in what _I_ thought of myself. They ended up liking what _I_ thought of myself. Stop basing your self image on what other people think, people! It doesn’t matter what other people think! It matters what YOU think! And when you think you’re ugly because somebody told you so, you make yourself conform to that opinion. It really doesn’t matter what you look like on any level, anyway, because women can put that aside for the most part if a man has everything else together. And throw in having financial stability and security, and they just couldn’t care less most times! Work on making yourself the kind of man who doesn’t care what other people think, and a woman will admire your self image and adopt it as what she thinks of you, too. And then, because you’re a leader and not a follower, she’ll decide she likes you. And maybe, more than that. ---
**Author:** ![sax\_for\_money](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/0ea827/32.png) [@sax\_for\_money](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sax_for_money)\ **Post date:** [February 10, 2009, 6:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-girls-think-im-ugly-will-ammunition-attract-these-girls-to-me/13725/37 "2009-02-10T18:26:05Z")
I see fugly guys with hot chicks all the time, and no its not just for money (well im sure lots of the time it is about money but not every time) Aim high people, get what you can but aim high. Theres nothing wong with getting shot down, but theres something wrong with not trying. ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [February 10, 2009, 6:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-girls-think-im-ugly-will-ammunition-attract-these-girls-to-me/13725/38 "2009-02-10T18:28:42Z")
Catlord is very right, as right as renny, Whitehall, and everyone else who put in their two cents. Look, I’ve been told that I’m ugly as well but then again I have also been told that I’m cute. However, I still ended up getting married to a beautiful wife that gave me a beautiful son. The bottom line is basically that life is too short to care and mope around about your looks, work with what you’ve got! Act with confidence just like catlord said even though at times it’ll be tough to act confident in yourself and the way you look when incidents like people telling you you’re ugly happen, what you just have to do is then fight your way through those low blows and just like catlord said act like you don’t care and just forget about their opinion. Shrug it off and walk with the confidence you KNOW you can have, and with the lack of care for the low blows life and girls will give you. In short fuck them, chances are someone thinks they’re ugly too! Heck, I think Jennifer Lopez and Paris Hilton are ugly as all hell, same as Jessica Simpson! But then again that’s just me; if they had a better personality then maybe I’d change my mind. However, look wise I don’t think they’re attractive at all. Jennifer Lopez looks like a man, and Paris Hilton looks like a bird. ---
**Author:** ![dafb](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dafb/32/2021_2.png) [@dafb](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dafb)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2009, 12:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-girls-think-im-ugly-will-ammunition-attract-these-girls-to-me/13725/39 "2009-02-11T00:13:52Z")
So why use pheros if the hardest part still depending on the way you feel and behave? Is there any help pheros can give you ?maybe more chances , or just one when you haven´t any? I had read so many stories on this forum that are suposed to be true ,stories that happen to other guys (maybe they never really happen ,for real) . ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2009, 12:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-girls-think-im-ugly-will-ammunition-attract-these-girls-to-me/13725/40 "2009-02-11T00:28:30Z")
> [@dafb](#): > > So why use pheros if the hardest part still depending on the way you feel and behave? > Is there any help pheros can give you ?maybe more chances , or just one when you haven´t any? > I had read so many stories on this forum that are suposed to be true ,stories that happen to other guys (maybe they never really happen ,for real) . Pheromones _increase your_ _chances_, but of course _you’re_ the one who will have to _initiate_ that chance and open up the conversation unless they come up to you (if you’re looking for a relationship.) However, the same applies for work related pheromone usage or various. It increases your magnetism, but of course you have to believe in your self and REALLY open your eyes in order to notice just what the pheromones are doing. Yesterday I went to go cut my hair, and my wife actually was the one to notice a “hit” while I was cutting my hair. Keep in mind, she was in the car waiting for me. Basically she asked me why the lady cutting my hair kept on messing around with my hair after she was done cutting my hair, I mentioned that she was putting gel in my hair but now that I think about it she did take a long time doing that. Heck, my wife was the one to notice it and wondered why she was taking so long fondling my hair. I was practically so just into living my normal life, that I can’t believe I almost didn’t notice this “hit” until my wife noticed the strangeness of this lady taking so long messing around with my hair after she was already done. Basically what I’m trying to say is, OPEN your eyes! Even with my experience I ALMOST didn’t notice this “hit!” Sure, I mentioned that she was doing a little bit of finishing touch ups but then again not really, plus there was a time where she kind of rubbed my shoulders a bit with her fingers. Eek. [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-girls-think-im-ugly-will-ammunition-attract-these-girls-to-me/13725.md?page=1)