# Some help please... **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [January 28, 2009, 6:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-help-please/25470 "2009-01-28T18:51:50Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 3\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![HADYOU](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hadyou/32/1458_2.png) [@HADYOU](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HADYOU)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2009, 9:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-help-please/25470/21 "2009-02-03T21:31:10Z")
> [@renny](#): > > Oh, definitly don’t try to upstage the other guy with actions. Just use the pheromones to define yourself in the way that is most positive in her mind. My main point is don’t use the pheromones to try to correct a (perceived)deficiency use them to highlight and delineate the most positive aspects of who you are; perhaps compared to newguy. Never met the new guy & don’t know a thing about him. I am wondering if 2 drops A314 buffered with instant openness or honesty would be better and I only have 2 sprays of I/FM for a closer get together that I am saving it for so don incluse that, but I am very outgoing so maybe a314, I/openness or honesty or come talk to me , along with p74 on top of which of these? and maybe a couple shots of mx292. which amounts would you prefer of each of these? ---
**Author:** ![HADYOU](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hadyou/32/1458_2.png) [@HADYOU](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HADYOU)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2009, 9:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-help-please/25470/22 "2009-02-03T21:33:11Z")
> [@HADYOU](#): > > Never met the new guy & don’t know a thing about him. I am wondering if 2 drops A314 buffered with instant openness or honesty would be better and I only have 2 sprays of I/FM for a closer get together that I am saving it for so don incluse that, but I am very outgoing so maybe a314, I/openness or honesty or come talk to me , along with p74 on top of which of these? and maybe a couple shots of mx292. which amounts would you prefer of each of these? Oh and I am the 24/7 parent of our son and I/gentleman added in there also, maybe on top of the a314 ---
**Author:** ![renny](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/renny/32/2104_2.png) [@renny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/renny)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2009, 9:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-help-please/25470/23 "2009-02-03T21:36:03Z")
> [@HADYOU](#): > > Never met the new guy & don’t know a thing about him. I am wondering if 2 drops A314 buffered with instant openness or honesty would be better and I only have 2 sprays of I/FM for a closer get together that I am saving it for so don incluse that, but I am very outgoing so maybe a314, I/openness or honesty or come talk to me , along with p74 on top of which of these? and maybe a couple shots of mx292. which amounts would you prefer of each of these? What I’m saying is pick the one thing she probably misses most about you and use the pheromones to amplify that one aspect. So first identify the one feeling she would keep from your relationship if someone were to blank out all her memories of you but that one emotional attachment. [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-help-please/25470.md?page=1)