# Some help with opening sets plz? **URL:** \ **Category:** Lounge\ **Created:** [June 3, 2009, 5:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-help-with-opening-sets-plz/29524 "2009-06-03T05:35:29Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![basics\_of\_sena](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/258eb7/32.png) [@basics\_of\_sena](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/basics_of_sena)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2009, 5:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-help-with-opening-sets-plz/29524/1 "2009-06-03T05:35:29Z")
Hey basics here. I hope all is well with all of you. Anyway I wanted some advice on a few openers I can use to strike up a conversation with someone I find attractive . I came up with one but I don’t think it’ll work. Here’s the opener- Me - Hey Hi you’re Megan right? Her - No. Me - No you’re megan right? Remember that party at Sigma Pi, we made out and you threw up in my mouth. Her - No that was not me. I’m pretty sure Me - Are you sure? Something like that. Here’s why I don’t think it’ll work because it involves throwing up. Any bodily function might sound funny to a guy but I don’t think any girl will find this funny, so any good help openers I can use , any help will be awesome Thanks ---
**Author:** ![M\_P](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/m_p/32/1633_2.png) [@M\_P](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/M_P)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2009, 5:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-help-with-opening-sets-plz/29524/2 "2009-06-03T05:38:24Z")
Throwing up isn’t exactly attractive so you’re right on that one..lol. I would say try to find something about her that’s a conversation starter…something she’s wearing, or whatever she’s doing at that point. ---
**Author:** ![meow333x](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ecae2f/32.png) [@meow333x](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/meow333x)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2009, 5:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-help-with-opening-sets-plz/29524/3 "2009-06-03T05:44:36Z")
> [@basics\_of\_sena](#): > > Hey basics here. I hope all is well with all of you. Anyway I wanted some advice on a few openers I can use to strike up a conversation with someone I find attractive . I came up with one but I don’t think it’ll work. Here’s the opener- > > Me - Hey Hi you’re Megan right? > Her - No. > Me - No you’re megan right? Remember that party at Sigma Pi, we made out > and you threw up in my mouth. > Her - No that was not me. I’m pretty sure > Me - Are you sure? > > Something like that. Here’s why I don’t think it’ll work because it involves throwing up. Any bodily function might sound funny to a guy but I don’t think any girl will find this funny, so any good help openers I can use , any help will be awesome > > Thanks bad opener man, the “hey don’t i know you” line is the modern day “what’s your sign?” women just roll their eyes as soon as they hear it ---
**Author:** ![dapg01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b3f665/32.png) [@dapg01](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dapg01)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2009, 6:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-help-with-opening-sets-plz/29524/4 "2009-06-03T06:21:24Z")
I would say that opener has a few major flaws other than sounding like the typical “don’t I know you?”: 1. She gets the impression that you make out with girls and don’t even remember who they are. It does the opposite of social proofing you since you obviously never saw the girl again. 2. It doesn’t look good that you made out with a girl who was so drunk that she ended up throwing up or that she threw up because of your kiss. 3. No girl is going to want to kiss a guy who got barfed in his mouth. Even if the whole thing is meant as a joke, certain images and associations are made. You would have to recover from them all night. ---
**Author:** ![dapg01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b3f665/32.png) [@dapg01](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dapg01)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2009, 7:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-help-with-opening-sets-plz/29524/5 "2009-06-03T07:13:28Z")
How’s this: “Hey guys let me ask you something. Do you girls believe [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) work?” (Answer) “The reason I’m asking is because I have this friend who swears that he bought a cologne online that contains them and that his sex life has trippled since he started using them” (They say they either think it’s crap or think it’s all true) "Well what I keep telling him is that it’s all about the confidence he has now, not the cologne, but he insists. I actually have to go back and meet him in a minute becuase he promised that if I let him spray me with it before we went out he would buy me drinks all night, but he’s busy talking to some girl right now! I almost washed it off, but I told him I would keep it all night and it actually smells pretty good. (They are gonna want to smell) “Ok, fine, but you only get one sniff, I don’t want you guys attacking me in the middle of the bar!” Make sure you sprayed it on your neck so they can get close. Lol if it works or not I don’t know, but it’s worth a try and it’d be interesting to see what they answer lol! ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2009, 9:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-help-with-opening-sets-plz/29524/6 "2009-06-03T09:48:45Z")
That was just creepy and disgusting. It also reflects badly on you. If someone would puke in your mouth its a clear sign they are not into you and would drop your status like a rock. Ewwwwww Tisha ---
**Author:** ![basics\_of\_sena](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/258eb7/32.png) [@basics\_of\_sena](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/basics_of_sena)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2009, 11:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-help-with-opening-sets-plz/29524/7 "2009-06-03T23:18:25Z")
> [@dapg01](#): > > How’s this: > “Hey guys let me ask you something. Do you girls believe pheromones work?” > (Answer) > “The reason I’m asking is because I have this friend who swears that he bought a cologne online that contains them and that his sex life has trippled since he started using them” > (They say they either think it’s crap or think it’s all true) > "Well what I keep telling him is that it’s all about the confidence he has now, not the cologne, but he insists. I actually have to go back and meet him in a minute becuase he promised that if I let him spray me with it before we went out he would buy me drinks all night, but he’s busy talking to some girl right now! I almost washed it off, but I told him I would keep it all night and it actually smells pretty good. > (They are gonna want to smell) > “Ok, fine, but you only get one sniff, I don’t want you guys attacking me in the middle of the bar!” > > Make sure you sprayed it on your neck so they can get close. Lol if it works or not I don’t know, but it’s worth a try and it’d be interesting to see what they answer lol! Thank you all for your responses. However I still find it hard to open women ,could be Approach Anxiety but maybe if I have solid material on me I wouldn’t be so shy. Are there any resources out there that focus on funny openers. I often find guys who open with some funny line have a greater chance of scoring with them, however there are a few exceptions ; Anyway thank you once again ---
**Author:** ![djandarial](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/djandarial/32/1667_2.png) [@djandarial](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/djandarial)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2009, 1:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-help-with-opening-sets-plz/29524/8 "2009-06-04T01:13:12Z")
That was sick,… and sad… ---
**Author:** ![ElectraComplex](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/electracomplex/32/1257_2.png) [@ElectraComplex](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ElectraComplex)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2009, 2:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-help-with-opening-sets-plz/29524/9 "2009-06-04T02:44:34Z")
Whatever happened to … Hey aren’t you that girl that spilled her drink on me last week? no? Must be your eyes she had nice eyes like yours but she left before we could have a proper conversation. Can I see your eyes? Oh wow yours are way prettier my mistake. don’t suppose I could buy you a drink or you’d like to dance? K I’m cheesy.. rofl. You know what generally gets to me is a funny laid back guy with a good smile thats not too pushy.That and a good back rub. Vomit is only sexy to a scattist save that for a fetish convention. Oh and I’m a sweet girl so personally I rarely turn down a hug if its offered with open arms and a smile.Especially if someone smells nice 😛 Which is odd because at clubs I’m about as friendly as a rabid porcupine. Too many drunk guys trying to get a POA. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![dapg01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b3f665/32.png) [@dapg01](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dapg01)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2009, 5:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-help-with-opening-sets-plz/29524/10 "2009-06-04T05:36:30Z")
I thought the phero routine I wrote (really just a mixture of the spell routine, the cologne routine and the Herman name routine) was pretty harmless lol! ---
**Author:** ![fantisto](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fantisto/32/2102_2.png) [@fantisto](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/fantisto)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 7:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-help-with-opening-sets-plz/29524/11 "2009-06-07T07:24:38Z")
> [@M\_P](#): > > Throwing up isn’t exactly attractive so you’re right on that one..lol. I would say try to find something about her that’s a conversation starter…something she’s wearing, or whatever she’s doing at that point. i would agree M\_P’s post, try to initiating with something related to her, what she is wearing/doing. eg1: you: Hi/excuse me, would you mind me asking you one question? Her: yep, go on! You: Can you tell me what does it mean to wear a ring on the finger as you do? Does that mean you’re engaged/married/or something else? Her: nope, just for fun. why? You: nothing, hmmm honestly I am very interested in you but I was doubt if you are married… eg2: Recognize what special she is wearing. you: Hi/excuse me, would you mind me asking you one question? Her: yep, why not! You: honestly, I have found that the xxxx you are wearing is so nice, and would like to buy it one more my younger sister’s birthday… the rest you should initiate yourself… And make the conversation last long and interesting… Remember being polite with a SOFT smile on your face and remain the eye contact with your target.