# Somechick's Journal **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Journals\ **Created:** [October 5, 2011, 8:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/somechicks-journal/52679 "2011-10-05T20:28:18Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 24
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2016, 5:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/somechicks-journal/52679/462 "2016-12-20T17:34:55Z")
Hey chick! Did you submit a ticket about this? I’ll notify the team but I need you to submit a ticket too so that there will be something on record. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![somechick03862](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/278dde/32.png) [@somechick03862](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/somechick03862)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2016, 9:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/somechicks-journal/52679/463 "2016-12-20T21:55:17Z")
> [@Dee\_A](#): > > Hey chick! Did you submit a ticket about this? I’ll notify the team but I need you to submit a ticket too so that there will be something on record. 🙂 I did write last week and ask about it, then it said it shipped the next day. I have been impatiently waiting since, but I just wrote again. I got a confirmation that it was sent to the support team. Hopefully this will help. I am dying over here…LOL ---
**Author:** ![somechick03862](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/278dde/32.png) [@somechick03862](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/somechick03862)\ **Post date:** [December 21, 2016, 2:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/somechicks-journal/52679/464 "2016-12-21T02:46:04Z")
Not a very satisfying answer, considering how awesome customer service usually is… ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [December 21, 2016, 12:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/somechicks-journal/52679/465 "2016-12-21T12:06:50Z")
Ouch. ☹ I’m sure they’re doing their best out there. It’s just unfortunate that you happen to experience this during these times. ☹ ---
**Author:** ![somechick03862](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/278dde/32.png) [@somechick03862](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/somechick03862)\ **Post date:** [December 21, 2016, 1:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/somechicks-journal/52679/466 "2016-12-21T13:01:10Z")
> [@Dee\_A](#): > > Ouch. ☹ > > I’m sure they’re doing their best out there. It’s just unfortunate that you happen to experience this during these times. ☹ Well, if you tell me an order has ALREADY shipped, you can’t then tell me that you didn’t have the product I ordered… ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [December 22, 2016, 5:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/somechicks-journal/52679/467 "2016-12-22T05:39:11Z")
Oh! I didn’t know that was the answer. That is not a satisfying answer indeed. In both viewpoints. Anyway, I’ll try to help you in the background. I’ll send a barrage of reminders to the team about your order and will find out the real score about it also. I’m sorry I’m not a big help during these times. ☹ ---
**Author:** ![somechick03862](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/278dde/32.png) [@somechick03862](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/somechick03862)\ **Post date:** [December 22, 2016, 11:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/somechicks-journal/52679/468 "2016-12-22T11:42:25Z")
> [@Dee\_A](#): > > Oh! I didn’t know that was the answer. That is not a satisfying answer indeed. In both viewpoints. Anyway, I’ll try to help you in the background. I’ll send a barrage of reminders to the team about your order and will find out the real score about it also. I’m sorry I’m not a big help during these times. ☹ Dee, You ARE helpful! it helps just to know someone is listening! It’s just very frustrating because there are people who are already testing the oils, so how can they not have had them when they said that they had already shipped mine? And they still have not shipped! They are still just sitting there with a label on them waiting to be picked up. I know it’s probably not a big deal in the grand scheme of business but when I spend hundreds of dollars, I kind of want to get what I ordered. If you don’t have them, I will wait, but TELL me that they won’t ship until whenever it is that you WILL have them. Don’t say that they have, then that you didn’t have them, then that they will go out tomorrow, then don’t ship them out tomorrow…I can’t test and report on what I don’t have! It may seem silly, but I am really stressed, work SUCKS, my nephew is having a 6.5 hour surgery this morning on his neck, so he will be able to hold his head up so he can breath better, and it’s Christmas, so my mind is going NUTS! I could have really used the [P130](https://a314.com/product/p130/) to help me not go crazy, but it isn’t getting here any time soon… ☹ ---
**Author:** ![somechick03862](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/278dde/32.png) [@somechick03862](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/somechick03862)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2016, 3:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/somechicks-journal/52679/469 "2016-12-23T03:23:19Z")
And now I feel like I have just pissed off the powers that be and I am never going to get this order…it is still not on its way… ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2016, 12:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/somechicks-journal/52679/470 "2016-12-23T12:48:27Z")
> [@somechick03862](#): > > And now I feel like I have just pissed off the powers that be and I am never going to get this order…it is still not on its way… It will never happen. 🙂 I don’t have an update yet from the team but I am confident and can say with certainty that pissed ptb’s is never the reason of the delay. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![somechick03862](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/278dde/32.png) [@somechick03862](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/somechick03862)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2016, 1:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/somechicks-journal/52679/471 "2016-12-23T13:09:32Z")
> [@Dee\_A](#): > > It will never happen. 🙂 I don’t have an update yet from the team but I am confident and can say with certainty that pissed ptb’s is never the reason of the delay. 🙂 Maybe not, but this is ridiculous at this point. It was supposed to ship out 10 days ago. If you don’t have something TELL me, but I would have broken this up into two orders so I could have at least had the regular stuff. And now there is no way this is getting to me before next week unless you get Santa Claus to drop it off on his way by…I am beyond stressed, scared about my nephew, working insane amounts of hours and I really just wanted to do something nice for myself. ☹☹☹☹☹☹☹☹☹☹ ---
**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\ **Post date:** [December 25, 2016, 9:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/somechicks-journal/52679/472 "2016-12-25T09:27:23Z")
> [@somechick03862](#): > > Maybe not, but this is ridiculous at this point. It was supposed to ship out 10 days ago. If you don’t have something TELL me, but I would have broken this up into two orders so I could have at least had the regular stuff. > And now there is no way this is getting to me before next week unless you get Santa Claus to drop it off on his way by…I am beyond stressed, scared about my nephew, working insane amounts of hours and I really just wanted to do something nice for myself. > ☹☹☹☹☹☹☹☹☹☹ have you tried any St.Johns Wart or 5-HTP? I know this is not your solution, but think it can really help you in the mean time and is at most local stores. ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [December 26, 2016, 1:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/somechicks-journal/52679/473 "2016-12-26T13:39:32Z")
At least they heeded my pleas. After 2 days, the package is moving. 🙂 They failed to notify me though, that’s why I told you on the 23rd that I have no update yet coming from them. But apparently, the package was picked up on that very same day, two days after I promised to help you in the background. Merry Christmas to you, 'chick, and to your family. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![somechick03862](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/278dde/32.png) [@somechick03862](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/somechick03862)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2016, 4:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/somechicks-journal/52679/474 "2016-12-28T16:29:34Z")
My order finally arrived! My [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) leaked so I am not going to have as much of my mix as usual but I will make do. I think I am going to try the mix I had been testing( Instant Shine/Instant Openness), which I had good results with, with some added P74 to see if it will make a more rounded mix. Open people up, make them happy and get some bonding in there, too. I ordered a couple of the perfume oils, DHC and LAM. Not sure when I will test them. Of course I want to throw some on and go to work today, but that’s probably not the best idea. Although, if you have read my journal, you know I don’t always do what is best. I have been known to wear a lot of cops to work… 😉 There was no freebie in my order, so I won’t be testing anything that I don’t already have some knowledge of, except the oils. Recently I have had a mild flirtation with someone I have known for years. It’s fun, but I know it won’t go anywhere. I don’t think I am his type. I have seen his ex-wife and she is tall, thin and beautiful. He comes in the store frequently, though he did just buy a house and shop in Maine, so he isn’t a mile down the street anymore. Yesterday he was teasing me, to see if he could make me blush, which he has a particular knack for, and I stuck my tongue out at him…LOL…and he said if I knew what he was thinking I would slap him, so he did get the blush he was looking for. I am not quite sure why I did it, it just happened. But it made me laugh to see his face, so it brightened my day. I have to go jump in the shower so I can get to work. I am working a later shift than normal today, which I am not sure about, but it keeps me from having to work with Bitchy for too long. She was terrible to work with yesterday. Maybe having my mix back will help. I haven’t had any for a long time. She usually responds well to it. Let’s hope, because I don’t want to quit! ---
**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2016, 9:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/somechicks-journal/52679/475 "2016-12-28T21:30:57Z")
Did you get your [P130](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p130/)? I sure hope so! I have those 2 oils to! I will test them when I can. I can’t wait to read more, have a good shift. I am working night myself so be safe. ---
**Author:** ![somechick03862](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/278dde/32.png) [@somechick03862](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/somechick03862)\ **Post date:** [December 29, 2016, 1:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/somechicks-journal/52679/476 "2016-12-29T01:47:55Z")
> [@justintime469](#): > > Did you get your P130? I sure hope so! I have those 2 oils to! I will test them when I can. I can’t wait to read more, have a good shift. I am working night myself so be safe. I did get my [P130](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p130/), I didn’t wear it to work today, but I imagine I will need a bit of it tonight. Lately I have had a terrible time shutting my mind down at night. I just overthink every.single.thing! It’s so annoying! The P130 stops me from doing that as well as easing my anxiety. Fortunately I missed the flirty customer (Jim) today. I had a sort of pervy dream about him last night and I know if he had come in, I would have been blushing like an idiot! I can’t wait to try the oils! I am not sure how crazy I want to get with them since the bottles are SOooooo small and sooooo expensive! How many drops do you think I should start with? Maybe I should rejoin Match, see if I can find a date and try them out…? nah, probably not. I don’t think I want to waste them on anyone I have seen Match send me 😉 ---
**Author:** ![somechick03862](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/278dde/32.png) [@somechick03862](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/somechick03862)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2016, 2:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/somechicks-journal/52679/477 "2016-12-30T14:26:53Z")
I tried 2 sprays of my newest mix (3:1:1 ratio of Instant Shine, [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and P74). Sprayed them to the front of my throat due to wearing long sleeves. I think today I will wear short sleeves and split one spray between my forearms. I think I get a good cloud with that app point. I am hoping to get Bitchy to lighten up. I didn’t work with her much yesterday, so she seemed unaffected. This sucks, because she has been so bad lately that my co-worker (R) and I are both thinking of leaving. I have worked there since 2000, so I really like it there. She has just mostly ruined the job for me. Anyway, I wore this mix yesterday and I certainly got more open conversation. R has a whole bevy of little sex friends, and one of them was in yesterday. he’s been a customer for a couple of years and I always got along well with him. So we were talking about snow plowing, because it was going to snow. Of course, the plowboy(Scott) came up. I told him I thought Scott was just stupid not to at least have dinner with me once and see what happened. We had a flirtation for years, had seriously hot chemistry and we liked each other. I said, “I don’t think I am that hideous..” and R’s sex buddy said "Are you kidding? you’re fucking gorgeous!’ Now I know that is subjective, not everyone finds the same thing attractive, but I have been told recently that I was too pretty and that is why guys are afraid to approach me. I think that’s bull because I don’t think there is such a thing as too pretty, and if there is, I am not it! I kind of wish I had a picture here, so you could see what I am talking about! LOL The conversation got sexual from there, it was funny sexual, though, not like we were going to hook up. But he had never talked to me like that, or for so long before this mix. I had other customers stay and chat and compliment me a lot. I heard that I was funny a lot yesterday. Anyway, the mix does seem to get people talking. We shall see how it does today ---
**Author:** ![somechick03862](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/278dde/32.png) [@somechick03862](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/somechick03862)\ **Post date:** [December 31, 2016, 1:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/somechicks-journal/52679/478 "2016-12-31T01:02:16Z")
Sooooooooo, in my quest to make Bitchy less bitchy, I decided to try the claims that the new oils make anything you wear diffuse better, thus work better…in theory, if I used the new oils, my mix would work better. Now, that is great! Except, the oils that I have are Drive Him Crazy and Lust After Me…a little sexual for my purposes, but what harm can ONE drop do? Applied one single tiny little eensy drop of one of them, I do not even remember which one(how bad is that for a supposed reporting user?!) on the inside of my forearm. Split the drop between my two arms, then sprayed one spray of my 3:1:1 mix of Instant Shine/[Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/)/P74 and split it between my arms. The atmosphere at work was quite light and carefree, lots of laughs, I didn’t work much with Bitchy, but she did laugh when I gave her a small gift and said it was the first laugh she’d had all week. Co-Worker R and I were in a pretty light, happy mood. She keeps smacking my ass lately, and she did threaten to do that today. So, yesterday I had admitted to her that I had a dream about the customer I had the flirtation with, his name is, unfortunately, Jim. I was hoping I wouldn’t see him too soon, so when I did, the dream wouldn’t be fresh in my mind and I would be able to look him in the eye again. We saw him drive in and I jokingly said I was going to go hide in the cooler. She laughed and said no, but I should at least put my sweater on so he wouldn’t be able to stare at my boobs quite so easily. That was the moment my boss decided to come out and send R on her break. I couldn’t even pretend to be busy elsewhere, I was going to have to wait on him. And of course, R and I were laughing when he walked in, and he started teasing us. She left and I was still trying to control my laughter, because I was embarrassed about where my mind was taking me. The boss and Jim were giving me shit, so delightful little IO made me blurt out, “okay, let’s just get this out of the way, I had a pornographic dream about you the other night” The boss cracked up and said “Oh boy!” . Jim asked if it was any good! I said it was, and he laughed and said “sometimes dreams come true!” There was some more teasing then he brought his new gun in to show me. He respectfully asked my boss if it was okay before he did it, and he didn’t bring it in loaded. But it sure was pretty!!! 🙂 On his way out, he said again “Remember, sometimes dreams do come true!” Now I will never be able to look him in the eye again!! For the rest of the day, there was a ton of sexual innuendo flying around, from people I expect it from and from people I do NOT expect it from. The general atmosphere of the afternoon was pervy. I don’t know if I want to say it was the one drop of the LAM/DHC, but if that oil does make anything else work better, than it quite possibly made the IO work VERY well, because people were totally speaking their minds even if it was wildly inappropriate! I don’t know if I should try this mix again with the oil, or keep trying it alone. I will think about it over the next few days. I am off until Tuesday!! YAY!!! I am going to try to have some fun with my kids this weekend, next weekend I have another tattoo appointment and I think the weekend after I am going to try to take the kids to the mountains to see the Ice Castle in Lincoln. I am still shaking my head that I TOLD him I had a dream about him. No details though…😉 ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [December 31, 2016, 3:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/somechicks-journal/52679/479 "2016-12-31T03:54:10Z")
For sure, he’s daydreaming about that dream of yours now. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2017, 4:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/somechicks-journal/52679/480 "2017-01-03T16:06:04Z")
Awesome results, there lady 🙂. I guess 2017 is gonna be a great year for you. You deserve it. ---
**Author:** ![somechick03862](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/278dde/32.png) [@somechick03862](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/somechick03862)\ **Post date:** [January 4, 2017, 2:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/somechicks-journal/52679/481 "2017-01-04T02:56:47Z")
After much consideration, I decided to try using a single drop of oil again today, with one spray of my mix ( 3:1:1 Instant Shine/[Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/)/P74). I actually used 3 sprays, but one to the arm where I used the drop of oil, and two to the throat. I took note of which oil I used today. It was the LAM. I don’t notice any scent to it, I know it’s a stealth mix, so that is good. I wanted to see if it would diffuse the mix and make Bitchy, well, less bitchy! She was certainly in a good mood today and considering R got stopped for speeding and discovered that she was driving on a suspended license and registration for not paying a speeding ticket, a good mood was a major miracle! R was on the phone for the first 45 minutes I was at work today and she was on before I got there. So, having Bitchy not be bitchy is huge. I would say she was picking up on the mix. I usually only use 2 sprays but I really wanted some levity today, because Bitchy did just lose a niece to cancer and she has been sad about that. I wanted to make her less bitchy but also pick her up a little if I could. She told stories and joked with us more than she has in quite a while. My nephew is in a rehab facility and only off the ventilator for short periods of time. He knows now that he is paralyzed and he is trying to cope with that. I am still worried about him, he isn’t really out of the woods. He had a punctured lung that they didn’t know about for the first couple of days after his accident and he had pneumonia. He was running a very high fever and they didn’t know why (?), but it finally went down. He is just 21 years old and he will never walk again ☹ Customers engaged in conversation quite easily today. Lots of compliments on my hair, shirt (plain gray t shirt…?)and nail polish. Lots of pet names, hun, doll, sweetie, gorgeous (LOL!)…I actually kind of hate being called stupid names most of the time, unless it’s my own sweetie(when I have one) calling me that, but today it didn’t bother me at all. I felt pretty happy, and I had a migraine and a sore back all weekend, so I was grumpy most of the time. Today after putting on my mix, I was pretty light and cheerful. This seems to last in the five to six hours range before it starts to wear off, which it seems to do slowly. I think it wears off slower with the oil, to be honest. I am going to try tomorrow with 3 sprays but no oil, see if it makes a difference with Bitchy. Jim came in today and of course, he felt the need to tease me and make me blush. Told me to stop dreaming about him, but then said he should probably be flattered and asked if there was any screaming or eyes rolling back, said you only did good if you could see the whites of their eyes, then when I looked at him, he was rolling his eyes back in mock ecstasy…lol…goof ball! He was walking out as a group of guys that work together came in. The boss, Chris, is a really good guy. He told me he would kidnap me someday and take my shooting with them. He is one of the few people I will talk politics with, because I know I can. Anyway, Chris and crew all know Jim, so they all speak as they pass each other. Chris gets his lunch and when I went to ring him up, he is smirking at me. So I asked him, if he heard any of that and then realized he wasn’t inside and said no, he couldn’t have, and he said “No, but I am very observant!” . He saw me all giddy when Jim walked out and figured out that was why…so now there is no way he is ever going to let that go! The whole crew has been trying to get me a date for years! But they are barking up the wrong tree with Jim. I don’t think I am his type at all. He is fun to flirt with and jest with, but I am not going to be some random piece of ass for someone who only thinks of me as such. I deserve better, and after feeling like that with Scott, I would rather stay home. I will enjoy the flirting, but I am not falling in to bed with him. He’s a scrawny, skinny thing anyway. I’d probably break him… [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/somechicks-journal/52679.md?page=23) [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/somechicks-journal/52679.md?page=25)